Tangled

In the real social life, almost every adult comes from the winding and bumpy emotional life. It can be said that every adult’s love life is contradictory and complicated, which often makes some scholars who specialize in studying human emotions unable to tell what on earth it is for a while. Tea, bitter and sweet, makes people aftertaste; Wine, soft and vigorous, is called humanity cool; Spring, clear and mild, but use life to taste sweet. A bosom friend, such as tea, wine and spring, benefits people for a lifetime. Yesterday morning, after receiving this message from Jiang Nan, mediocrity stared at the Chinese characters on the screen of the mobile phone, thinking about the connotation of the message in his mind. He didn’t know how to reply to Jiang Nan for a while. Do you still use your brains to think of some flowery words to answer this? Simply, just pass the poem just written to her. White tangyuan, beautiful and sweet. Taste carefully and remember it in your heart. Destined and destined, love is in the sky. No luck, let it go. To be honest, in this long journey of life, if a man is lucky to meet a confidante with a heart-to-heart connection, it will be a great blessing, no matter how much criticism he receives, it is also worth suffering. The sun in the daytime has its own brilliance; The moon in the night has its own brilliance. Realistic happiness has its own happiness; Romantic happiness has its own happy romance. In real social life, every husband’s inner world has a responsibility to protect family members; Every wife’s inner world has a responsibility to maintain family harmony. Every father has a deep love for his children, and every mother has a delicate love for his children. This kind of love is human nature and natural emotion. But this kind of human nature and emotion pretended to be dissatisfied with the mediocre heart sea. There was still a deep corner in his heart sea, which was the small world belonging to him and Jiang Nan. During this period of time, Jiang Nan was ignited by mediocre emotions, enthusiasm and passion. He could understand his heart and knew that his life was already half of Jiang Nan’s, but his real life could not hold the sincere affection of Jiang Nan, nor could he hold the bright love of Jiang Nan. Because he was a wise man, knowing his life situation, knowing that he lacked Goethe’s romantic feelings and bravery, it also lacks the traditional marriage thought and self-sacrifice spirit of Mr. Hu Shi. Is this kind of emotion between Jiang Nan and me illusory? No. Is this love reality between Jiang Nan and me? Unrealistic. What does this kind of emotion between Jiang Nan and me belong? Maybe it belongs to Platonic spiritual love. Otherwise, why do I often like to say to myself: as long as I can understand each other and miss each other, it is enough. I can love each other as long as I can. Jiang Nan’s body has a shy and lovely woman charm, an elegant meaning and a pure flavor. The smell on her body can only be understood, but cannot be said. The smell on her body, no set, no shape. The smell of her body overflowed from her bones and was released from her heart. Jiang Nan’s smile and words and deeds often make the mediocrity aftertaste endless, and often make the mediocrity sleepless at night. These days let mediocrity often ponder what Jiang Nan said to him: Some people think love is sex, marriage, kiss at six o’clock in the morning and a bunch of children. Maybe love is like this, but do you know what I think? I think love is to touch but take back your hands. Love belongs to the heart, not the body. Is this statement ridiculous? No. Is this statement absurd? No. A person who has never been in love, a person who has never met the love he loves, will never understand what love is, and will never experience the sweetness, beauty, bitter and helpless. Mediocrity doesn’t like who will desecrate the sincere emotion between him and Jiang Nan from the bottom of his heart, and who doesn’t like who will praise and criticize the love between him and Jiang Nan under the moonlight. The emotion of mediocrity and Jiang Nan is a natural reflection of human spiritual life. Of course, it also highlights the selfish nature of human beings. The sentiment of romantic life does not lie in men or women, in a person’s knowledge, in a person’s social status, in a person’s age or age, it is a wonderful and psychedelic emotional rainbow released by a person’s magnanimous character and lonely heart. A person who lives, gets married, becomes a family, and has children happens to meet another person who is admired by himself on the road of life, involuntarily fell into the River of Love. What’s wrong with this? On? Then why do so many people not have enough courage to face their realistic and colorful emotional life? On? Then why do so many people have no courage to open their emotional life frankly? People’s emotions are really subtle, complicated and contradictory. Every man who is a husband is unhappy that his wife has a blue-looking bosom friend in his heart. Every woman who is a wife doesn’t like her husband having a confidante in her heart. Love has been selfish and pure since ancient times. But is this reality? Is overbearing emotion beneficial to life? Is there pure gold in this world? A man has a confidante and a woman has a confidante, which does not mean having an affair. A man having an affair does not mean having a confidante. A woman having an affair does not mean having a bosom friend. An affair is a derogatory term recognized in the society. Now it seems that confidante and confidant of blue Yan have become recognized commendatory terms in the society. Thinking carefully, thinking carefully, it is really ridiculous. As long as people ponder over the emotional problems of some men and women in the real social life, it is really interesting. Whether it is derogatory term or commendatory term, no family would welcome this weird elf. Nevertheless, when we open our eyes wide and look at the real social life, we will find that there are ups and downs of extramarital love everywhere. Such a straightforward speech as mediocrity may attract criticism, and many people may scold him for talking nonsense and being demagogic. No matter what others say about mediocrity, scold mediocrity, curse mediocrity, mediocrity doesn’t matter, what he thinks in his heart, what he says in his mouth, he felt that there was nothing wrong with doing this. Mediocrity doesn’t want to be the pioneer of extramarital love, nor to lose his peaceful and warm family life, but it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t try his best to explore his emotional life with Jiang Nan, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care to cherish the fate between him and Jiang Nan. Mediocrity had thought before I met Jiang Nan that if I really met a person with the same mind and thoughts in this life, A confidante who has the same character as himself will have no regrets or complaints when facing the ups and downs in real life. But now, once mediocrity calmed down and thought carefully, he couldn’t believe himself. Why on earth? A wife is a wife, and a confidante is a confidante. This truth was quite understandable to be mediocre, but his inner world’s emotions were still always wandering in the whirlpool of contradictions, which made him dizzy and unable to find the North all day long, and he was very confused. Mediocrity does not like betraying one’s emotions, nor is it willing to lose one’s nature. His affection for his wife and Jiang Nan was sincere and from the bottom of his heart, but this kind of love was the same and different. For mediocrity, his wife and Jiang Nan, one is his sun, the other is his moon, which are all his happiness, his happiness and his life. Unfortunately, they can’t go to the same route with mediocrity. In fact, mediocrity did not dare to expect them to live together with him in a man’s farm and a woman’s farm. Those thoughts sprouted in his heart were not only childish, but also despicable. In essence, he had already stained these two pure and sacred women. All things in the world are changing with each passing day, but when can the healthy and poetic emotional life between the opposite sex be recognized calmly by the parties from their own thoughts? When will it be accepted by the colorful and fantastic real social life? 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