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In the past, I was always very sad and depressed, because my character was just a little sentimental. Long ago, maybe I would find a way to escape. Now I will gradually understand that there are many things that can’t be avoided. I can only choose to be strong. Because I know that some people have to go on like this. There is no other way except this. My friend said he was tired when doing Taobao. He said he wanted to give up all of them. I thought that it was not worthwhile to give all my years of youth to Taobao and earn some living expenses by myself. I said, in fact, everyone is very difficult, but some people have survived. Therefore, if we can’t make progress, we will have to continue to endure in the next life. Escaping is definitely not the way. In fact, many people in this world are like this. They want to make progress, but they think they will fail. Therefore, many people choose to be content with the status quo, but more people choose to escape. They chose a safe place and a place where nobody disturbed them. Just like I used to go to the hotel as a waiter, I was not only dying, but also not strong enough. After so many years, I really admire those people who can still work hard to move forward no matter what happens. Even if they are running, they are also those who run with tears. Because of their sufferings, it must be a while. But if they themselves gave up that period of time, it could only be returned to the starting point, which was useless. I thought of my friend who studied photography. In fact, his family didn’t have much money either. And once he has money, he will definitely buy equipment and attend training. So he often needed to borrow money, but he paid back as soon as he had money, but he also encountered too many gossips. There must be a lot of people who don’t lend money to him, and even a lot of people say he is a fool. But I really admire this kind of person, because he really came out. There were many people who didn’t lend money to him, but many people who lived more comfortable than him at the beginning and played jokes on him every day. But later, these people didn’t do better than him, and after he survived the most bitter period, he was happy later. In fact, everyone’s life has such a period of time. Only some people left early, and some left late. Some of them are ordinary for a lifetime, and they will never meet them. Is there anyone like that? Yes. Some people choose stability. A friend of mine likes reading novels very much, which is just like this. He liked watching it when he was in college, and still liked watching it after graduation. What he did was to help others see the shop. In a small tea shop in Anxi, he lived a comfortable life. Because there is no desire and no demand, anyway, I don’t want to do anything big, and it’s enough to gain something. But in this world, it is like this. How much we have paid, and how much we are destined to get. People who give nothing and their living standards are always average, so in order to get a better level and more respect, they have to suffer more, because on the road of starting a business, we will always encounter such problems. If we are injured, we still choose to move forward. In fact, it is more responsibility on our shoulders. Because we will find that maybe we can live a bad life, but people around us, our children and our relatives can’t live a bad life. Because of this responsibility, even if they are wrong, we choose tolerance. Even if they treat us badly, we still choose to work hard and give them the best. A friend also runs a Taobao shop. In fact, he is also very tired, because when he just graduated from college, his parents often asked him for money, and he was also responsible for the living expenses of his younger siblings. Why did his parents ask him for money because they liked gambling. His brother and sister are still studying. Many people say that you just graduated and you are still unstable. Don’t give me some money. But he said, it’s okay. There are still people bothering us. One day, when no one bothering us, at that time, maybe they are also far away from us. So he has to make money all the time, and he has to make money all the time. He has to do many projects. Maybe many people can’t understand his things, because it’s not just about money. Sometimes his parents get sick, and sometimes his brother fights with others. In short, there will be many things. But he said, we must be strong, and we must find ways to overcome the difficulties. Of course, the Taobao shop he opened also encountered too many things, such as the supply of goods is often cut off, what kind of bad appraisers. But he is always optimistic. We are so optimistic that we all feel that the world is really a little sad. Because he said, what could happen if he was not optimistic? It was definitely impossible to give up. No matter how bitter we are, customers will not pay for our hardship. What they want is only good and warm service. At this point, I always admire him. No matter how big the difficulties are, he always behaves like ordinary people. So he is living a good life now. Brother and sister are also very good, and parents no longer gamble now. He also built several floors of houses at home. One layer for yourself, one layer for brother and sister, and one layer for parents. In fact, from the perspective of friends, I think one thing is that life must be strong, because in this way, it is the path we must take and the opportunity for us to grow up. Another point is, if it’s OK, we don’t give people any trouble and try our best to help others. Just like the classmate who studied photography above me, those who used to joke with him every day and didn’t borrow money, also had a bad life. Just like the classmate below, he did not give his children money, but also added a lot of trouble to his children. Why do you need one of your own. My character is really straight, and I always have something to say. So I think I haven’t seen some things, and then try what I should do and what I should do. In fact, we have seen too many stories on the Internet. There are many miserable stories about online merchants, but the difference is that some people are still defeated by life. For Taobao and Alibaba, some people are hundreds of times worse than us. But some people do it, while others still do it. In fact, in front of the big market, there is no reason for not doing it. Because the market does not believe in tears and sufferings, it only believes in results. We are wrong if we have no results. Why can others do it? Why can’t we. If someone ate instant noodles every day, he still didn’t make it, but someone ate meat every day, he still made it. I believe that most people will still choose the latter. We must choose to be strong, and we must be able to endure hardship. But the market only believes in the results. Therefore, we must endure hardship for the result, be strong, and be strong for the result. It doesn’t make any sense to be strong without results. Life is like this, entrepreneurship is like this, for better results, we can only choose to be strong. Choosing to be strong is also for better results. We are not for practice, but for results, for better and more beautiful results. My QQ/WeChat: 838504315, welcome to add. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring

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