Life

If the years are quiet, then take care of your body and mind; If the time is cold, then keep your heart warm! Inscriptions pour a cup of aging of memory, then warm a period of clear past, lift a cup of wine, let the fingertips leave incense, let the fragrant fragrance fill the sleeves. No one knows the taste of that cup. Perhaps only by being intoxicated can the original scenery in those memories be blurred. I once thought that maturity could be a kind of disguise, pretending to be strong and pretending to smile, until achieving real success through persistence and efforts; But now I find that maturity is a kind of calm disguise. Pretend to be numb, pretend to be ruthless, pretend everything as if nothing had happened! In life, when some things once possessed follow the cycle of natural laws and leave from near to far, a reluctant attachment, in front of the ruthless ending, it looks so pale and insignificant! Who has ever said that the coldest is not the heart, the lowest is not the feelings, but the world has love, no matter which kind of love belongs. Even if it is a habit of daily life, it is not easy to give up, and it is also because of emotional dependence, let alone human beings and things, it is really normal! It is just like dancing with dishes and loving flowers alone, but the flowers fall down with the wind. Always passionately devoted, but blind eye! In fact, I believe that the existence of everything in the world has its fate of cause and effect. No matter the tide rises or falls, it has its own character, and there is no need to force it. Even if the heart has the feeling of not giving up, the painful sadness should also accept the world’s fixed number! The kindness is like water, and the heart is like rain. Being kind to the people left or left in life and tolerating those ruthless or cold things calmly is a kind of practice for oneself. Don’t ask, where is home for the quicksand in your hands; Don’t care, the boat full of sadness will be exiled to the end of the world; Don’t care, those years passed, how many are true or false. If possible, I would like to be a lotus in front of the Buddha, guarding the lonely years, understanding the wind and smoke in the world in the morning bell and evening drum; Under the ancient Green Lantern Buddha, stay away from the joys and sorrows of the secular world. How many beautiful wishes are higher than the reality, and how many indifferent alienation are expressing silent melancholy. It was just like seeing a familiar face in the morning light. There was no change in my eyes. I stretched out my hand and found that time had passed away, which clearly made each other out of reach. Perhaps, the stabbing pain is that the morning sun runs away in a hurry. People who are full of emotions are always sentimental. People who are full of emotions are always serious about emotions. People who are serious of emotions are always hurt, while people who are hurt are still thinking about emotions. This kind of emotion can be heard from the feelings of flowers and birds splashing tears, listening to the ups and downs of sorrow and joy; It can also be accepted in the heart, holding long-term love without transfer. However, when the sunset is Misty, who can understand the poetry and painting of the world, when they look at each other and have nothing to say, can they no longer care about it! I think there are a lot of things in life that we need to do and understand, learn to tolerate others, because everyone has his own difficulties, and believe that no one is willing to hurt; Also forgive yourself, when walking on the journey of people who are not sages, if you have experienced warmth and sorrow, helplessness and loneliness, please give yourself a hug and warm yourself. In the gradually growing life, where do not meet, where do not leave people, everything goes with the wind! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Years

1 many nights in my childhood were accompanied by a wonderful moon. When we panted to a nearby state-owned factory to watch a movie, the moon in the sky followed us. When we watched those movies of beating Devils with relish, the moon leaned against the roof of the building to rest. However, when we watched the movie and argued about who was good and who was bad on our way home, the moon hid behind the thin clouds and laughed at our innocence. 2 The teacher in charge of the first and second grade of my primary school is a woman. She is ten or nine years old and teaches us Chinese. She is an educated youth in Shanghai. In her memory, she often wore a plain floral dress, tied two black braid and spoke good Mandarin. She also has a name Li Wenqing that we like very much but dare not call it out easily. After the Cultural Revolution, at a summer dusk, teacher Li left me a nice plastic pencil case with magnets and went back to the city. That night, there was no moon in the sky. It was my first time to lose sleep. 3 Ma Chao in the Three Kingdoms era was buried in my hometown. Our classroom is the main hall of Ma Chao Temple. The Hall is magnificent and carved. Grandpa Ma Chao sits in the center. He is the God in our hearts. We often go out of our minds when we are listening to math classes, and our eyes move quietly from the back of the teacher’s head to the image of master Ma, imagining master Ma’s vigorous and heroic posture on the battlefield, I even think grandpa Ma Chao can’t learn math, can he? At this time, a classmate was suddenly asked by the teacher: flushed and speechless. 4 in the deep winter, I went to the river for a walk. There was no moon, and the wind was very strong. The residual leaves on the ground made a sound. Because of the cold, few people came out, and the surroundings were surprisingly quiet. Walking, I’m scared. Will I meet a gangster? Mugged me? Breaks my leg? Got me life? So my heart beat faster, and I felt a little flustered under my feet. But I didn’t walk a few steps, and suddenly came back to my mind: a half-old man, with no color, no money, no power, no enemy, unless the gangster was a madman, he came to rob me, hurt me, harm me. Thinking of this, I laughed. 5 it snowed, white all over the world. Several young people ran out happily to take photos. The hearty laughter, rosy face and lively figure reminded me of my distant youth which was fixed in that remote mountain village (I was teaching in the mountain village school at that time). Green mountains, rivers, idle clouds, wild cranes, as well as transparent and pure sunshine with the fragrance of wild flowers, roaring trains, turbulent disco, shy and incomprehensible love and hazy poems of Shu Ting in Beidao. 6 Black words are written on the white paper, red plum blossoms bloom in the snow, wild cranes fly over the idle clouds, and the moon is quietly observed in the night sky, which are all beautiful scenery in the world. Why is it so beautiful? I may not know. But I can tell you that no black words can be written on the black paper, no cold plum can be opened in the greenhouse, and the gloomy clouds can only breed lightning. The moon in the daytime is totally redundant. I also know very well that when our hearts calm down, we will feel the thrilling beauty. 7 every time I look up at the starry sky, I will be moved by the generosity and selflessness like the Sun’s father, the tenderness and affection like the moon’s mother, and the curiosity and innocence like the stars as children; every time I look down at the Earth, in addition to feeling the generosity and tolerance of the earth mother, I will see my laziness in the diligence of an ant and realize my vulnerability in the tenacity of a grass, in the flying of butterflies, I saw the light spirit beyond the object, and suddenly realized the philosophy of Lao Zhuang in the free and leisure of swimming fish. 8 My daughter is 12 years old, and she is in junior high school. Although he is thin and tall with long hair, he is still childish. Thinking of five to six years later, I will watch her go to a distant city to study in university; Nine to ten years later, I will watch her go to a distant place to work; Eleven or twelve or three years later, I want to see her to marry someone else. When I think of this, I will lose my soul. But what I can do is to cherish the present and spend every warm and happy day with my daughter. 9 when I was young, I often thought: if I didn’t have this job, I would definitely do many Earth-shaking and glorious events, so that I wouldn’t waste my youth there; But now I am old, if I give up this job, I may be scared and confused because I will never do anything else. When they were young, they always looked down upon what their parents did; Now they are old, but they think their parents are great. They can’t do many things by themselves, such as pulling up five or six children with the love of their whole life. The 10th festival is a little cold, and the coldest day has just begun. At first glance, it turned yellow. The cool breeze hit my face. At Xishan Mountain, the sun is like a fire that will go out at any time, but the remaining temperature still exists. But at such a moment, I heard the beautiful whistle of birds outside the window, and also saw the goose yellow blooming wintersweet in the corner. I know that is the message of spring. In spring, the horse was whipped and walked on the way back to the north. Like (prose editor: indifferent) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Nostalgia

The old house is really too old. In the center of the old house, a portrait of five milk was hung. Every day, the fifth master was alone, staring at the portrait in a daze. The narrow dirt road was as small as the hemp rope in Grandpa’s hand. I walked back and forth for many years, closing my eyes, and I would also go home along the dirt road. Nostalgia is the dried lotus pond in the village. There has been no swimming fish, no cheerful frogs, no faint fragrance of flowers. Homesickness is the endless story in the belly of the fifth master; Homesickness is the endless Clapper in the mouth of Uncle Gou WA; Homesickness is the familiar accent of villagers in the village who eat in the old trees; homesickness is the muddy road leading to the village, which will never bother you. The snow will disappear in spring. Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

The early

Don’t mention the little emperor, it is just a picture that is arbitrary and unreasonable and can do nothing, only asking for and not working. With the change of the environment, the little emperor’s later life will also show a different life. In 1985, an article entitled “A large group of little emperors” was published in an American magazine. In this article, the author put the hat of little emperor on this generation of only child for the first time by the mouth of the parents of only child. First determine Knowmore about what little emperors, family, and extra-curricular yilaishenshou, by tens worship, all care. No matter how many things the emperor didn’t do, it was impossible for him to do nothing. After an adult ascended the throne, he had to deal with state affairs as well. Nowadays, the only child is just the same. No matter how mighty the emperor was, he had to listen to the teacher’s instruction. No matter how arrogant the only child was, they also listened to the teacher’s words in kindergarten. Every day, under the bombardment of grandparents, grandparents, parents, you say a poem of Tang Dynasty, and he sings a children’s song, but if you don’t want to listen to it, it will last forever in your mind, therefore, most of the only children nowadays are smarter and more fond of learning than their former children, because their parents, grandparents, grandparents and grandparents are basically illiterate. They also know to study hard and get a satisfactory job by passing a prestigious university in the future. They don’t want to earn money by selling their physical strength and come up with the least cost to get the maximum profit, which goes against their wishes, after all, there are few people who can rely on their brains to eat, and few people who can become talents and become pillars of society. Emperors have wise Emperors who can carry forward a huge empire. The emperors with straw bags, who were nothing, would bury the great rivers and mountains left by their ancestors. Just like the only child, the only child has been on the throne of knowledge, and he can have no worries about food and clothing without selling his coolies. He has been eating old until he is penniless. In fact, there were little emperors in the past, but no one mentioned this name at that time. In the past, there were only children and the youngest of many children. They were also similar to the little emperors now, but at that time, the economic conditions were difficult, the little emperor at that time was not as happy as now. Nowadays, the little emperors can neither share the happiness of Brotherhood nor feel the depression of compatriots competing for favor. The little emperor has to have breeding ground, and the economic condition is the first. There are idle people in the family who can respond to each other. If the grandparents in the family are still at work, farming, and there are many children in the family, it is not easy for a little emperor to be born. At most, there will be one or two lazy offspring. There are a large number of second or even third children in rural areas, remote mountainous areas and ethnic minorities in the urban-rural fringe area. The biological mother of this child abuse incident in Nanjing is the third child. It is not easy to produce a little emperor in such an environment, there may be several undisciplined social gangsters. The only child was cared for by six people, and Yu Kuncan was even more special. One was surrounded by eight people. Most of the city residents who strictly implement the one-child policy have certain economic foundation and cultural accomplishment, so naturally children will not be so ignorant. The more attention he paid, the more demands his children demanded. After a long time, he became a little emperor. In addition to being spoiled blindly, children also have more books related to education and toys for developing intelligence. Parents and the older generation have to study for their children from time to time and teach them some children’s songs and Tang poems, so there are more differences among the only child. The advantage of only-child students in academic performance is obvious, which is actually a manifestation of their environmental advantage. Few single children are willing to work in high-risk industries. They are generally afraid of risks and lack of confidence. The lack of siblings may make them more self-contained, lack the spirit of unity and cooperation, and dislike getting along with the same age group, which affects their communication ability. Human beings are higher animals with strong adaptability. Every day, the emperor can eat as much as steamed corn bread when fleeing from famine, and he can have a different feeling. After all the only children grew up, they had no conditions and lost the support from their parents. They also had to live the life of ordinary people. People will show different lives under different living environments. People’s emotions can change with the changes of the environment, but this situation will not last long. Once the environment returns to its original appearance, people will return to their previous state. Why do pyramid selling people not think their behaviors are wrong, because they are in a special environment, they are influenced by the environmental atmosphere, and only get rid of the specific environment, these people will regain their senses. A little emperor who talked about everything at home entered the big family of the People’s Army. Against the background of the environment, he would choose one to compete with others and make continuous progress, it will also sweat on sunny days and water on rainy days. Similarly, when the country is in crisis, no matter you have brothers and sisters, no matter you are the only child, no matter you are a literati or a farmer with his face facing the loess, people will fight against the common enemy together, and will throw their heads and blood one after another. No matter under what circumstances you see the only child, you have to admit the concept of the little emperor, just saying that you saw an only child wearing different masks. The essence of the only child has not changed, but only the difference reflected in each living person. Even if the one-child policy came to an end, the two-child and three-child policy would not emerge in large numbers in the future, especially the city dwellers, even those with high cultural cultivation, and the little emperor would continue to exist. In order to make the characteristics of the little emperor disappear, it is still a sentence “early education”, which is not only to educate children, but also to learn a little from all family members. To make the whole society realize the importance of early education, do not organize people to study how to overcome the defects of the little emperor until the children have grown up. In early education, don’t wait until the child can speak. The child has been running around on the ground, because at this time, all the habits and characters of the child have basically been finalized. It’s hard to change the nature of the country. When the children have already appeared behaviors that they don’t want to see, everything is already late. At that time, they are not in education, but in retreating. Now most families know early education, but not everyone will accept the concept of early education. It can be said that most families do not want to have little emperors, but they continue to cultivate little emperors, so if little emperors want to disappear completely, it is almost impossible. 2015 nian 5 yue 13 ri Wednesday cloudy 30 ℃ ~ 18 ℃ likes (Prose edit: drop of ink injury) spring elimination snow Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…