From kindness

We seek from others and give generously. Everyone has a fragile life and needs to whisper in a low voice to accompany him gently. Every kind person will certainly follow the instructions and give soberly guidance, whether it is the dissemination of knowledge or the sharing of experience and lessons, the sense of joy which was extremely important or just helpful to others seemed to be filled with his heart invisibly, beyond words. Everyone had played such a role, liked it and indulged in it. Such supply and demand may not be as perfect as it seems. People will be lazy. Every time we complain about pain, kind people will take gentle solution as a reward, pacify the collected soul, just like a spring breeze blowing away tears. This process only needs to be listened, when you need to be sure to resonate, you will feel happy to find your bosom friend. The enlightened person will not expose the shortcomings due to his sharp face, so the pain is regarded as the real pain, even as others feel the same feeling, they feel more and more painful when talking about it. They have not been resolved, but have been confirmed and magnified. Next time, they will still repeat this process, forming an indestructible dependency like snowballing, need and be needed for life, even in the name of love. Some people enlighten me, some accompany me, some affirm that the time when some people complain together is so wonderful that the city will calmly reflect on its own mistakes and the ability to find solutions afterwards. In this way, you and I are firmly bound and bound, and the relationship is stable. Poor, weak, sympathy, gain, absorb, even devour your kindness, softhearted, so at the same time give up your spiritual self-reflection and growth, so long-term dependence, like a vampire, you constantly absorb the endless blood full of fresh positive energy under your soft-hearted and kind skin. Your soft sympathy at the beginning is encouraging him to drain your flame, know that one day you will also be filled with slowly negative energy, exhausted. It is obvious that when I can calm down and think after my emotions leave, I am not self-disciplined. I pretend to be the image of the weak and beg spiritually in my circle of friends and intimate relationships in the name of love, and occupy the mountain as the King for a long time, in this subtle process, it may be because of laziness or unconsciously cutting off the feet that can make you stand upright and walk on your own. He harmed others everywhere without knowing it. He just held the weapon of tragic life which was born at the wrong time. His spiritual territory was deserted. Seeing others’ territory was rich in water and grass, he was unwilling to do farming, but steal. One day, we are tired, unable to bear or give. Once dependence is formed, termination will not be that simple. Therefore, it was splashed into dirty water, with the hat of disobedience and disobedience, or the friendship was no longer evergreen as time goes by, or the love had deteriorated and could not be lower than the baptism of time! At the beginning, things were far from serious. The Road of Life was never plain. Everyone was careful to cross the river by feeling the stones. There were always pits. We couldn’t bear the pits. Remember the lesson, accumulate experience, avoid next time, and increase the thickness of life. Of course, we will express our emotions, cry and be depressed. But this kind of emotions are normal reactions of people, and we don’t have to be too nervous, of course, it does not rule out that some people have experienced hardships in their lives, but since they appear, they must bear it. Maybe his life needs this disaster to forge a better life, everything has its own reasons and reasons. Every difficulty is a gift carefully packaged by God. If you don’t have the patience to open it to the last layer, we can never see and have the precious gift from God. It may be difficult and ferocious to bear difficulties at the beginning, but we don’t need our soft-hearted kindness to disturb the pace of his life and practice. It’s not impossible to help him, it makes us not know how strong each other’s heart is, whether we will take soft-hearted and kindness as shortcut and dependence, and whether our soft-hearted and kindness will become a sharp weapon for spiritual killing. 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