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Some people say I am enthusiastic, some say I am indifferent; Some say I am easygoing, and some say I am aloof. In fact, I am not enthusiastic, but I am easily moved; I am sincere, but I will choose to alienate after being cheated; I am persistent, but I will take back everything after being injured; I am very ordinary, but I also have my own self-esteem and lofty. No matter in real life or walking on the virtual network, it is always a real me walking through the fireworks world. I always think that people should treat each other sincerely. People should not be treated in a hierarchical way according to their material wealth. It is your business to have money, and I will not expect you to help me. I can’t help you even if you have no money. I can only comfort and encourage you spiritually and sincerely pray that the better you pass. Therefore, your rich and poor will not be my criterion for choosing friends. I said, in fact, I just like writing, learning and writing all the way, and recording my own voice truly. I am not a talented woman, but an ordinary woman who loves writing. Therefore, your literary literacy is not my criterion for choosing friends. Everyone has his or her own writing style, and everyone has his or her own advantages. I will learn from everyone, learn from his or her strengths, and improve myself in learning. If I can help you, that is the most gratifying thing for me. I don’t like chatting, and I also wrote a note after the net name and refused to chat. But if you have something serious to ask me, as long as I know, I will know everything and say everything. As long as I can do it, I will do my best to help. I think I am not a passionate person, probably because I love peace and lack enthusiasm in my heart. But if you treat me well, I will give you two points, three points, even four points and five points. Treating each other sincerely is my principle for people. If it is false and artificial, it is better to leave each other’s world without intersection and avoid each other’s unhappiness and worry. I used to treat some people who touched me very sincerely, but now I am relatively speechless with them and no longer contact with them. Occasionally, I will think of it, but I will not recall it deeply, let alone contact actively. As for the sincerity I once paid, I never regret it. Because I believe that they treated me sincerely at that time, so they thought that the fate of each other had ended and they had settled down to the end of the world. I am a little dissocial. My family, colleagues and friends all know that I never use colored chopsticks, bowls with colors in the bowls, or dishes that color the rice, when buying pork, I don’t want the pork with quarantine color stamp on its skin to be physically unsociable, but also mentally unsociable. Don’t like artificial people; Don’t like arrogant people; Don’t like peremptory people. Hate hypocritical people; Hate two-sided people. He is a person with strong love and hate, and likes and dislikes are not hidden. Although I am an extremely ordinary person, I have a very heavy psychological cleanliness. There are not many people who can enter the eyes, and there are even fewer people who can enter the heart. As for the people and things that I have identified, I will spare no effort to pay without considering the consequences. My life creed is: either don’t do it, you should go all out if you want to do it; Or don’t choose, if you choose, you should persist in giving. One thing, or don’t do it. If you do it, you should give full play to your abilities and complete it with your most perfect charm. A person’s ability is limited, but it can be gradually improved. Only by trying his best to develop his talent now can he be promoted in the future. Having the ability but not giving full play is disrespect to oneself. Therefore, we should try our best and devote ourselves to what we believe. Even if you can’t succeed in the end, then you have paid all your efforts, and you will not regret it. In the vast sea of people, there are not many people who care about you, and few people who can enter your heart. Those who can enter your heart and care about you happen to be the water source in the desert and the Pearl in the sea of waves, belongs to rare treasure. How can you not cherish it?! Treat the identified friends with great sincerity; Treat the families of the closest relatives with understanding, tolerance and cherish; For the identified beloved, they will ignore the consequences, put down their self-esteem and give persistently. Some people say that persistent people are easy to get hurt because they are too careful. Persistent people will be hurt deeply once they are injured, because they devote all their true feelings. After a persistent person is injured, he will not hurt others, but only curl up back to his castle and lick the wound alone. For the friends who hurt him, choose to be alienated; For the relatives who hurt him, choose to bear silently; For the beloved who hurt him, choose to block his heart. Ordinary as me, with self-esteem. I will not trample on others’ self-esteem, which is the basic point of one’s survival. I know that only those who respect others can win the respect of others. Everyone has a crystal dazzling heart, but it is difficult to warm and fragile. It takes a long time to warm a heart, and a broken heart may be difficult to warm through the time you spend your whole life; It is easy to break a heart, once the broken heart is broken, it will be broken and can no longer be repaired. Anyone who breaks his heart will never want to live in pain. Therefore, I will never deliberately hurt a person’s heart. Even if you do not intend to hurt yourself, you will feel guilty and uneasy. If a person’s self-esteem is hurt, he will feel inferior to the extreme, depressed to the extreme, and even lose confidence. Because of this, self-esteem cannot be trampled. Self-Esteem also from weight self-love. Only by paying attention to your own words and deeds, not flattering or vulgar, can you not be bored. Only by caring for your reputation and honesty can you trust others. Only by being neither humble nor arrogant, nor flattering, can you ensure your personality and let others respect you naturally. For those who respect me, I will give equal respect. For those who do not know how to respect me, I will regard him as a person who does not understand self-esteem and self-respect, I will ask him to disappear in my world without hesitation. Some people think they are rich and disdain the poor. In fact, what’s your big deal? You have money, have you ever helped others? Others have no money, have he ever asked you for alms for his three meals a day? You have money, but you just live a better life in material life. It is useless to have nothing to do with others. What is your spirit? For this kind of people, no matter relatives or friends, I disdain to associate with them. If you say I have no money, I will only smile brightly. Some people write good articles with outstanding literary talent, but they are supercilious, sniffing at the words written by others attentively. No matter how good the literary talent is, I don’t want to make friends with people like this. Admiration for your literary talent is appreciation and learning from you. You can not give directions to others, but you can not trample on others’ self-esteem and belittle your own personality. Throughout the world, which literary giants will belittle others to improve themselves? Nothing is a person who is modest and cautious. Bullies disdain to make friends; Flatters eyebrows and flatters things, disdain to do; Lowers disdain to do; Flatters and disdain to say ordinary, but not without personality; Mediocrity, but it will not be without character. I will stick to my self-esteem and lofty, and spend my ordinary life calmly. Some people say I am enthusiastic, some say I am indifferent; Some say I am easygoing, and some say I am aloof. In fact, I am not enthusiastic, but I am easily moved; I am sincere, but I will choose to alienate after being cheated; I am persistent, but I will take back everything after being injured; I am very ordinary, but I also have my own self-esteem and lofty. No matter in real life or walking on the virtual network, it is always a real me walking through the fireworks world. Spring elimination snow

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