xiao diao

Since I wrote that article [Xiao Diao reminds me of my 18 years old], my aunt has always wanted to write something more for you. I saw what you wrote that day, and you mentioned my little aunt twice in the article. Thinking of your wandering life and amazing talent, you have been walking fearlessly and impatiently. You suddenly said that you wanted to slow down and walk slowly. Aunt really wanted to cry, I want to have another conversation with you with a pen. I don’t know why I put it down. Until yesterday, I went to see your photo. That photo of you in the background of rape flowers is really good. It is totally different from the previous temperament and image, he is a melancholy and quiet singer, singing songs incompatible with the world with your maverick. If you like, I really want to post that photo in this article. Under your wild appearance, you have a careful heart, your black and white photos, the test papers you answered, the square characters you wrote, the stubborn ponies you wrote, aunt once said: I didn’t believe that horse was a pictographic character until I saw the horse character you wrote. Those little horses ran forward stubbornly with their necks as you did. You walked out of Nanxin town full of rape flowers, carrying a heavy guitar, and of course, the legendary big cat with tiger skin standing on your neck. When you walk from one city to another, I know they are not the destination, but the station where you rest. Your road is all the way to the northwest, which is the mysterious Potala under the pure blue sky, it is the Lancang River flowing out of Heaven and The Motuo that many people exchange their lives for freedom. Go to Motuo, that is your highest ideal at this stage. I know no one can stop you, even though the moon is red. You always call your mother to take care of Yue Hong, a Yue, a Hong. To be honest, I envy your mother and son. You treat each other as bosom friends at the same time. Only when you mention a Yue can you be happy and simple like a child. When I first met you, your name was: Flower walking freely. I will leave a message to you: you are indeed a flower, and you must walk freely. You immediately wrote in the Talk: Little aunt said: I am flowers, and you must walk freely. I know I should persuade you to slow down, but I know I can’t do it. Your experience and personality are destined to live a different life and live a desolate and painful youth. I can’t persuade you, but I can only quietly pay attention to all your dynamics. I hope you can slow down and try to accept that everything in this world is unhappy, disliked and displeased. Bad cynicism will hurt me, but sorry, I am the same as you. I don’t want to change it, and I can’t change it. From Kunming to Taian, to Yangzhou, is there Shanghai? And Liaoning Chaoyang. When you go to the morning sun, you must have gone with longing. I only remember that when you came back, in the galloping train, looking at the rain on the window, thousands of mountains and rivers camped in your heart, in Eyes backwards. Soon you wrote [need to walk slowly]. Looking at those calm words, I feel that you have really grown up. Another day, you said that you had a physical examination and had a backache. It seemed that the trip to Tibet would be postponed, which was also the meaning of Ah Yue. Somehow, I began to secretly rejoice in my heart. Maybe I didn’t want you to go to Tibet at such a young age in my subconscious mind. Tibet is a mysterious and distant place. To go there is to let the soul go to heaven and the body go to hell. It is enough for a man to go once in his life, not necessarily at the age of 21. You said: Go to Tibet without company or communication tools. In fact, as you know, that may not work at all. Although life is very short, it is a long walk. Don’t worry, walk slowly and watch quietly. Every day is the only day, and every road is irreplaceable. You should learn to enjoy it along the way, rather than go straight to the destination. You have been walking with your guitar on your back, singing those tired and firm songs. The days are long, the journey is long, and it goes slowly. I know that what a Yue gives you is advice, so does Aunt. You are you, sometimes cynic and sometimes literary. Even if you slow down, you will definitely reach the destination, because you are a boy coming out of Nanxin town, with the smell of rape flowers on your body, carrying your beloved guitar, walking and singing all the way, speak for your youth and dreams. You once wrote down your name on a piece of snow: Diao Konka. Spring elimination snow Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Presumptuous

Every Sunday, (I usually don’t go to work on Sunday) I would hide in the dormitory without going out of the house, and I was fixed as a real OTAKU by my roommates for a long time. Once the busy work stopped, I was just like a kite with a broken line and could not find the direction to do nothing. In a sound sleep, the sun had shone through the window to the edge of the bed. The Hot Light hurt my sleeping eyes. When I woke up from the hazy, my head felt very heavy as if I had slept for several centuries, it seems to make up for all the previous sleep arrears. I got up and pulled open the curtain with clogs, picked up the toothbrush and toothpaste, walked to the balcony lazily and simply washed it. I wiped my face with a towel soaked in clean water, and then walked into the room lazily, only to find that the roommates on the bed and bed were missing one by one. I felt that everything was unexpected and abnormal, so when looking at the screen of the mobile phone, I was shocked and said oh my God! It was already 13:15 in the afternoon, so I realized in a trance. Can I say that all this is caused by exhaustion? The heavy burden of cleaning up the dormitory fell on my shoulder again, so I picked up the dust and mop to clean every dusty corner inside and outside the dormitory thoroughly, the fresh dormitory space made me feel comfortable. The surface of the sun outside was hot like pouring oil, and the room became stuffy. I picked up the remote control and turned on the air conditioner, the cozy coolness is in my heart instantly. Everything is ready. Open the notebook to browse some gossip news and web pages or write about mood and post microblogs as usual, but TV plays on the internet take up most of my spare time, recently, a hit TV series “The story of sharing rent in Shenzhen” attracted my attention, but I couldn’t stop myself. After watching the first episode, I would associate with the plot of the next episode, and I was intoxicated with the joy of it, I have reached the point of forgetting to eat and sleep many times. When you close your eyes, you will think of the sunny and handsome hero song Xiaolei and the spirited heroine Hu Lili in the plot. Their feelings are full of twists and turns and are closely linked with each other. Maybe I am lonely and empty, spending some precious time on some unimportant things. No matter which TV play, the plots are always interspersed with emotions. The plots that often attract our attention are those ups and downs of emotions. Some things will become boring after being seen through. Every time I watch a TV play, I will have a fantasy of several seconds in my heart. Once that fantasy of several seconds falls into the sky, I will return to reality. In fact, I am not addicted to TV plays, so I just want to kill time by watching TV plays when I am idle, as for the obsession with the plot, it is also a kind of short-lived idea, which will fade or disappear gradually over time. When my ups and downs calm down, I will treat some things rationally. I will never hesitate and do nothing all the way, let alone squander time presumptuous, because I know the truth of one inch of time and one inch of gold. Everyone should have a dream in his heart. As long as he has a dream, his life will become full and meaningful, and he will not squander the time like gold blindly. I am a literary enthusiast, he should devote all his energy to the comprehension and creation of books, seize all the time in his spare time, and strive to go through the vast ocean of knowledge. Writing here, I seem to see the direction clearly from my lost path, and I am slowly on the right track, closing those gossip news and web pages, and closing my favorite TV series “Shenzhen shared rent”, sink down to abandon all the distracting thoughts in my heart and run to my creation career. Before creating, books are the nutrients needed in the green leaves of my inspiration. Before each creation, I have to read an article before writing, for me, reading is the best way to calm down. Only when I am calm can I have inspiration, and only when I have inspiration can I write the ideal words. The mood for flower is so short that it slips away quietly around us every moment. When time is farewell to us, do we notice that it is turning around and passing us. Only those who are careful will notice the trace of the transformation of time and the passing of time, so that we can experience the beauty of the past years. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Modern

This Friday, I went to return the books of politics and law, and took a bus to Beihang to find that the mobile phone was in the dormitory. What should I do? How can I contact classmate W without a mobile phone? Although the scale of the Graduate School of Politics and Law was not very large, I still couldn’t find him. The phone number was recorded on the phone, but not in my mind. There were only two or three numbers in my mind, now I’m a little regretful, because I rely too much on tools. What’s more, I had a small interview at six o’clock. The tutor of classmate W invited me to dinner at five o’clock. It must be too late to go back and get it. I simply sat in politics and law with my scalp stiff. I was worried about what to do when I stood in front, fortunately, I saw a sister on campus (let’s just call it that, there are all graduate students). She told me that I didn’t need a library card to return books in the library of their school, after listening, I put down my heart and returned the book on the last day of expiration. It took a lot of trouble to find the stop sign of 632. Although classmate W told me last time that the bus stop here was forced to be diverted because of the Xiaoyue River project, it was difficult to find it. It had to go through many turns to cross the Tucheng before I arrived. Besides, I never remember the road, so I can imagine the hardship this time. I walked around the Yuandadu ruins and walked for half an hour before arriving at Jimen Bridge, I was so tired that I was sweating all over. The weather in Beijing was really weird. Only a few days later, was it hot like this? I think it’s cold to wear down jacket when I borrow books, and it’s hot to wear a single coat when I return books, but now I really have a feeling of Jimen Yanliu, Yangyang, there are also some small flowers of various colors, which are worthy of the name of one of the eight scenes in Yanjing. This week, the spring is blooming, and the campus really adds a lot of color. I remember that I came back from Prince Gong’s Mansion last week, and I sighed with emotion when walking in the campus: the Agricultural University is actually quite good, with a feeling of idyllic scenery, simple and, it’s not too big or too small, just right. The city we live in has been very modern, with cages everywhere, especially when taking a bus, this feeling is most obvious. The government always encourages taking more buses and driving less private cars, but buses are too crowded, which makes people feel that having two legs is a sin. To some extent, the nature of schools and prisons is similar, which is not what I said, but what Foucault said. Therefore, it is quite relaxing to walk on these paths with Bauhinia, Elm, forsythia, clove, Magnolia and peach blossom occasionally. When I came back from the library at noon today, I saw that the Wintergreen beside Yong Road also grew green leaves. The White and withered old leaves of last year were being gradually squeezed out, and the already grown wintergreen was fluffy and loose, people can’t help touching all the way. I went to Peking University on Wednesday to chat with a classmate, complaining that I am in a state of confusion now. I don’t know how to go ahead and feel that it is meaningless to do anything, he criticized me that it was a professional disease of people who studied sociology. It was very appropriate to set a meaning in advance when doing anything. It was to the point with one word. Isn’t this the core idea of Weber? Indeed, even if you have to find a reason to lose weight to add meaning to your actions when you can’t get on the elevator and have to climb the stairs, you will feel ridiculous when you think about it. In Weber’s view, modernity is an inevitable trend. Science, religion and human beings are all rational. It is because of this rationality that modern people can not be imprisoned in their own cages, actually I think is a cocoon around oneself. Everything has to be calculated rationally, and everything has to have a meaning to support. Even death has to have a meaning. People are really tired. Therefore, every time after dinner, when there is no class in the afternoon, I will go to the playground with classmate P to see the green playground and those figures galloping in it, once in a while, a ball rolls to the feet, stopping, turning around and kicking them back, which is also a kind of happiness. Another time, we folded the leaflets we handed out into planes and flew on the playground. The competition saw who flew far away, humming “Paper Airplane”, which reminded many childhood memories, but we all know that we can’t go back, although it was a golden age. Last week, I heard Wang shaopan talking about Zen poems. I didn’t want to go there at first, but later I knew that he was a disciple of Nan Huaijin, so I went there at the end of the day. Very extreme language, so I didn’t hear much, but I remembered two poems, one of which was a room on the top of Qian Feng, and the old monk half a room with clouds. Last night, the clouds went with the wind and rain, which was not as idle as the old monk at the end; one is that Mannu went to Huangzhou barefoot and sold all the treasures across the white cattle. He was greedy for the people of the city to make the market, and went to the official building with songs and dances. I am so spirited and romantic that I hang Jade hooks on the bead curtain when the moon is cold. It’s clear but the time has come, and you can roll hydrangea. I like this sentence, which is more spirited and romantic. The Moon is cold and the bead curtain is hung with Jade hooks, so I wrote it down. Is harvest. Considering that I am can’t be an old monk, I have to recite words, read, write papers and make examination papers. Besides, the old monk must be a man. I went to the family area to buy fruits this evening. I saw a lot of flowers blossoming and wanted to go to the botanical garden again. But when I thought of my pile of things that I couldn’t finish, I couldn’t be refreshed, keep staying in the cage. If you are really bored, just embroider cross stitch. My orchid Bell is still far away from completion. It is estimated that it will be good to embroider it during the Spring Festival. I couldn’t understand the ancient embroideries before, especially after watching Xi Murong’s “embroideries”, I felt more pitiful of those sad ladies in the ancient boudoir, it is bleak enough to embroider my once hot youth with that cold needle. But now I understand that actually embroidering women will also have happiness. Think about that era, those weak women had a good expectation for love in the days before they became wives. Therefore, they sewed their expectations for love and their hopes for the future into the delicate stitches, without too much words revealing, they had their own feelings in them, so when I go to the quadrangle in Beijing, I like to see the places where those women who have not left the cabinet live. There is a different kind of gentleness, where the boudoir is soft and affectionate. Last week, I watched “The Lock bag”. At first, I thought that Miss Xue was too melodramatic and selective in the dowry. Later, I heard that she was afraid of going to Huachun in the year of flowing water, and she was in a different mood. It’s not because I ‘ve been looking for troubles, Ruyi Pearl didn’t exercise her hands, and she also felt that she could forgive her for carefully selecting patterns. The eldest husband can still lament that his ambition is not paid and he is old. Can the little girl be melodramatic in the fleeting youth? It’s too far away. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

[Powder

On the letter pad of years, there is a flowing green. The blue sky, like a thin cloud, purifies your eyes, making my heart quiet and warm. Children, only when I think of you, my mother’s heart will show a baby-like smile. I know that love with blood thicker than water can surpass any oath of eternal love. On your birthday today, my mother holds a pen and writes on this bright April, giving you deep blessings. Happy birthday, my dear handsome boy! The years are quiet, and the dream grows in the fragrant April. The spring with colorful flowers and colorful flowers contains a different kind of emotion because of your birthday. Holding a hint of faint Orchid fragrance, deep in your soul, quietly Recollect your growth, smile lightly, and happiness will overflow instantly. One year’s time is too short, and one year’s changes are too big. On the young sailing boat, you are marching forward rapidly. Dear handsome, you and tall, and 1 m 68, seventeen-year-old, than me a cut. Every time I stroll along Binhe Avenue in Dexing city, I always like to look at you. Even if I don’t say a word, my heart is also happy. Because watching your child grow up is a happy thing in itself. And you always like to tell me about chemical experiments and physical phenomena. In your mind, it seems to contain something different from other peers. Online games and youth idol dramas seem to be far away from you. Sometimes, my mother also wondered whether you were too mature. The Sunshine Youth originally belonged to you, and the fools originally belonged to your age group seemed to have passed. While I feel lucky secretly, I am also worried that I don’t really know you, your needs, your feelings and your growth are in the tunnel of time, mom grows up with you. In a flash, you are about to graduate from high school, and your mother is also going to send another graduating class away. My mother understands the hardship of being a student and the helplessness of boarding life. What mom can do is to give you the weekend as much as possible, buy you delicious food, cook delicious meals, accompany you to review your lessons, but always feel that the weekend time is too short, not careful, mom saw your back when you went to school again. Our life is like an endless river, roaring to pursue everything we want. I have never thought about or asked what we want? I remembered that when my mother was in high school, in order to take the college entrance examination, she fought at night with candles and danced with the chicken. The Black Years always left a place in her heart. At that time, my mother was also imagining that if one day I could grow up, I would be free, but I had never imagined the cost of freedom. But my child, mother’s greatest hope is that you can grow up healthily and happily, safely and happily. Therefore, no matter where you are, Mom will always care about you. Do you believe in telepathy? You were at school last week and had a bad stomach. At first, you didn’t expect much. You didn’t see a doctor or call us. My silly child must take good care of himself at any time. Haven’t I told you again and again? If you can’t take care of yourself well, I will be angry. Later, when you called me and told me, I was very anxious. After my mother took you to see a doctor, the doctor said there was not much big deal, so I felt a little relieved. But I still called your father again and again, asking him to ask your teacher and your situation. Later, I was surprised to find that my stomach hurt so much that I couldn’t sleep at midnight. Two days later, nothing happened. I don’t know if this is because I miss you too much. My handsome boy, you are already a big child. Sometimes, we have to learn to know ourselves, to take care of ourselves and to take care of our relatives. Children, this year is a choice of college entrance examination that you will face in your life. What does this mean? Mom doesn’t want to use any preaching language. Mom just wants to say, children, believe in ourselves, as long as we work hard, we can remember an unforgettable and brilliant stroke in the journey of youth. Mom also believes in you, believing that you will have a blue sky like April. Therefore, children, you must combine work and rest, strengthen physical exercise, and read popular science books that you are interested in when you have time. Remember, life and study are equally important, and you need to use your mind to behave and do things. My child, today, my mother has talked a lot again. In fact, you also know that my mother’s exhortation will never feel much more. Because, with my dear handsome boy, my mother’s day is April in the world! Children, today is your birthday. Let’s bless ourselves and our health together! Bless our safety! May my dear handsome boy have a happy birthday! Health forever! Like (prose editor: indifferent) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Flowers

On the rockery covered with creeper, a blooming rose grew unexpectedly. In this spring season, it inevitably makes people shine at the moment and even have some surprises. On the rockery behind the house, Creeper is growing crazily, almost covering the rockery walls. Looking around, the green waves are rippling, and the drunkenness is strong. Some time ago, when I was appreciating this refreshing green, I was surprised to find that a pink flower was hidden in the green leaves of Na Cui. The flower is similar to the Chinese rose flower, so I guessed its name accordingly. The branches of flowers have long been surrounded by Creeper and disappeared. That flower is so lonely and open, which seems too small in a large green leaf and is not easy to be perceived. If I hadn’t admired that delicate green leaf, and my eyes were always wandering on the rockery, surely I wouldn’t have this great discovery. As the saying goes: red flowers still need green leaves to help. Only against the green leaves can red flowers show their nobility and beauty. Only with the embellishment of red flowers can the green leaves shed its soft beauty and charm. However, the green in front of us was too strong and unobtrusive, which almost submerged the existence of red flowers. On the contrary, there was no charm of red flowers and green leaves reflecting each other. In my spare time, I often stand on the balcony, overlooking the glowing green and looking for the enduring red. Unconsciously, I felt pity and reverence for flowers. The flowers bloom hard and tenacious. The rockery was originally a Shale Hill. In order to save the trouble of opening the mountain and splitting the land, the developer poured a thick layer of cement slurry on the surface, which was called rockery. Rockery is hard and barren. Developers planted trees on the hillside and creeper on the mountain wall. I don’t know whether this Rose was planted by the worker’s master unintentionally or intentionally. Now there is no significance of research. Anyway, it has taken root and sprouted there and blossomed. To grow on the mountain wall, first you have to put the root into the hard land under your feet, then you have to compete with the vigorous creeper for nourishment and moisture, and finally you can bloom the flowers of life, although the flower seems insignificant in the dense leaves. Flowering is the instinct of green flowering plants. In the blooming season, these plants seem to have excessive hormones, which are so charming and charming. They are fully displaying the beauty of life and sublimating the meaning of existence. The flowering of this rose may be much simpler. It may only be conveying the message of life to the outside world, but in any case, it survived and blossomed in such a harsh environment, this itself is a gratifying thing. The flower was a little thin and weak, like a child standing on tiptoe, watching the outside world above the leaves, dancing against the wind sometimes and laughing at the sun sometimes. I used to lie on the balcony in order to overlook the dazzling green. Now, I am looking up at the flower that inspires people to forge ahead. I blamed myself for not watering and fertilizing it, but praying for it silently in my heart. The flower seems to be through humanity, and it is always flowery there. When the weather is sunny, the petals curl up a little haggard; When it rains, the eyebrows are tender and plump; When it is late at night, the flowers fall asleep with the breeze; When it is dawn, the flowers spread incense with birds. A few days later, the flower began to wither and finally thanked. I felt a little pity. Flowering and fading are the everlasting truth in nature, but I think the tenacious flowering period of this Chinese Rose should be longer. When there are no flowers, I always feel there is something missing in my heart. Therefore, I often went to the balcony and stared at the place where flowers once bloomed. These days, I found that the colorful butterfly seemed to become sentimental, and I had to linger in the flower-thanked place every day, dancing for a while and staying at the tip of the leaf for a while, it took a long time to fly to other places. Until yesterday, I was surprised to find that there was a small red flower, which just bloomed from the flower bud, as pink as a newborn baby. Looking at the balcony, the flower seemed to be close to my eyes at a distance of seven or eight meters. For that flower, I have no previous expectation, because it has already blossomed in my heart. Praise in 2015.4.23 (prose editor: indifferent) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Balcony

The sun was swept by the long wind and dust of spring, wiping away its original brilliance, just like a silver mirror, hanging in the East sky of April; Even the mirror was not as good as it was, muddling away and not invisible, you can also turn a blind eye to it. Therefore, the sundries on the balcony sparkled, presenting their colors and hearing their whispers. A wooden square armchair that I often sit on is full of clothes, cotton-padded jacket to be washed, leaf green sweater and purplish red coat for my wife. There is also a new outfit whose son seems to smell of firecrackers. Squeeze them, then you can sit down and support them. This orange chair was moved in the old house and was one of the houses we didn’t buy much when we were newly married. In the late 1990 s, there was a new bed, a new cabinet with a single door, a leathery floor with brown round square pattern, a dark blue wall mirror with two square meters on one side, and two hearts that were hurt and complained from time to time. Within 15 square meters of the former residence, mother’s spirit Gray was on the roof, witnessing our marriage; She also blessed her grandson, who was born soon and grew up. I looked up at the sun, and I could still see him; I could also see him at night and at midnight. He was everywhere. There is also a washing machine on the balcony where I lowered my head, which was bought after a long time of marriage. Now it is old, and its drying bucket will lose its rules from time to time, shaking very specially, A heart that is somewhat similar to a hidden disease or has already been ill, making frightening or at least worrying noises. Fortunately, the industrious wife was very good at recuperating and turned it off quickly. After it was normal, she got rid of a lot of moisture on the clothes calmly. In the end, those clear and bright laundry water should be put away extravagantly, and listen to them flowing away from the tunnel. They seem to be pure water, but still contain alkali. They can’t be used to raise fish or water flowers. It’s a pity. These fish raised in the crude bowl once died six or five heads when I changed the clear washing water. Looking at their petite bodies and bitter eyes, floating in the water in the cake box, I was numb and didn’t dare to see more. I also threw it away quietly, let alone my son. Fish, don’t dare to use other water any more, and put that bigger fish somewhere else uneasily. A few days have passed. Today, it seems that other fish are OK, so I put the big fish back into the cake box. But the new water was changed again, fearing that the soul of the dead fish would tarnish the fresh breath of the living. The vitality of the grass and a pot of green vegetables is far greater than that of them. They don’t use much water and come back in spring one after another. The green vegetables are the most prosperous and full of the moon, as if they were I am in the countryside, what I saw everywhere were green and pink, layers and pieces, which were also full of my balcony, just like my family at this time, and my thinking and writing. The drought Lotus really wanted to die, but looking down carefully, she broke the ground and sprouted, and did not die in the harsh winter; I shouted to my wife, telling her the secret, but she lifted a handful of fresh loess with her hands, carefully sealed it quietly, as if talking to herself, pitiful and mysterious: this can protect the sprouted buds. I not clear. Alas! I don’t know how these secret words, the mysterious world, can be found with concentrated eyes, and how magical words can be expressed. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Understanding

Life is always incomprehensible. Facing the test paper of life, there are never single topic selection and judgment questions. It is difficult to judge whether you succeed or not, because in this exam, you are both a questioner and a reviewer. Seemingly contradictory relationships constitute a passionate life. The philosophy of inscription tells us that contradiction is the most basic relationship of the development of things. Everything in the world is always contradictory. Contradiction promotes development and progress, which is the important contradiction principle. Then in life, we seem to find a perfect answer for ourselves, knowing why we always hide what we lack, why we hate cowardice, greed and laziness, but we can’t get rid of it completely. The process of biological evolution is a long and tortuous route, just as the structure of DNA is a spiral structure, which is not smooth sailing. We learn mathematics and know that the shortest between two points is a straight line, which is the most efficient way. But in life, the performance of things we see is not always straight. Any river flows in twists and turns, and the growth of trees is also split and expanded. Because, although straight line is efficient and energy-saving, it lacks the amount of bags and rich colors, just like eating. The way to finish it quickly is to find two steamed buns to fill the stomach, although it has no taste, but it has achieved its goal; If you don’t want to eat only steamed buns but want to better satisfy your stomach, then you need to cook a delicious meal carefully, although you spend more time and energy, but you also have better enjoyment. Therefore, as the saying goes, a good meal is not afraid of being late. People in the world, There are very few things that I have never regretted in my life,. When we are doing things, we are trying our best to avoid mistakes and regrets. However, things are always unsatisfactory. This is not the result of our failure, but the result of our progress. The same thing, you may think it is very important to do this before, but when you look back, you will know where the wrong holes are, at this time, you have a higher requirement for yourself. The standard of ten can only score eight now. However, should we regret it? NO, we should be more happy, because we grew up, we became better than ourselves at that time. Traditional culture educates us that only by constantly being educated can people grow up continuously, and the ultimate goal is to become a saint. However, is the understanding of the saint the final shore? The answer is obviously open to question, because the saint also makes mistakes, so we can also say that the saint is just a mortal after all. It seems that there are some contradictions. In fact, it is this contradiction that makes us. As an old saying goes: the realm of life is like looking at a mountain. In our eyes, Zhongshan is a mountain. If we make progress, we will find that mountain is no longer that mountain, and there are other things outside the mountain, this is the lifetime understanding of most people; However, if you can move forward and explore the realm of saint, you will gradually find that the mountain is still the original mountain, which has not changed. Yes, changes from the outside world are like rainbows to us, from scratch to existence, and then from existence to nothing. The seemingly contradictory thing is actually a normal growth process, which coincides with the beginning and the end, and is unified again. Can the unity of things be simply attributed to regression? Obviously, this is not as simple as it seems. If we give him a real definition, we may call him sublimation, inner sublimation, essence of transformation. The overlapping ends have the same body, but they are different qualities. Everyone may be similar at the beginning, but different at the end, which is the fruit of growth. However, the decisive factor that influences this result is the cause accumulated in the middle. Although this cause cannot follow you eventually, it makes you. Although the final result is with you, it is erratic and always influenced by the cause. Therefore, because of the different performance for us, it is actually a whole. Therefore, in life, catching every minute of the present is catching what you will do in the future. Now we don’t have to worry about us in the past or in the future. This point now is the key point of contradiction, that is, it creates us with thousands of changes and the final appearance. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Walk in

Many friends asked me: are you out of touch? I was shocked when I first heard it, and then I heard it calmly. Maybe the superficial impression makes people confused. Wandering in the world of materialistic desire, cars and horses are noisy and neon. If you turn over books at night with a clear light, you ignore the flashy tranquility of the outside world, how can you not make people nearby confused? I love books, and I like Buddhism and Zen. I don’t delve into it or think about it. I just want to see the light that can make my heart suddenly enlightened in my occasional confusion. I copy Buddhist scriptures, but I am not superstitious. I just want to raise my mind in a tranquil atmosphere, hold a plain and clean mind, fade but impetuous to erase sadness, and let my heart indulge in the cloud and fog outside the world. As the preference gradually became a habit, I suddenly found that the characters in the pen seemed to have spirituality. The elf with different shapes were copying according to the way you expressed. I am not a calligrapher. I don’t need to talk about any genre and composition. I want to let the words interpret your inner feelings and thoughts. Whether you are happy or worried, you can be praised and criticized. Your writing is not a mere formality, truth is the simple self. The flowers were in a hurry, and the dream shadow came all the way. Who could read the verses in “sad Autumn” by Master Hongyi, with melodious ancient Kite Music of the same name circling around his ears, holding a cup of scented tea and leaning against the window to stand, enjoy a period of spring under the early sun in the morning. The flowery cherry blossoms of that tree are laughing at the Peach Blossoms on the ground which were shocked by the wind and rain last night. You can see that the pink which was quietly blended into the mud has a charming and charming face, but only the unexpected cold of late spring, before I had time to narrate an old love with the distant Wild Goose, I reluctantly left the colorful butterfly on the branch to go to the next life that melted into the mud. Thinking about the twenty articles, I was surprised that the talented scholars in the sea turned to be eminent monks in Yunshui. It was not detailed how many people and joys and sorrows they had experienced during this period. I only knew that the master had experienced from being curious to being a monk to promoting Buddhism, all kinds of coincidences are that I don’t know how to come or how to go. I asked unconsciously that it was a failure to understand clearly and to feel that I was capable and benevolent, so I woke up Han’s awakening in a dream. I am an ordinary person, who is actually a tiny dust falling down from the secular world by accident. I only know that I am safe in small happiness, cheer for the luxuriant fragrant incense, rejoice for the bright warm sun in the early morning, and share the fate with the nobody in the street, with the little life in the book, I am just a little girl who should cry when crying and laugh when laughing. As Mr. Feng Zikai said, there are three layers of life: material life, spiritual life and soul life. Most of us who are tired of life are fettered at the first level or are developing towards the second level, as for the soul life where Master Hongyi is located, it should be done with the aspiration and powerlessness. The state of being intentional but powerless, I think it is just the annotation of the will. It is impossible for all living beings to become monks to break their relationship. The society is progressing and human beings are developing, it is inevitable that people from all walks of life will work together to create a harmonious world. If you have a heart, you don’t have to force it. Becoming a monk is not necessarily the destination, let alone the end. The Buddha said that washing the heart and washing the dust only hopes that people can have a kind heart, which has the same meaning as the nature and goodness at the beginning of human life. Faith is just a pure way to wash the soul, and it is not directly related to superstition, the premise is that you have a pair of insight into good and evil eyes, and you should have a belief not only to seek Buddhism for your own desires. If there is a thought in the bottom of my heart, it’s OK not to harm others but not to hurt myself. Just make a dessert after dinner, which is optional and at best plays the role of moistening color. Struggling with the past, no matter frustrated or successful, sentimental or happy, it is finally a replica of frustration and pride. If you care too much, it will inevitably bring load to your heart. For example, in most people’s eyes, I seem to be so quiet that there is nothing to worry about, as if I am a God who can solve all kinds of difficulties, and I shouldn’t have worries to fill my heart. I often solve problems for my friends. His choices in your life and your little sufferings are all worries that I am used to hearing. I act as a bosom sister unintentionally. I chatted with my classmates that day. A friend joked that I wanted to become a monk. I answered casually that I also wanted to become a monk all the time. It was just a hard time! The Speaker had no intention, but the listener had a heart. Later, a friend talked with me privately, saying that one of my photos seemed to show fear. I said that all the public photos were laughing, he said your smile was reluctant! At that time, recalling the past, recalling the old things, all the deep memories forgetful past came one after another, as if the Demons following one by one were dried under the sunshine. The years that can’t be avoided, the scars that can’t be sealed, the decades of time are old, and those marks in the dark can’t be separated from the left and right, even if you say you can’t remember, even if you want to try to forget, always come back in countless sleepless nights, and reproduce the original images in successive dreams. Self-esteem is nothing. When the fragile young soul is invaded by it, words that you think are unimportant will follow you like a bull’s head and a horse’s face. You work hard to find a peaceful corner, you try hard to face the troubles of the world with a smile every day. It still stands out to tell you that I am still there when you think you are strong enough. When I was young, I was worried and happy, and my youth was also absurd. You didn’t come in the past, but I didn’t go in the future. Who knows your cowardice and who explains your confusion? After all, I am still a child who cries when I feel pain, tasting the warmth and warmth of human feelings in the corner of time. My friend said: my selfishness is to let go of the past! Then, from now on, I will also be a selfish person. After crying bitterly, I will completely put down the past that I have been chasing. Thank you for helping me unload the heavy stones in my heart. It is time to let myself live easily. Life is too short, and how many happy days do you have? Look up, you see, that elegant cloud still stands leisurely in the pure sky, and the Wild Wind accidentally attacked cannot turn away her peaceful smile. Looking for the image, thousands of miles at hand, born in the world, hard to take off the fireworks, take a hard and confused mental path, no matter the left side is the sea, the right side is the shore, no matter the front is the sun and the back is the Yin, walk in cloud deep know, not immortal, have already gone into Wonderland, only for peace of mind. (Written in 2016 nian 3 yue 25 ri) Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Welfare

They leave home to school every Sunday evening, and go to bed in the dormitory after night study. Therefore, the sick child could only walk out of the classroom in the daytime after school, standing in the deserted corridor, waiting for her father. Several days later, when I went upstairs in the first class, I saw a father like this who took medicine with a small cup of water. The father was simple-dressed, thin and thin, with his back to the outside world and a large cup of hot water, look at his child. They were silent, and the cup was full of hot smoke; I passed quietly from the back of their world. The outside world has come to late autumn. Although the fog in recent days shrank greatly from the West River to the west ring in the urban area, the white dew and the cold weather are growing day by day, and the juice of the green forest has begun to converge comprehensively, the autumn scenery of leaves and yellow leaves, which should be known by young people, is slowly and gigantically displayed in this vast Central plains; The lights at night are a little sad, and I don’t know whether it is because of dew or fog. In the thick autumn atmosphere, what kind of lamp line and time are there in the children’s orphanage which is not far from the school and their spacious courtyard? Thinking of the daughter named GE, when her father left the world and her at the age of eight, was it also autumn? Her mother had already left her and them in her childhood when she couldn’t remember her mother’s appearance. Why did her mother leave? What kind of bitter story happened there? Why did the father who was obviously hit refuse the financial support from his younger sister and the child’s aunt? Finally, let go? Ge er, I haven’t seen her face clearly, but only know that her heart mature before children of the same age also flows the simple desire for happy family affection in the world, and the kindness that the weak have long had. I thought I had seen all those familiar orphans who were peacefully abandoned by their families, but I had never seen the bitter scene suddenly appeared. The emotional scene came together, on the stairs, in the classroom, in autumn, now. Today, seeing her in the classroom, she glanced at me and she already knew that I knew her. After I changed her composition, I was moved by it, so I specially named the name of praise to her. Today, she is wearing a lake blue dress, combing the neat hair side, wearing a chrysanthemum hair accessory, like a normal child, but somehow, far more than them, far more beautiful than children of the same age. Autumn has come, but the body of season change can still withstand the small cold and the life without relatives in the long cold? That life without a cup of hot water and a thin figure of relatives? In the evening, how about your bedding? How is your friend during the day? Good? Children? In the distance, there was a more frosty atmosphere implicit, discussing that the dense fog on the west ring line, which shrank greatly, might come back tomorrow morning. But my friends, my kind, can still go to other places to visit their daughter, a cup of hot water, a glance, flashing in the bright sun of the bronze mirror. That round was going to reflect more, brighter and warmer brilliance, to expel the misty rising sun in the suburb, and also to see the inside and outside of each courtyard full of yellow chrysanthemum! I wrote down you on 20th, 10th, 2004. Now, are you okay? Revised praise on January 5, 2015 (prose editor: indifferent) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Into

Walking into the deep heart, because heart is the soul and essence of human beings, which can make you succeed or fail. It will teach you how to be a real person. The ancients said that at the beginning of human life, the nature was good, and every child was born with a blank sheet of paper. Children kept learning and feeling in his environment, thus forming their own unique characters and characteristics, when my child was in infancy, he had a unique preference for colors. I put colorful balloons on his bedside, and then I kept pointing at the green balloons and told him that Green was the color of life, red shines on people like sunshine, giving people warmth. Blue is like an ocean. Through these colorful colors, he can get in touch with the world and understand the world. Later, when he was a little older, he was very interested in the cities that reported the weather forecast every day and could recite a large number of cities according to the weather forecast order, I seized this feature and hung a map of China on the white wall. I pointed out the cities he read every day on the map to show him. Tell him where Beijing is, and it is the capital of China. Teach him to sing “I love Tiananmen Square in Beijing”, his observation, memory and understanding of the motherland, it will be sublimated in the song again and again. Map is the representation of the objective world narrowed down, and it is the result of using visualization method to represent the spatial distribution range and location of things. How big the world is, the map tells you that your baby has been used to reading maps since childhood and even can understand maps, It is very beneficial for him to know the world and broaden his horizon. When he was four years old, he grew up very fast in this period. If he stopped a little and looked at something with serious eyes, he would surely find some novel things, and then he kept on asking: What is this? How? Why? Mother. Things in this world were still mostly strange to him. In order to understand, he would take pains to investigate. I often feel too much for his spirit of chasing after him. When I was busy for dinner, my father accompanied my child on behalf of me. At that time, his father told the child interesting information from the outside world, which could not only satisfy the curiosity of the child, but also enhance the emotion between father and son. In order to let my child receive music education from childhood, I enrolled him in an electronic piano class. Music is a kind of beautiful thing, which is most suitable for children’s physical and mental development. Children can find fun in learning music, develop intelligence, cultivate sentiment, and learn to discover and feel beauty. When playing musical instruments, children need to use hands, brains and various sensory organs, which develops children’s observation, memory, comprehension and creativity. Through persistent practice, children’s good non-intellectual quality can also be cultivated, confidence and courage of not afraid of difficulties can be established from childhood, tenacious perseverance can be cultivated, and good learning habits can be formed. At that time, he was so ridiculous that he could barely get on the electronic organ when he stood up. He was very interested in learning from boring fingering and persisted for three months. Later, because no one picked him up, I didn’t stick to it. Later after graduating from primary school, I asked him to learn guitar again. He went to school by car. Although his fingers became swollen, he never complained and tired. Under his insistence, he could gradually play music, when he was tired and mentally painful in school, he would play a song. Music could cure all his wounds. Whenever the school engages in literary and artistic activities, he will carry on his beloved guitar, improvise a song for his classmates and share his happiness with them. Because of music, he felt that every day of his life was brand new. How could life be brand new only by learning in class. If you want to step into the child’s heart, parents should first be thoughtful people in life, and even they have to learn again. When he learned electronic piano, I first learned to learn simple notation, and then taught the child, learn with children, so that you can enter the childlike world unconsciously. Nowadays, some parents think that education is a matter of the school. They hand over their children to the school, and make money by themselves, go to social parties and play mahjong, to enjoy all kinds of adult entertainment consumption. I am not such a parent. I think since I gave birth to him, I must take the responsibility of being a mother, Give the best to the child. I remember that in the view of children in Montessori education law, there is such a view that children are the father of adults. Educator Mr. Tao Xingzhi once wrote a thought-provoking poem: Everyone says that children are small, but nobody knows that people should be careful; If you look down upon children, they are even smaller than children. The sun and moon I spent with my child made me deeply feel the innocence, simplicity, truth and nature of the child, moved me and recalled me; As time went, seeing my child grow up healthily and steadily in life, he has made remarkable achievements in all aspects. I am proud of him and cheer for him. I hope that when my child grows up, he can become a person who is considerate and full of cooperative spirit, and a person who is good at seizing opportunities and realizing ideals. More importantly, let him have extensive knowledge, and let every stage of the child’s life naturally acquire the growth experience and lessons that should be in this stage. For a while, he didn’t have a good meal. I invited my neighbor’s children to eat with him. The neighbor’s children liked the dishes that I cooked a little spicy. I found that the child ate with his friends, which was much more fragrant. He enjoyed the joy of sharing delicious food with his friends. I also asked him to share his toys with his companions. For a while, the child of his father’s colleague was not able to pick up in time, so he asked her to stay at my home after school, I asked my child to tell stories and play games with her. In this way, they will not lose interest in stories or books. The two children turn pages together or draw with their fingers, which is convenient for them to understand the content of the story. Gradually, children can tell stories they are familiar. Read books in fun, discover the truth, goodness and beauty independently, pursue the harmony of the universe, carry forward the essence of virtue contained in one’s own learning nature, and give full play to the function of life, it mainly relies not on interpersonal competition and comparison, but on the incentive emotional factors implied by cultural, creative and communicative activities to deeply and strongly arouse people’s enthusiasm, it encourages people to get rid of the low-level competition that haggle over every ounce, Make it have broad and grand tolerance, lofty ambition, noble feelings and elegant behavior. In addition to studying in the college, he now participates in the second China green coarse grain King Cup host contest of the college. The twelve players who entered the final competed for five awards respectively, and the Twelve players were divided into six groups to show their talents, test their partner’s tacit understanding and host the simulated scene. He cooperated well with his classmates during the performance. Although he didn’t win the prize, I think he has gained growth during the competition. I look forward to seeing him more mature. The so-called true love is to regard children as real masters, respect their personalities, meet their needs and guide their development without seeking the benefits of selfish desires. It is pure and rational love. People will be grateful only when they get something. At the beginning, when God gave her husband a sweetheart, he was so grateful. When the child enters primary school or middle school, he always shows a dissatisfaction with the child. When the child makes a mistake accidentally, or the test result is not satisfactory, he would sink his face. The child was already under pressure. Seeing his father like this, without beating and scolding the child, the child himself would shed tears. Later, I persuaded my husband to have a healthy child, which was good. We should be grateful and learn to worship. When children can walk and talk, we should appreciate and worship him; When children can read and sing, we should appreciate and worship him; when a child makes some progress or success, he should look at him with admiration, and raise his thumb and say gratefully: really good! My childhood as you! Isn’t this happy for all? It should be learned that foreign parents should ask their children whether they are happy at school and whether there are interesting and novel things when they enter the school, and then turn to their study lessons slowly. Isn’t that good? Don’t let children feel that school is boring. Parents are unkind and don’t understand children’s busy people. Our family is an ordinary family, and life is not rich, every important thing in the family is always discussed together, from buying a new house to adding refrigerators and color TV sets, from celebrating the festival to showing filial piety to the elderly, every expense should be explained in front of the children, approval of the children consent. After enjoying the right of democratic financial management, children deeply realize that every item in the family is hard-won and permeated with their parents’ sweat, so they admire their parents even more, I always treat my parents with courtesy and feel happy. We try every means to accompany our children and make them feel the warmth of their parents. Often accompany children to play, watch TV, play football, play Go, raise small animals, practice pen characters, play in middle school and play in school. They also went to the streets with their children to purchase goods and visit relatives and friends, which added infinite fun to their life. Naturally, they could concentrate on their study. The ancients cloud: gou bu jiao, fu zhi guo; jiao bu yan, shi zhi duo. As the saying goes, there is no bad crops, only farmers who can’t grow crops; When crops grow badly, farmers never complain about crops. Therefore, when children develop unhealthy, parents are required to take the initiative to take responsibility, find reasons from themselves and actively solve problems for their children. This is the positive attitude and effective method to solve problems.. People are not grass and plants, which can be ruthless. Therefore, when criticizing, you must be sensible and emotional, so that children can accept criticism and education sincerely and accept your lifelong gift with gratitude. We should carry out transposition thinking and pay attention to various critical Arts under the mentality that I am more sad than you. By telling a story, children can understand the truth; By reasoning, children can understand the harm; By telling a joke, children can laugh through tears. Entering the mysterious and strange forest in the child’s heart, I think love alone is far from enough. To interpret it, we must first walk into the child’s spiritual world, understand the child’s thoughts and thoughts, understand the child’s smiles and the friendship expressed with one hand. Children are a book, from childhood to youth, from youth to youth, parents turn back page by page, but it is very difficult to truly understand it. In a sense, our parents should keep pace with the times and grow up with their children. The advantages they show in front of computers and the Internet make adults far behind. When children play, they squat down and even play with them; When children progress, they share the joy of success with them; When children are unhappy, listen to their troubles sincerely. If parents want to overcome the gap with their children, they must put down their airs and make friends with them to understand and see their inner world. If children can regard you as a bosom friend, then you are a competent parent, and you will become a good teacher and friend of your child, and you will have a green card to enter the child’s heart. If parents can grow up with their children from the very beginning, look at their children with their children’s eyes, and keep a childlike innocence all the time, then as the children grow up, you will find that, while children gradually understand the world, you also gradually understand the book of children and walk into the spiritual world of children. Our children’s heart is a book, which needs to be read carefully to understand. 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