Refuse

It seems that every child in the process of learning will not be as parents wish, and there will always be some procrastination. I admit that today’s Jing Nan is the same as when I was young, and there are some procrastination in both life and study habits. It is very annoying to solve this problem, because there are not many effective methods, let alone seeing results. The current network is indeed developed, but it is really confusing. Yesterday, I saw an article saying that parents should participate in the education of accompanying children. Today, I saw another article saying that children should learn to be independent, it seems that every argument is reasonable to be unable to accompany children, but the truth is clearly Opposite. The internet makes parents feel a little confused. If you think about it carefully, the child’s procrastination should be developed by the following reasons. The first is the lack of understanding of knowledge, but pinned on the ready-made answers. When doing homework, Jing Nan often says: If you find something wrong, tell me the first time! More often, every time you do a question, the child will look at you with his head tilted and ask: is the answer right! Sometimes, the child simply doesn’t use his brain and asks you for the answer directly. On this issue, I never get used to her fault. No matter what time, I always take her to finish it independently first. If the knowledge points are not understood, I will find a similar question to teach her knowledge points instead of directly telling her the answer. At any time, let her start her mind first. The child’s dependence is spoiled. Accompanying her will warm her heart, and this kind of dependence will gradually disappear. At any time, she was taught to check by herself. Careless Jing Nan often made some wrong questions, and God would forgive children for making mistakes, let alone a question, I can also understand children’s hard work in learning, but I won’t point out the mistakes directly. I often draw more questions around this question and let the children correct and check it by themselves. Secondly, I don’t understand the method, but rely on others’ help. In learning, Jing Nan often encounters unfamiliar words, unfamiliar words and uncertain pinyin. He always asks me whether it is the front nasal or the back nasal? Is this a rolling tongue or a cocking tongue? To be honest, I am not very confident, let alone not sure. I dare not delay my own children. I am very glad that my friend gave me a dictionary, which contains all the new words of the pinyin, and I also bought a Dictionary of Idioms. Every time when this happens, I always pass tools and books to Jing Nan, study independently, skillfully use tools and search for answers independently, which is the fundamental method of learning. I always feel that children should pay more attention to the mastery of methods rather than the mechanical application of words, let alone the recitation and memory of articles. The third is that I don’t understand time, but rely on my own design. In learning, Jing Nan always says how to live so fast, how others spend so much time slow, and sometimes the debate is anxious, however, after being pointed out directly by us, my unreasonable splashing even shed tears anxiously. Children always think that time should be designed by themselves. They want it to be long when they want it to be long and short when they want it to be short, just like the golden cudgel in Su Wukong’s hand. Let alone children want to have this kind of ability, why don’t we want to be the same as adults? But time is even fairer than air to everyone. The past is the past, and you can’t go back even if you can’t go back. Even Einstein’s theory of relativity has solved this problem scientifically, but this is just a good wish in life. In my study, I either use the alarm clock, the stopwatch in my mobile phone or the hourglass. As long as I can count the time, I just take it at random, and I can’t say that my child has a fundamental improvement, however, the procrastination symptoms of Jing Nan did improve slightly. To tell the truth, I am not sure that I can fundamentally change the procrastination symptoms of Jing Nan, but I want to refuse procrastination with my children, which should be effective. As for the growth of children, we are looking at the mainstream and the general direction. After all, the development of children’s character is still in a corrective stage, isn’t it? 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