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Listening to her friend’s crying, she said she missed her child, and she didn’t know why there were so many tears. She didn’t dare to think about it even though she thought about it. It was a very happy thing for her child to go to college, but I am not happy. Yes, we are all women who are willing to give and have a good heart. They are so delicate that they are not emotional and have no tears. I think of a piece of past that a famous writer told me. He said that he was the first person in the village to go to college and walk out of the mountain. All the people in the village were excited, only his mother hid in the corner secretly to wipe tears, mother told him that you had gone further this time, and it was harder for me to see you. My friend said that the child went too far and was concerned about it all the time. He clearly knew that the child was so good and clever, and the school was so good that he still couldn’t control himself. I can’t think of any good words to comfort her. I can only listen to her miss, just like listening to what happened last year and today. The same thing, the same sadness, the same concern, the same emptiness can’t adapt. Suddenly, there was so much empty time; Suddenly, there were three meals a day, so it was not necessary to cook; Suddenly, the alarm in the phone was not screaming; Suddenly, the meal of the two adults was not rich, and the empty dining table only had two bowls and a few small dishes; Suddenly, the phone calls of the couple were not so frequent; Suddenly, the little man who had grown up in the room, she was not wandering around; Her room was quiet; Her friend said that emotional people just couldn’t let go. They were obviously at ease and suddenly empty, especially uncomfortable. Yeah. My nose was sour when I saw the children’s room, the children’s things, and even passed by the school gate where she went to school. It was not how far the children went to school, but how big the children were. They suddenly separated from us and emptied our hearts as mothers. According to other parents, children cried for less than half a year after leaving school. I called Xiaoxiao for QQ information, and learned how to use muah, many children’s words and even hot online words. The child was either in class or in the dormitory. Every time he heard her happiness, he gradually understood that when the child grew up, the intimate and selfless space was stripped away. Even if she came back every week, that kind of smell changed, changed her role, became her exhortation to us and told us everything in great detail. What we do is to make her feel at ease. When we give our children the first weaning, we believe that every parent is unforgettable. When children grow up, go to other places to go to school, and really need independence, do we also give ourselves a so-called weaning. We didn’t have a dream when we sought food and clothing at that time. Now we have so much time. Let’s leave our age to give ourselves a dream. There is no need to ask for perfection. Then let us, who are in middle age, this is the first time for my parents to come to an empty nest. Their dreams come true just like me. After a period of time, they are in a mood, writing one word after another, drawing one picture after another, which is not exquisite, if you don’t write it, you will forget it. Maybe this is life experience. Bitch. 15.9.3 attachment: children are long and short. After you leave, I am clean, clean my heart and house. Without words, without oneself, where does the heart go and where to put it. Why do we get along with each other for such a short time? We are separated from each other for three years and three years. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring

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