Worship

Every time I see old couples resting on the tree-lined bench with snow covering their heads for dozens of years, every time I see young mother in gorgeous clothes strolling on the small and medium-sized Road in the garden with flowers and flowers, when Shier bent down and bowed his back and murmured with the fat and lovely baby, whenever I saw the young and beautiful boys and girls spreading laughter all the way, whenever I saw smiling faces full of sunshine, I thought of my father when I held hands sincerely and hugged each other one by one. As time flies, the past is like the clouds of the past, illusory and looming. As time goes by, they also fade away and disappear gradually. The trauma of the soul also makes time polished and ironed. It sounds as if all these are so unreal, like a dream that does not exist, like a story, a legend. I tell you, these are all true portrayal. We measured it step by step with the steps of history. Every step we walk is full of pain and tears, and every step is full of pain and sadness. The life path experienced by our ancestors and ancestors may be more tortuous and bumpy, and their experiences are more dangerous and difficult. May our descendants have less pain, less sadness, more happiness and more happiness. The sky was gray, like a dark gray lead plate pressing down to the ground. Smog is like a curtain that cannot be opened. It makes the mountains in the distance vaguely show a vague outline. The cold wind was bleak, and there was a pungent smell in the air. It is a kind of disgusting, suffocating smell, a kind of smell of the dead. A row of pine and cypress, standing straight and stiff. Although it is verdant and green, it is like cold iron blocks painted with green oil, giving people a feeling of timidity, fear and trembling. This is a day in early April, and there is still some time before Tomb Sweeping Day. There were only several Liao Liao people in the cemetery, which was even more desolate. Dad, I came to see you. Mom, sister, brother, we are all very good. On behalf of all of you, I have come to see you. Do you live well in heaven? I hope it is a paradise of no dispute, no discrimination, no persecution, happiness and freedom. Your life is bumpy, and you haven’t enjoyed a few days in the world. May you live happily in heaven. This tombstone is only your last footprint in the world, and the cold cemetery is only the place where you rest for the last time in the world. Whenever I think of the heartbreaking and desperate scene when my father stayed in the world, I can’t help thinking about it with tears in my eyes. Although you have suffered a lot in your life, you are still calm. There are not too many regrets left. Come here in vain and walk quietly. Whenever I think of the horrible days you have experienced, I feel like splitting my canthus and pouring blood into my pupil. It was an era full of violence and bloody smell. My father was devastated and persecuted and lived like a year. I finally got through it, but it was not easy. However, after a period of time, I could not hear anything outside the window, and I spent a peaceful life in the Spring and Autumn period. Although life was a little hard at that time, there were also problems such as laid-off children and going to the countryside, which brought troubles in life. But the repressed political environment faded away. Life was quite satisfactory, and I had a period of leisure life which was isolated from the world. Qingshui bitter tea talks about the Sun and Moon, raising chickens and growing vegetables will turn to Qiankun. Father is a cautious person. Serious work, competitive industry. Treat colleagues politely and respond to their requests, which is highly respected by everyone. He is an amiable and respectable person. He is also a good gentleman who works in a low profile. Father, the political movement he had experienced in his whole life was like the waves of the sea, one wave after another, gushing out constantly. The political vortex is like a storm. Although it can wash the sand and dust, it can also damage branches and fold flowers without mercy and ravage for no reason. Many litterateurs, social elites and talented people were forcibly detained for various strange crimes and persecuted. My father always skating over thin ice, dare not go one step beyond the prescribed limit. I calmed down a lot and murmured to the tombstone. Father, please be assured to go. Now everything is different from the time you lived. Now the living environment is very loose, and we are all retired. Our salary increases year by year, and we live a carefree life. Mom is also in good health, and everyone cares about each other happily. 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Good Mom

I am an undergraduate intern majoring in preschool education in a normal school in northern Henan. During my previous study and internship, I really realized the importance of family education. “A good mother is better than a good teacher” is a book written by teacher Yin Jianli. She wrote in the postscript of this book that the reason why this name is used is only to emphasize the importance of family education, there is no idea to compare the two themes of mother and teacher, and there is no intention to despise the educational function of teachers. I dare not say about the kindergarten education in China. I only dare to say that from the current education situation of most kindergartens around me, a good mother is really better than a good teacher. First of all, let’s talk about the situation of several kindergartens I have experienced. When we were still studying at school, we visited several kindergartens in the city where our school was located under the guidance of teachers. We also went to kindergartens for probation before. The kindergarten that I have been on probation some time ago is the best kindergarten in that city, and the place where I practice now is a county-level kindergarten. In the kindergartens I have seen and experienced, no matter in small, medium or large classes, the number of people in one class in these kindergartens is almost over 30, most of which are about 35. Among the education that a person receives from childhood to adulthood, the education in kindergarten needs patience and love most. Because the child is too young and knows little about the world around him, so every flower and tree, every bird and stone needs the teacher’s careful instruction, and the children in this period are at the age of 100,000 why every day. For example, a child would suddenly come over and say to the teacher, teacher, where did my father take me to play yesterday. At this time, the teacher mostly responded to the child, and then the child ran away. Then a child ran over and said to the teacher: teacher, I know my father’s phone number. Just recite a string of numbers. The teacher often responded: Well, the product is great. Because more than 30 children will have various problems both in the process of playing and learning, and we have to take care of the safety of each child while we are busy with work, big and small stumbling, rubbing and rubbing, when parents ask, you should know how the child was hurt. Therefore, when children tell us some problems, we also want to listen more patiently than mothers. For example, for the first child’s question, we will not respond with one word, but communicate with the child and guide the child to recall to exercise his memory ability. For example, what did you play with dad? Did you have fun? Who did you meet? What did you see? In the process of communication with children, children’s language expression ability, emotional development, interpersonal communication and other abilities will be improved. When answering my second child, I wanted to ask him: Why did you remember dad’s phone number? Then guide the children to know what to do if they are lost. But the reality doesn’t allow us to do that. Children say a lot. When they swarm around, you wish you have 100 pairs of ears, 100 brains, 100 mouths to listen, think and answer children’s questions. In addition, early childhood teachers level low, mostly specialist graduate. Because the salary level of preschool teachers is very low, even those who want to be teachers seldom work in kindergartens. Those excellent teachers prefer to choose primary and secondary schools rather than kindergarten teachers, most of the teachers who stay in kindergartens are teachers with secondary school or junior college education. Most of these teachers work directly after two or three years of pre-school education after graduating from junior high school or senior high school, and their professional qualities cannot be reached. In the class I saw, many teachers would scold their children, and they would lose their temper easily, seldom being patient and caring. The quality of a better kindergarten teacher is relatively good. Most of them just lose their temper and reprimand children who make mistakes. However, the worse kindergarten is to knock the child’s head directly with the books in hand or the remote control, and when correcting the homework for the child, it will drop the wrong child’s homework to the ground and pick it up and rewrite it. These are the pictures in my memory when I was a child, which reappeared in front of me 20 years later. It really makes me chilling. When I squatted down and gently patted and shook my baby, when I got up, I saw another teacher stepping on the ground and on the edge of the child’s bed, the right hand grabbed the clothes on the child’s chest and picked up the child directly. I can hardly imagine what kind of feeling it was, that is, you were still in a sweet sleep, it was not woken up by the annoying noise but directly suspended by a giant. What a shock it was. But the children seemed to get used to it. They didn’t cry or make noise. They suddenly opened their eyes and got up obediently. There was no drug administration and no abuse. This was a relatively good county-level kindergarten, but it made me feel cold. However, in the vast rural areas, kindergartens are just emerging. Most teachers are rural women who have no jobs but know a few words. I have never visited such kindergartens, but I have been able to imagine what kind of situation the rural education is like. Let’s compare the differences in children’s activities between municipal kindergartens and County kindergartens. Of course, there is no need to say that municipal kindergartens are relatively good in terms of children’s education, but they are a little cautious in terms of children’s safety, thus depriving children of many rights. Parents in the city, children are not good, children’s friction is extremely satisfied. Once, a little boy didn’t know how to cut a path the size of an adult nail cover on his face during playing. There was no bleeding, but only a little bit of skin was scratched, with a slight blush. Because he didn’t feel any pain, the child didn’t notice it at all, but the teacher didn’t hesitate to fight to find out who hurt him. Finally, he didn’t find out. Even the child himself didn’t know how to hurt him, who hurt it. Afterwards, I asked the teacher if he was too enthusiastic. The teacher told me that it was difficult to do the work of parents in the city. Because parents couldn’t bear the little stumbling on their children, and even some parents threatened to go to South Korea for plastic surgery because of a little bit of broken skin, and finally the teacher came to visit them again with apology and apology, this matter was solved. In view of such parents’ requirements, teachers will ask children not to run, because they are afraid of meeting, not to jump, because they are afraid of falling down, not to play by stones, because they are afraid of hitting. Because children don’t keep order, they shorten the time of playing slide. I seemed to see David’s mother, standing in front of the naughty David with her waist crossed, saying this and that to David angrily. Children love to explore by nature. Why do we even deprive them of running happily and jumping happily? The child wants to touch the big stone, but we say no; The child wants to pick up a leaf and tear it up and scatter it in a small hole, and we say no; The child wants to touch the black thing, we say no; The curiosity of children is gradually stifled by our adults, and gradually becomes passive, and everything needs to be told by adults. When they grow up, they become Neet. The children became porcelain dolls, which were protected like a vase. Once the wind blows and the rain blows, they will be broken. However, kindergartens at county level do better in this aspect. Teachers and parents are not afraid of their children’s dirty clothes. They know that children grow up in stumbling, so children can play as much as possible, as long as there is no big problem. Once, during the process of playing, a child tripped over by another child and hit his mouth. The upper part of the lips was not only worn out, but also bleeding. Although the child did not cry, I was still a little worried. The teacher coaxed the child to say nothing, and the child ran to play again. Of course, this teacher did something wrong, at least he should apply some bruising medicine. This is the gap between the children in the city and the children in the county. I think of my childhood. I was born in the countryside and played in a soil pit since I was a child. I don’t know what kind of pit it is. In short, it is very large, and there are many plants and various bugs in it. In summer, after rain, we will step on a depression with bare feet to catch dark tadpoles. There are towering trees on the edge of the pit, and part of the developed root system under the tree will be exposed, the steep pit edge and vigorous tree roots formed a natural climbing place of two or three meters high for us, which became our paradise without any safety measures, my friends and I climbed up and down. We were so happy that we were reluctant to go home for dinner when it was dark. Then we went to play the next day. Firstly, because the population of our country is really too large and the number of kindergartens is very limited, there is a phenomenon of overstaffing in kindergartens currently. The management of adults still needs various conditions to restrain, let alone children. Therefore, in such a big environment, our teachers seem to have more than their heart but less strength. Secondly, the teaching staff is not strong enough, and the level of teachers is not high enough. The professional quality of teachers is not high enough, and the professional level is not enough, children cannot be patiently guided and educated in the right way. Thirdly, the quality of parents is not high enough, and their understanding of children’s education is not enough. So there is a saying that if you want to educate children, you should first make a reform in parents’ education. In early childhood education, there is a phenomenon of 5+2 7, that is, the good habit that children develop in kindergarten for 5 days will be destroyed at home for two days on weekends. Yes, good habits, is need over time, 1.1 drops established, but good habit of destruction but is easy as pie, once bad behavior, it is enough to make this good habit built one brick and one tile collapse. When I read teacher Yin Jianli’s microblog that day, I saw a comment, which roughly meant that our idea was very advanced, but it seemed to be so oppressed in front of collective management. Seeing these two words of grievance really aroused thousands of emotions. I am really want to change this situation, but it is really a long way to go, and it is difficult to change at that time. So at this time, a good mother is particularly important. In kindergarten, a good mother really outperforms a good teacher. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…