Comparison

Sometimes I taboo comparison, because every child has his own characteristics. Measuring by common standards will make children lose their individuality. Sometimes I enjoy comparison very much. Usually at this time, when Jing Nan is doing better than others, listening to the words of praise can really make me happy. Although I have always deliberately not compared Jing Nan with other children, life is always like this. Unconsciously, you will be disturbed by comparison, whether consciously or unconsciously, will be affected like this. A few days ago, when I was playing at my sister’s house, there came a kid who was in a big kindergarten class. He was even half a head taller than Jing Nan. The question of 16+19 was played on the blackboard, this is what I teach in the next semester of the first grade. It is very quiet when eating, and very quiet when getting along with my sister. By contrast, although Jing Nan was of medium to high height in the class, he hated to supplement his children with calcium every moment. Under our deliberate cultivation, Jingnan’s study was also advanced by one semester. Seeing other children’s higher grades, she hated that their children would learn the course content of university now. Even now, Jingnan’s eating still makes us anxious. Most of the time, we are not stable and unwilling to eat at the table. We always eat a bite in walking or playing. While in the process of getting along with children, when Jing Nan and Ming Yu got along with each other, they always argued a lot. Although we have been guiding her to help her teach her sister to let her go, but when seeing my sister’s willfulness, Jing Nan still couldn’t bear her temper. When you see why other people’s children are so good, there is always a kind of anger coming out of your heart involuntarily, and you are always thinking bitterly about how their children do this, why is that not my child! My wife saw the children’s wheels slide so fast downstairs, and Jing Nan also spent more than 1,000 yuan to enroll in the training class, but after learning a few tricks, she refused to work hard any more, so the roller skating is still neither tight nor slow, and it’s OK if it is not compared with other children. By comparison, the breath is born without hitting one place. Comparing with children, it is always the selfishness of adults, always thinking that their children can be the object of thousands of people’s attention and the tip of the pyramid, however, it ignores the natural freedom in the process of children’s growth. The growth of children is a slow ecological process. We all know that once the ecology is destroyed, it will be a long stage to recover. We can’t be anxious. The quick Forest looks very fast, but the wind resistance is very poor. Jinggang Mountain is green now, but who knows that it is still a bald mountain in the 1950 s. It took nearly five or ten years of growth to make up for the ecological debt. I think it’s better to make more calm and less comparison, let Jingnan grow naturally! Looking at the growth of children behind the back, isn’t it a kind of happiness? Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring

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