Loud

Jing Nan has been studying Chinese painting for some time. Although the friends in the class still can’t name each other, they have gradually become familiar with each other and become active in their spare time. Jing Nan painting class is in every Saturday night of between six and eight, I usually in 7.5 around ten to classroom, many times I to the classroom, Jing Nan are in washing stationery. This time, I still picked up the children according to the usual time. Maybe it came earlier. The classroom door was not opened and the children were still studying. So I slowly strolled to the back of the corridor, appreciate the learning achievements of children hanging on the wall. After a while, the door opened with a creaking sound. The children came out in twos and threes. Jing Nan walked in the middle with two small hands holding the cup and walking cautiously, fearing that the water in the Cup would splash out, a little girl of the same age walked beside him, and didn’t notice that I was following them. It can be seen that the little girl was interested in the small ears hanging by Jing Nan, walking and looking at them. Later, she really couldn’t press them. She leaned against Jing Nan and said something softly, but Jing Nan ignored her, and still walked forward by herself, and gradually slowed down consciously, opening a distance with the little girl. Although I didn’t hear what the little girl was asking about, it could be seen from the mouth shape that maybe I asked her what the little ear was and what it was for, which was due to curiosity, I asked Wen Jinnan. With the growth of Jingnan, the child’s mind gradually matured and began to be sensitive to the influence of the outside world. I pointed out the problems on her several times, she would blush and ask me not to talk outside, because she would be ashamed and shameful. So for the little girl’s curiosity, she took a kind of attitude of ignoring. Maybe the child thought, if I ignore you, you will certainly lose curiosity gradually, instead of asking such embarrassing topics for children. But do you know Jingnan? The method you adopt is exactly what I don’t want you to adopt. Because avoiding can’t solve the problem, just like a camel in danger, only covering his eyes with sand, but the danger still exists. Just like the thief who hid his ears to steal the bell, he covered his ears, but his behavior was still exposed. My child, I always want to tell you that if you take the wrong way, the danger will not only disappear, but may even add a little bit. Avoiding will only increase your own contribution, but the problem still exists, and the only way to solve it is to face up and face up. Facing squarely needs a kind of mental heart. Only with the peace of one’s mind can one correctly deal with the problems existing in oneself and treat others’ strange eyes with a peaceful mind, thus, the strange eyes of others will gradually disappear and you will be regarded as one. The law naturally tells us that to make others Natural, the first thing to do is to be natural. Many things, the more wriggling, the more will make her curiosity multiply. Before Curiosity is dispelled, the curious object will become the voice in her tongue. When her mind is natural, this kind of voice will disappear naturally. Facing squarely requires a kind of mental courage. Anyone who takes a step back and bypasses the problem will do it. Because it is easy, most of the failures will retreat in front of the problem. Taking a step forward requires not only wisdom, but also courage, because what he wants to step over is your own heart. Knowing the difficulty and doing it is the choice of the brave, it is the wisdom of the wise. When God closes a door, he will certainly leave a window for you. Children, please remember that everyone is a unique individual in this world, so don’t have any prepositions in your heart. If you have prepositions in your heart, how can you make the other side treat them as nature. Therefore, children, I hope you can tell them loudly and naturally when facing the curious questions of others: this is my ear, which helps me hear the voice of the outside world clearly. Kid, believe me, you will certainly have a different harvest, and this harvest will make you calm. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring

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