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In Grade 9, he and I were divided into the same class. At that time, he sat behind me and we were divided into the same group. There are four girls and two boys in our group. Every time it was our turn to work together, these two boys would be lazy. Their reason was always: look at how could we move these jobs with our small arms and legs. At that time, his impression on me was too melodramatic, so his impression on me was not so good. He likes sleeping very much, especially in English class. Once, he slept in the English class and was seen by the English teacher. The teacher was very angry and asked him to stand up, but he didn’t stand up, and even pushed his mouth to the teacher. Because of this, he impressed me even worse. Although he and I were front and back tables, he and I didn’t say much. Later, he added my QQ, and we chatted frequently, so my impression of him changed a lot. Once I had a long-distance race in PE class, I ran the last one. He laughed at me on QQ. I sent him the last one, which is also the first. He was speechless immediately after reading it. In the second semester of junior three, we entered the review and devoted ourselves to fighting for the senior high school entrance examination. At that time, I studied very well and he always consulted me, especially in mathematics. As time goes by, we gradually get familiar with each other, get closer to each other, and have more words between us. My girlfriends all said that he liked me, and asked I am whether he liked him or not. I said that I only regarded him as my friend, I am wouldn’t like him. Soon, he confessed to me. At that time, I only said something to him to let me think about it, so he gave me a week to think about it, after hearing this, people in the class all told me to promise him because they thought he was really good. A week later, he asked me whether I agreed. At that time, I told him to think about it. But this time, he didn’t give me time, but directly asked me how long do you plan to think about this time, one month? Two months? Or a year? Two years? I looked at him and said could it take so long? If you can, then the relationship is very good. He just rolled his eyes at me and then told me that if you don’t agree, I won’t study hard. At that time, I just thought: promise, promise, anyway, it will soon be the senior high school entrance examination, and break up with him after the examination. So I agreed. The thing that I promised him soon spread out. The whole third grade people knew it, even parents and teachers. But they didn’t care about us, because they were going to take the senior high school entrance examination soon. They were afraid that it would affect our study. Under my persuasion, he began to learn English, while under his supervision, I took good exercise. At that time, we had to go to night self-study, from ten o’clock to ten o’clock. After the night self-study, everyone would be very hungry, and he would go to the store every day to buy some snacks for my roommate to bring me back. It seems that I rely on him unconsciously. After the senior high school entrance examination, I didn’t propose to break up with him, because I was used to the feeling of having him around me, and it was not until later that I realized that I used to become dependent. Before the senior high school entrance examination, he once asked me whether I would forget him if I broke up with him one day. I told him that I was assured that I would definitely forget you. The reason why I said that was that I didn’t want to admit that I liked him. After hearing what I said, his eyes flashed a trace of sadness, but soon he told me that I am wouldn’t let you forget me. At that time, I didn’t understand what he meant, but soon I knew. Because one night, he kissed me without my consent. At that time, my thoughts were relatively conservative, so I was very angry and said to him that you were satisfied, and I would not forget you. Then he turned around and left, but he took my hand. Please forgive him. Finally, I forgive him. That summer vacation, I was particularly interested in constellation. I studied the personality characteristics of Sagittarius and Aries throughout the summer vacation, except for the time when he came to me. It is said in the book that Sagittarius and Aries are born pairs. After reading it, I feel very happy. Later, the game of name-based marriage was popular on the Internet, and the difference between my name and his name was zero. The difference was zero, which meant that there was a pair in the sky and a pair on the ground. At that time, I thought this might be fate. I accepted him early in my heart. However, after entering high school, we had less contact and our relationship became weaker with the passage of time. Finally, one day he broke up with me on QQ. I didn’t say anything after reading it, but that night, I cried. It was also in that night that I found out how much I liked him, but I didn’t urge him to stay because of my saving face, even without saying a word. Later, my grades declined sharply, and I also became depressed because of this. Everyone said that falling in love would not affect my study, but I really believed that falling out of love would happen. Until I was promoted to the second year of senior high school, I told myself that I couldn’t fall down any more, so I made great efforts to make progress, and my grades were stable at medium level. Sometimes I think of him and what I have tested. Only one day, I find that I am not Aries, and my name is not zero. Because of my years of habit, I wrote one more of my names, which made the difference between our names zero, thus weaving a beautiful dream for myself. Only when I woke up did I realize that I had been wrong for so many years. From then on, I no longer paid attention to the constellation, even didn’t want to hear it. Seeing anything about the constellation, I no longer believed in fate. Occasionally one day I read a sentence from the book that when you like me, I don’t like you; When you fall in love with me, I begin to like you; When you leave me, I fall in love with you. I felt that this sentence was very suitable for me, so I collected it. He always wanted to hear me say I love you, but I never said it. Now I want to say it, but he is gone. If God gives me another chance, I will definitely tell that boy that I love you, and I have to add a deadline to it after the day. I hope it will last ten thousand years. Spring elimination snow Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

I

People say that the lotus flowers in summer stand gracefully in the pond, leaving its beauty alone. It brings comfort to visitors! People all envy! I think, I also have distinctive features, why not bloom my unique beauty? Lotus flowers are out of the silt without being dyed, while I am in the noisy streets, even dealing with various people. I will never be infected by their evil manners and customs. On the contrary, I am infecting people with a lotus posture, and making my fragrance beautiful in front of people. I want to show my beauty and let my unique breath spread out among the crowd, with fragrance everywhere! Everyone likes to be an official and addicted to horses, but I like to build my own world with my own abilities. This is my uniqueness. Moreover, I am a strong man with integrity and pride. He doesn’t make special or pull with others, but he always wants to release his talent and Bloom his beauty in the world. Those who know me don’t need to explain; Those who don’t know me think I am arrogant. This is not that I am showing off myself, but that I want to create some wealth and new flowers to present in front of the world. As we all know, how wonderful it would be if everyone had the ability to innovate and contribute to the country! It is no better than always taking the old road. But people’s eyes are always not used to my unique scenery, and they think I am very unsightly, which makes me not appreciated by others for many years, and even not recognized by superiors! I can only compromise and seek perfection, and live in the world reluctantly. When going out for a walk in summer, I often see the graceful and fragrant lotus flowers in the pond, which are surprisingly beautiful, so I am very envious! I want to be as independent as Lotus, proud of my beauty! I often think alone and want to be a useful person for people to appreciate like Lotus. If one day I stand there proudly, how glorious I would be! At that time, I will also feel delighted! For many years, I can’t release myself. I can only live in the moment of others and be a diligent worker. When can you enjoy your own beauty and talent alone. Seeing the dazzling of others, I really want to fly into the sky, rushing out of my bound nest and showing my wings. Although I have worked hard for many years, I have not changed my pure nature at all, nor been infected by a trace of dust in the world. There is a red heart that loves one’s career, imagining that one day, one day, one will rush out of the cage and release one’s passion. I want to show my unique beauty and deliver my light and heat to the people and the public. Although it is not the right time, that heart has been hidden in my heart, waiting for the opportunity, waiting for the critical moment. I want to show my unique beauty. Every time when people talk about me, that is my different symbol; Every time when people envy me, that is my unique performance; Every time when people praise me, that is the process of my leap. I have my own characteristics, my ability, my distinctive character and extraordinary talent. I want to show my beauty and release my talent. People say that I am a non-ordinary person. Indeed, I am different from others. What others can pass is that I am stuck. It’s not that I don’t work hard. On the contrary, I am a special person. Others can beg for their superiors, but I can’t. I want to show the world with my own ability, and I want to fight for my future with my own strength. You don’t need to look at others’ faces, you don’t need others’ sponsorship, you just need a space, you just need me to fly freely. I can show my elegant demeanour! I want to show my unique beauty! Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Old books

In the winter vacation, there is neither snow floating in the north nor tea fragrance in the snowy night; In this place where there is a sea, it can be accompanied by the chill of warm winter and friends with the pile of old paper, looking for the spring, Xia Yang and Qiu Shi scattered in it ……… reading in the electronic age has drowned too much passion and trace, and can not wrap up the intellectual taste left by the scholars, however, it is easy to erase the greedy eyes of readers at that time and the ever continuous support. In addition to the embodiment of ownership, possession still has an eternal meaning in form. The old books that were occasionally or deliberately obtained were tossed and turned to the past time and space and writing end of different possessors, but they often ended on the way of the possessors. Those old books dedicated to the realistic demands or the ideal kingdom are still so restrained and lustrous. The reason is nothing more than that: the historical ones are always the present ones! In a corner of the world, they are gradually getting old; The holiday rhythm is no longer so orderly, however, it can allow the old self to read the historical catalogue built by these old books around in disorder, which is better than reading the present future. Old books are generally divided into examination, occupation, appreciation and research. The second-hand bookstores on the Internet, at the same time of giving back their good appearance and low price, also couldn’t help triggering alarmist worries about things that didn’t belong to their own. The blank space of the blockbuster, the whole paragraph and the whole article does not leave the Masters reading the phrases; While this delights the second-hand masters of my generation, they can’t help sighing: the symbol and essence, the skeleton and the soul, the present and the future in the book are all ended at a certain time node of the past form, and cannot be extended to a possible future, writers who delayed the poor years worked hard and made delicate intentions. When the book arrives, it seems that the lack of hatred is not only the amount of possession, but also the moral of the quality level of possession; The electronic reading eliminates the pain of space occupation; the limited life cycle also provides a cover for us to taste it; The diversity of life styles also drives away the opportunity to meet them deeply. Simplicity is a rich cause and starting point; The satisfaction on the surface is usually at the cost of the lost inside and the regret in the future, although it seems that the current possessors do not need to touch the original meaning of the book. A Brief History of Time is also a brief history of reading, but also a brief history of life: no fault is allowed; The accumulation of quantity may not have a qualitative leap, but: the amount of absence will certainly not wake up the qualitative nerve endings! A hundred times of scholars, a lifetime of praise (prose editor: drops of ink into wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Drink a

The first blooming petals flick down the hair, lingering at the gentle fingertips. The spring has already turned the branches Green, dancing in the sunshine with a piece of bright. In the soft spring light, the beauty of spring is lightly displayed, singing the green grass in the deep of the cold dawn. The sunny morning is excellent. The green leaves were full of sunshine, which spurted from the edge bit by bit and spread on the ground, beating the immature faces of the flowers. Pushing open the window, a burst of flowers came, bumping into a faint scent, and the heart became pure. The flowers bloom vigorously, surrounded by clusters, like a group of naughty children, lined up in a long line, greedily absorbing the warmth given by sunshine. A string of white locust flowers, like waterfall pouring down, low-brow pleasing shy appearance, making people fondle. When I was young, there were several locust trees behind my house. Every early May, they were always full of flowers, lingering around the house, and the whole house was full of fragrance. In the evening, the fragrance of flowers is not as strong and light as in the afternoon. I like sitting in the yard most, letting the fragrance of flowers permeate my whole body, and suddenly I have an illusion of being in fairyland. At that time, when I was young, I happened to know from my parents that locust flowers were edible. My brother and I ransacked the flowers on the locust trees and took them home to have a good meal, later, we both felt dizzy and distended, with a lot of nosebleeds. Mother told us that locust flower can be eaten, but petals cannot be eaten raw. In order to understand our greed, my mother cooked the locust cake by herself. At that time, it was the first time that I had such a delicious pastry. Growing up slowly, I spent most of my time in school. In the season of blooming locust flowers, I was often not at home and had no chance to taste the flavor of locust flower cake any more. That grassland is more intense than the previous days. The breeze knocked on the window, brushed my cheek, and blew the blue silk on my shoulder. It was gentle and soft to my heart. A group of children were flying kites on the grass, running happily. Laughter spread over my ears and flew over my palm. Birds streaked across the sky without leaving any trace, but shadows circled in the air. I turned my dream into a soft cloud and hung it on the feathers of birds. I asked them to take it far away and send a plain heart to spring. There were a few idle people passing by on the bridge occasionally. The running water under the bridge flowed slowly, just like this spring, walking unhurriedly. Several slender willow trees stand on the water, sometimes quiet and indifferent, sometimes dancing with the wind. Seeing willow trees, I couldn’t help thinking of Jiangnan, and I drew a beautiful picture in my mind. Weeping willows gave me a dream, a girl’s dream that only exists in my imagination. At the Riverside of Jiangnan Lake, I was dressed in white and plain dress, standing against the tree. The breeze pulled up my skirt corner, the skirt was swaying in the wind, and willow branches were playing beside my shoulder. Long hair and waist, waiting to marry, just waiting to join hands with that person. I am looking forward to Jiangnan Lake, and I am looking for it if I don’t let go. I am willing to wait for him to make a promise when he was young, even when the world is desolate, I miss the prosperity of 3000 thousand, and my appearance is weak. Even though I married another man as my wife in the end, he held hands with others all his life and left me in the corner of time. At least I had been deeply loved, and there was still a miss in my heart, youth is not so pure white. This was a young girl’s dream created by Jiangnan and Willow for me when I was young, a dream only existed in fantasy. The weather in spring is always cloudy and sunny, and it is still bright and clear at noon. The sky just changed its face, and the dark clouds fled around hurriedly. Before the Sunshine put away its light, the feet caught up after the rain. The rain fell on the ground and the water splashed everywhere, wet the cloth shoes of pedestrians. The thin body of the leaves could not lift the weight of the rain, so they bent down and let the rain wash away the filth on their bodies. After a rain, the leaves shake away the rain, and immediately become bright and bright, as clean as the sun. The sun was in a daze and the rain was misty. A layer of cloud and mist covered the sky. In a flash, the Sun could not find the direction to go home. The leaves are looking forward to that gentle sunshine can illuminate its atrium. When the sunset falls, the afterglow mountains and hills meet and shine, the farmers put away farm tools and strolled on the way home. The frogs began to sing, the birds on the trees were sleepy, and the night in spring was not quiet. The stars didn’t seem to grow up, and there was a faint light shining around the moon. The Moon was gorgeous. She took the responsibility of her mother and protected the empty little stars with her own light. The sound of frogs in the pond became clearer and the street lamps became brighter. Drink a pot of spring and enjoy a moment of leisure time. I would like to give a moment of quiet heart to intoxicate my life in this beautiful spring. If you can’t catch the tail of time, then you can enjoy the scenery given by the season quietly, and your heart will be beautiful quietly. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Into

Walking into the deep heart, because heart is the soul and essence of human beings, which can make you succeed or fail. It will teach you how to be a real person. The ancients said that at the beginning of human life, the nature was good, and every child was born with a blank sheet of paper. Children kept learning and feeling in his environment, thus forming their own unique characters and characteristics, when my child was in infancy, he had a unique preference for colors. I put colorful balloons on his bedside, and then I kept pointing at the green balloons and told him that Green was the color of life, red shines on people like sunshine, giving people warmth. Blue is like an ocean. Through these colorful colors, he can get in touch with the world and understand the world. Later, when he was a little older, he was very interested in the cities that reported the weather forecast every day and could recite a large number of cities according to the weather forecast order, I seized this feature and hung a map of China on the white wall. I pointed out the cities he read every day on the map to show him. Tell him where Beijing is, and it is the capital of China. Teach him to sing “I love Tiananmen Square in Beijing”, his observation, memory and understanding of the motherland, it will be sublimated in the song again and again. Map is the representation of the objective world narrowed down, and it is the result of using visualization method to represent the spatial distribution range and location of things. How big the world is, the map tells you that your baby has been used to reading maps since childhood and even can understand maps, It is very beneficial for him to know the world and broaden his horizon. When he was four years old, he grew up very fast in this period. If he stopped a little and looked at something with serious eyes, he would surely find some novel things, and then he kept on asking: What is this? How? Why? Mother. Things in this world were still mostly strange to him. In order to understand, he would take pains to investigate. I often feel too much for his spirit of chasing after him. When I was busy for dinner, my father accompanied my child on behalf of me. At that time, his father told the child interesting information from the outside world, which could not only satisfy the curiosity of the child, but also enhance the emotion between father and son. In order to let my child receive music education from childhood, I enrolled him in an electronic piano class. Music is a kind of beautiful thing, which is most suitable for children’s physical and mental development. Children can find fun in learning music, develop intelligence, cultivate sentiment, and learn to discover and feel beauty. When playing musical instruments, children need to use hands, brains and various sensory organs, which develops children’s observation, memory, comprehension and creativity. Through persistent practice, children’s good non-intellectual quality can also be cultivated, confidence and courage of not afraid of difficulties can be established from childhood, tenacious perseverance can be cultivated, and good learning habits can be formed. At that time, he was so ridiculous that he could barely get on the electronic organ when he stood up. He was very interested in learning from boring fingering and persisted for three months. Later, because no one picked him up, I didn’t stick to it. Later after graduating from primary school, I asked him to learn guitar again. He went to school by car. Although his fingers became swollen, he never complained and tired. Under his insistence, he could gradually play music, when he was tired and mentally painful in school, he would play a song. Music could cure all his wounds. Whenever the school engages in literary and artistic activities, he will carry on his beloved guitar, improvise a song for his classmates and share his happiness with them. Because of music, he felt that every day of his life was brand new. How could life be brand new only by learning in class. If you want to step into the child’s heart, parents should first be thoughtful people in life, and even they have to learn again. When he learned electronic piano, I first learned to learn simple notation, and then taught the child, learn with children, so that you can enter the childlike world unconsciously. Nowadays, some parents think that education is a matter of the school. They hand over their children to the school, and make money by themselves, go to social parties and play mahjong, to enjoy all kinds of adult entertainment consumption. I am not such a parent. I think since I gave birth to him, I must take the responsibility of being a mother, Give the best to the child. I remember that in the view of children in Montessori education law, there is such a view that children are the father of adults. Educator Mr. Tao Xingzhi once wrote a thought-provoking poem: Everyone says that children are small, but nobody knows that people should be careful; If you look down upon children, they are even smaller than children. The sun and moon I spent with my child made me deeply feel the innocence, simplicity, truth and nature of the child, moved me and recalled me; As time went, seeing my child grow up healthily and steadily in life, he has made remarkable achievements in all aspects. I am proud of him and cheer for him. I hope that when my child grows up, he can become a person who is considerate and full of cooperative spirit, and a person who is good at seizing opportunities and realizing ideals. More importantly, let him have extensive knowledge, and let every stage of the child’s life naturally acquire the growth experience and lessons that should be in this stage. For a while, he didn’t have a good meal. I invited my neighbor’s children to eat with him. The neighbor’s children liked the dishes that I cooked a little spicy. I found that the child ate with his friends, which was much more fragrant. He enjoyed the joy of sharing delicious food with his friends. I also asked him to share his toys with his companions. For a while, the child of his father’s colleague was not able to pick up in time, so he asked her to stay at my home after school, I asked my child to tell stories and play games with her. In this way, they will not lose interest in stories or books. The two children turn pages together or draw with their fingers, which is convenient for them to understand the content of the story. Gradually, children can tell stories they are familiar. Read books in fun, discover the truth, goodness and beauty independently, pursue the harmony of the universe, carry forward the essence of virtue contained in one’s own learning nature, and give full play to the function of life, it mainly relies not on interpersonal competition and comparison, but on the incentive emotional factors implied by cultural, creative and communicative activities to deeply and strongly arouse people’s enthusiasm, it encourages people to get rid of the low-level competition that haggle over every ounce, Make it have broad and grand tolerance, lofty ambition, noble feelings and elegant behavior. In addition to studying in the college, he now participates in the second China green coarse grain King Cup host contest of the college. The twelve players who entered the final competed for five awards respectively, and the Twelve players were divided into six groups to show their talents, test their partner’s tacit understanding and host the simulated scene. He cooperated well with his classmates during the performance. Although he didn’t win the prize, I think he has gained growth during the competition. I look forward to seeing him more mature. The so-called true love is to regard children as real masters, respect their personalities, meet their needs and guide their development without seeking the benefits of selfish desires. It is pure and rational love. People will be grateful only when they get something. At the beginning, when God gave her husband a sweetheart, he was so grateful. When the child enters primary school or middle school, he always shows a dissatisfaction with the child. When the child makes a mistake accidentally, or the test result is not satisfactory, he would sink his face. The child was already under pressure. Seeing his father like this, without beating and scolding the child, the child himself would shed tears. Later, I persuaded my husband to have a healthy child, which was good. We should be grateful and learn to worship. When children can walk and talk, we should appreciate and worship him; When children can read and sing, we should appreciate and worship him; when a child makes some progress or success, he should look at him with admiration, and raise his thumb and say gratefully: really good! My childhood as you! Isn’t this happy for all? It should be learned that foreign parents should ask their children whether they are happy at school and whether there are interesting and novel things when they enter the school, and then turn to their study lessons slowly. Isn’t that good? Don’t let children feel that school is boring. Parents are unkind and don’t understand children’s busy people. Our family is an ordinary family, and life is not rich, every important thing in the family is always discussed together, from buying a new house to adding refrigerators and color TV sets, from celebrating the festival to showing filial piety to the elderly, every expense should be explained in front of the children, approval of the children consent. After enjoying the right of democratic financial management, children deeply realize that every item in the family is hard-won and permeated with their parents’ sweat, so they admire their parents even more, I always treat my parents with courtesy and feel happy. We try every means to accompany our children and make them feel the warmth of their parents. Often accompany children to play, watch TV, play football, play Go, raise small animals, practice pen characters, play in middle school and play in school. They also went to the streets with their children to purchase goods and visit relatives and friends, which added infinite fun to their life. Naturally, they could concentrate on their study. The ancients cloud: gou bu jiao, fu zhi guo; jiao bu yan, shi zhi duo. As the saying goes, there is no bad crops, only farmers who can’t grow crops; When crops grow badly, farmers never complain about crops. Therefore, when children develop unhealthy, parents are required to take the initiative to take responsibility, find reasons from themselves and actively solve problems for their children. This is the positive attitude and effective method to solve problems.. People are not grass and plants, which can be ruthless. Therefore, when criticizing, you must be sensible and emotional, so that children can accept criticism and education sincerely and accept your lifelong gift with gratitude. We should carry out transposition thinking and pay attention to various critical Arts under the mentality that I am more sad than you. By telling a story, children can understand the truth; By reasoning, children can understand the harm; By telling a joke, children can laugh through tears. Entering the mysterious and strange forest in the child’s heart, I think love alone is far from enough. To interpret it, we must first walk into the child’s spiritual world, understand the child’s thoughts and thoughts, understand the child’s smiles and the friendship expressed with one hand. Children are a book, from childhood to youth, from youth to youth, parents turn back page by page, but it is very difficult to truly understand it. In a sense, our parents should keep pace with the times and grow up with their children. The advantages they show in front of computers and the Internet make adults far behind. When children play, they squat down and even play with them; When children progress, they share the joy of success with them; When children are unhappy, listen to their troubles sincerely. If parents want to overcome the gap with their children, they must put down their airs and make friends with them to understand and see their inner world. If children can regard you as a bosom friend, then you are a competent parent, and you will become a good teacher and friend of your child, and you will have a green card to enter the child’s heart. If parents can grow up with their children from the very beginning, look at their children with their children’s eyes, and keep a childlike innocence all the time, then as the children grow up, you will find that, while children gradually understand the world, you also gradually understand the book of children and walk into the spiritual world of children. Our children’s heart is a book, which needs to be read carefully to understand. Children’s hearts are made of crystal, which needs the care of parents to protect them from harm. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

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In the past, I always liked to use this topic when writing things. The reason was very simple, because I couldn’t think of a better topic to replace it, so I was lazy, to say, the reason why I first used it was that I saw Li Shangyin wrote a lot of untitled poems. Although it was said to be untitled, it was very charming. Therefore, I like these two words very much. It was because I could say nothing. I didn’t feel very nervous this week, because I felt uncomfortable, so I relaxed my requirements for myself. Thinking about the biggest harvest this week was that I finished watching “lurking, the cross stitch is about to be completed. Ha ha, I lived a very depraved life for a week. Although the exam is coming soon, I feel that I am not very crowded and my life is not very tired because I have finished a lot of classes. I don’t like to go to class on time and on time. I feel very tired. It is better to be free like this. If you want to learn, you can go to school. If you are tired, you can sleep. That’s great. The biggest achievement after watching “lurking” is that Yu Zecheng is very lucky. No matter where he lurks, there will be beauty accompanying him. The revolutionary love is also very romantic with a line in it, in fact, I think it is also a good thing to give love a reason with the help of external power. Because I have lived in Miaofeng Mountain for a period of time, I am very familiar with the environment there, therefore, watching some scenes in the TV series is also very friendly, which is also one of the driving forces for me to watch it. Because my orchid Bell was almost finished, I went to turn around after dinner. I wanted to watch the Orchid Pavilion Preface, but later I found that it was too big, it is really inappropriate to put it in a small study, and the calligraphy was originally smooth, but I saw the embroidered Qinyuanchun was really awkward, from a nearby point of view, it could not be seen that it was a Chinese character, so I gave up. I sat there for a long time and chose two. I didn’t know whether others liked them or not, so I hesitated for a long time and finally didn’t buy them. Maybe the more I care about, the more I will spend my time on them, I am always afraid that its beauty will be destroyed by the slightest negligence. Wait a minute. Since this week, we can spend every week on May Day, because there is no class on Friday, we will be liberated after Thursday. What did I do this Friday morning? I forgot. I was pushed to the West to discuss URP’s task as soon as I prepared to go to sleep in the afternoon. But it’s okay, in the evening, H and his wife also invited us to dinner, which was very rich. After we were full of wine and food, we went back to the office to open a small KTV, and everyone sang very High, it was just that I was always cooking crane and burning the piano. I was afraid that it would destroy everyone’s interest. I really didn’t want to speak, but I was forced to have no choice but to bite the bullet. As a result, I was defeated soon, it seems that I will never sing on the stage in my life. I wonder why I feel so tired when singing because my voice is not small at ordinary times? This is a problem. I stayed in the dormitory for a day on Saturday, and the biggest harvest was to finish reading “lurking”. I learned President Hu’s speech on Sunday morning and etiquette in the afternoon, I don’t know why I hate this stylized thing from now on, so I keep deserving my job and haven’t read much of the idle book in my hand. I came back to sleep, woke up for dinner, and then went to Wudaokou to have a cross stitch with classmate N. Then I went back from Ximen and bought yogurt on the way. Although we thought it was expensive, it was really delicious, then I bought some snacks in Daoxiang village and turned into the school with them. I sat in the family area until 9 o’clock, watching the group of old ladies listening to cross talk in a circle, I think it’s good in Agricultural University. It’s enough to be quiet. There are children running around there. N said he envied them, and I said I didn’t. They still need to go to junior high school, senior high school, university is tiring. We talked about the South, the North, the East and the West. We had a good chat. It was already 9: 30 when we returned to the dormitory after we bought the last thing. At noon today, I dreamed that s took us to Taiwan for research. When I woke up, I understood that I am watched “lurking” too much. Last time I watched “Shanghai Beach”, there was always a fire of war and smoke in my dream, it seems that I will choose to watch TV series in the future. What I wrote today is all running accounts. Fortunately, I am not an important person. Don’t worry about being investigated, hehe. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Virtual

If giving is a kind of happiness, why be stingy? My attitude towards network friends is: I am intersecting with you, as light as water. \network is like a mirror, which can clearly reflect you and me in reality. It is said that the Internet is virtual, but I think it is real. I always treat the Internet as a person, what is in reality and what is on the Internet. On the Internet, I have been sowing sincerity, so I have gained a lot of friendship. Of course, there may be white lies in the process, but I have chosen forgiveness and forgiveness, because I know: to forgive others is to forgive myself. After all, no one is perfect. The Internet should be: let people learn to cherish the reality and live a happier life, instead of letting people abandon life and become more indulgent. What I have gained most from surfing the Internet for so long is that I have learned to cherish my happiness more! Virtual things can never be real, and real things can never be virtual. In the virtual network, stay sober and self! I hope everyone can find real happiness and happiness on the Internet and in reality! May the Internet make our life better and happier! Virtual network, real self! Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Home

It is a custom that comes from returning to my mother’s home to send the new year. On Lunar December 27, it was nearly noon before she called her daughter to set foot on the road back to her mother’s home. Although the solar term has already begun in spring, it has no meaning of spring at all. The yellow and soft grass beside the road crawls on the roadside. The tall poplar trees stand proudly and straight, with bare branches, clear and steep, pointing directly to the sky. It is expected that in the cold wind, poplar trees are arranged freely along the road, extending along the continuous road to the distance of green and hazy—-. From time to time, Big Bird nests were held on the high tree branches, and my daughter and son sat behind and looked up the number of bird nests, 103,104 —–, cars passed by from time to time, my speed is getting slower and slower, and my thoughts are drifting farther and farther. Once upon a time, the pace of returning home became so slow. I remember that when I was a new woman, my mother called the day before every holiday. Ni, will you go home tomorrow?, of course, I have to go home. My husband’s family is out of town. It seems to be a rule to go back to her mother’s home on holidays. So I got up early the next morning and went to her mother’s home, delicious food was served as we walked in. Before we had dinner, Dad would push the fresh vegetables of the season back home, bundle and pack them for us so that we could take them away when we went home. As for me, I was also responsible, everything seems to be so logical and natural. In those years, it seemed that most of the rice and vegetable oil on our dinner table came from the private plot of parents—-. After that, I had my own baby, and the number of times I went home was less and less. But every time I went home, I must put the baby in front of my mother’s eyes and went into the inner room to sleep, or ran to the street to find a childhood playmate or a sister-in-law in the neighborhood, aunt playing, as if suddenly back to the cabinet, lawless, unfettered, pampered and willful,. I don’t care about my baby crying. Anyway, mom is here —- Mom, what did you look like during the Spring Festival when you were young? My daughter suddenly asked behind her back that when my mother was young, every New Year, grandma would be busy early with rice pounding, grinding noodles, steamed rice cakes, rice bags, vegetable bags, bean bags, rice noodles and tofu. She was very busy, it is also very lively, then what are you doing? Mom and son asked with interest, the most lively thing for our children is the New Year’s Eve. When we get up early in the morning, my uncle will post couplets with grandpa, all kinds of things in the courtyard room should be pasted with the word “fu” or “fu”, “Xi” for going out for probation at the door, and “Marshal with big ears” should also be posted on the pigsty. It’s so funny, mom,, I also want to post it! My aunt and I mainly run inside and outside to paste and sweep the yard. Then I put on my new clothes and went to the fair with Grandpa. Grandpa would go to the market to buy my uncle a small cannon and a beautiful paper flower for my mother and aunt. The Paper Flower was cut so beautifully that there were all kinds of colors, now the market has disappeared, and I still need to buy bright red ribbons and braids; After the fair comes back, my grandpa will push a truck of river sand and spread it from the door of the back room to the gate, grandma said it was called yellow sand paving the floor, which was full of wealth. Mom, that was superstition!, my daughter, who was just in the third grade, said to me, “I smiled,” but mom likes that statement, because that’s what grandma said. Mom, did you also have lucky money when you were young? But I asked what they cared about most, of course they did. However, it would not exceed ten yuan in total. My son sighed seriously, 10 yuan! But that is already a huge sum of money, silly child, he can buy things that you can’t buy for 200 yuan now. The child couldn’t understand what I said, but just followed his own thinking and said symmetrically, My grandma’s family must be very poor. I didn’t agree and smiled helplessly. Mom, what do you like most during the Spring Festival? My mother likes eating rice sausages made by Grandpa most during the Spring Festival. Every year during the Spring Festival, Grandpa will buy a hang of pig sausages, wash them repeatedly, and then steam the glutinous rice, put onion, ginger and various spices to prepare, put them in a small spoon, use chopsticks to guide them into the pig’s large intestine bit by bit, and then I can’t figure out how to put them in order, anyway, in the end, grandma would serve the fragrant rice sausage which was fried by inch, which was so delicious that both my aunt and uncle like it very much. I want to eat rice intestinal. My son shouted, I also want my daughter to follow me. My mother hasn’t eaten it for many years, so she can’t cook it., why? Son a little disappointed. Because that is too troublesome, it usually takes two days to make a hanging of fragrant rice sausage from cleaning to making a plate. In this world, only grandpa will not be afraid of trouble and do it for us every year, but Grandpa is gone. Home was just around the corner. When my daughter and son came back home, they asked Grandma and uncle, so they hurried to the yard of the village’s neighborhood committee to play, which was a place for fitness and entertainment in the village. Since my father went, my mother’s health has been worse day by day, living with her brother and sister-in-law. My mother and sister-in-law were very happy that we came back. They hurried to prepare lunch and gave in warmly. Seeing that my mother was in good spirits and my sister-in-law was in a tough health, my heart fell into practice. After dinner, we declined the stay of my brother and sister-in-law, and also declined the gifts of my brother and sister-in-law, so we set foot on the journey back. Just like routine, my mother’s trip was completed in this way. Every time I come back, my heart is always sour. Family, family affection is still there, but more enthusiasm, less casual; More polite, less return. In her daughter’s eyes, the smell of home should be the pet of parents, indulgence or even cheating and willfulness. But in the vast crowd of people, in front of whom, do you dare to be so unrestrained? Who will give everything to you like your parents and pay attention to you? Who will give you that kind of complete dependence and return. My father went there, my mother was getting old, and the smell in my heart was getting stronger and stronger, while that family was getting farther and farther, and the pace of going home was getting slower and slower. Home, that is no longer my parents’ home, nor am I the Princess of this House, but just a passer-by in a hurry. Beside the road, on the high tree branch, a magpie circled around the Bird’s Nest. I thought it must be a big love nest, in which there were father, mother, son and daughter. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Accompanied

Buddhism says: Only by looking back for 500 times can we pass by in this life. Then, how many times of praying and looking back can we exchange for mutual dependence and companionship? Accompanying is a kind of fate; Keeping together is a warmth. No matter the edge is deep or shallow, do it and cherish it! Inscription [1] when I was young, I like to fall in love at first sight, whether it is objects or people. I secretly thought that what could make people fall in love at first sight was not necessarily the best or the most beautiful. However, at that particular moment, it must be the most eye-catching, and then the most heart-catching. At that time, the environment was very important, and the mood could not be taken lightly. However, times have changed, things are still the same thing, people are still the original people, but it seems that they are not into the eyes. It was not necessarily what I once fell in love with. It was not beautiful any more. However, in the long river of time passing by, everything was lost to time. Time and not talk, just slowly, 1.1 drop, alter everything the appearance, even mercilessly put all away. Love is time, hate is time. Love and hate are two reasons! Oh, time! I am good at traveling, have seen all kinds of honor and disgrace, have tasted joys and sorrows, and suddenly believe in life. It is true that what can capture you instantly at first sight is irresistible, but at the moment, it is not eternal. No matter how beautiful things or feelings are, if a flash in the pan appears, a meteor will come soon, after all, it’s just a glimpse of the picture, and you can’t be promised to last forever. In life, I only care about the freedom and ease I once had, and only pursue the Glory burning in a flash, which is not only a kind of deep helplessness, but also a kind of thorough sadness. The life is so long, so slow, and the only thing that lasts for a long time is the most fireworks, the warmest, the most ironed, and the most peaceful. Some people say that for women, there is always a lack of clothes in the wardrobe. No matter it is beautiful or mediocre. There is a female writer who is even more precise in her words. Clothes are the most intimate and intimate lover of a woman. She knows how cold and warm she is. As for clothes, women can be described as spoiling. Even if, when the whole world abandons women, only clothes can never leave and accompany with each other, keeping out the cold of the world for women. In fact, most women are picky about clothes, like men who are picky about their future. It is the buyer who dislikes the goods. Color, texture, style, origin, and of course price are all factors that women weigh and compare. Of course, most women believe in falling in love at first sight. If they accidentally encounter a dress that they like, the feeling must be that they want to hold it in their arms immediately, regardless of other factors. Therefore, most of the clothes in a woman’s wardrobe were not obtained on a whim, but were found and met by a woman and invited home seriously. When a woman wears it for the first time, she will instantly feel amazed at the beautiful and fashionable figure in the mirror, and then sigh the charm of the clothes, making the ugly duckling thoroughly remoulded into a white swan. In fact, every woman has a personal experience of that old saying that a man is dressed and saddled. Even before she grows up, Cinderella’s gorgeous life adventure makes every woman who yearns for beauty, I like clothes very much. In my spare time, I tidy up the wardrobe, stroking the long, short, thick, thin, colorful, light and so on with my eyes and fingers, however, every piece of clothes that used to keep their own body temperature is like looking back on the beautiful time that they have not gone far, like reliving the warm and beautiful classic moments of the years one by one, there will suddenly be a kind of abundant joy and satisfaction in my heart like a rich man. Clothes are a silent language. Or simple, or gorgeous, or gloomy, or bright days, talk with you, talk happily. Every piece of clothes, once or is showing the beauty and goodness of life, once brought their initial throb and left them the deepest warmth. If we say that toys are the favorite of a child’s growth, which is related to heart, then clothes are the favorite of a woman’s life, which is related to body and heart. Even if the emperor is a charming teenager, he will become ugly and old at dusk. One day, one month, one month, one year, the golden year of China is gradually moving away. In this way, women are in close contact with the skin of the clothes, in the shallow love for the clothes from beginning to end, from Zhu Yanyu appearance to the old white temples, from self-pity to peace of mind and warmth. The time flies, and the time flies. Life is warm, life is quiet. Women use colorful clothes one by one to amaze a period of time, to fragrance a period of time, to stay in a beautiful place, to comfort a heart. [2] a small animal, at a certain moment, meets you unexpectedly, which is also a kind of fate that should be carried out and cherished. Perhaps, in the accompanying years, each other cannot enter the other’s world, but if the heart is there, love is there, and the tentacles of the soul can feel the warmth and coldness of each other’s world. The human world, the world of mortals, and every corner of life are crowded with interests. In the Vanity Fair of life, intrigues, intrigues, intrigues, smiles, needles, heart and heart are getting farther and farther, everyone is chasing after each other, rushing to the happy fields one after another in life. Therefore, even if the crowded market is busy, we still feel that our hearts are like being eroded by a little bit by a small bug called loneliness. Loneliness follows the shadow and spreads deeply. Most of the time, we are like standing in the deserted wilderness, Those who did not see the Ancients before and those who did not come later only heard their hurried steps and their sonorous voices. In the misty and rainy world, who is willing to go with you hand in hand and accompany you on a journey of mountain and water? Even though human beings have kept silent, I still believe that there is always a kind of living in the world. As long as you are willing, you will stay with you forever without complaint or regret. We can raise a dog, and of course a cat can also be used. I like dog. Not only because dogs don’t think their families are poor, but also because they are loyal! Not only dogs, but also many animals in nature, in fact, do not have any shortcomings of human beings, but have all the virtues of human beings. That little animal will gradually become the content of your life, even a part of your life. Even became an important member of the family. You give it a name and call her with the most tender and warm voice; You care about its food and clothing, just like caring about a child waiting for feeding; You make it your shadow, run in your life all the time. At first, maybe it was not because of emotion, but because of the need of barren and empty soul. However, the court also accompanied the evening, lighting Love with Love and irrigating love with love, what kind of heart will eventually be soft, so, naturally, its warmth and warmth, its joy and anger become the hang of your life. Most of the time, for animals, we are used to treating ourselves as saviors, as if we gave them the whole world. In fact, the world is thin and cool, and many times, we need the loyalty of animals to keep warm. Watching the rise and fall with insight, seeing through beauty and ugliness is always silent. Animals, in fact, also possess the great wisdom and virtues of human beings. [3] A person may not be your green plum or bamboo horse, or perhaps, at the moment of meeting, there is no heartbeat of electric light and stone fire, no determination of non-Qing not marrying non-King, just, just as Zhang lailing said, in thousands of people meeting the person you want to meet, in thousands of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, there was no earlier step, no later step, just happened to catch up, there is nothing else to say, but to ask gently: Oh, are you here too? Even, yuan lai yuan to edge water, hua fei hua Xie hua man tian. Any encounter is a reunion after a long separation, and any encounter is a destined fate. Perhaps, at that time, you and I had never noticed that it was just normal. After years, looking back on the past, I suddenly realized that the whole life of searching was to find each other, share the relationship with each other and share the joys and sorrows. In the world of fireworks, hold your hands and grow old with you. Love is not the love before the flowers and under the moon, nor the oath of love. San Mao said, love is not easy to last forever if it doesn’t fall into the real life like dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping. The true love is in a porridge and a meal, in a wisp and a wisp, in a close relationship between each other day and night, in a long stream of water, in a sad and happy life sharing weal and woe. Love is silent, love is like water. The most beautiful love does not need to be vigorous, but only needs to be old and old. Duras said in “Lover” that you were still young at that time, and everyone said you were beautiful. Now, I am come to tell you that for me, I think you are more beautiful now than when you were young. You were a young woman at that time, compared with your appearance at that time, I love your face which has experienced many vicissitudes more. The true love is not the golden years when you love her, but the broken years when you love her more. If life is just like the first sight, what is the autumn wind sad painting fan. More than 300 years ago, Nalan rongruo sighed. Indeed, the first sight may be a glimpse of the world, beautiful and amazing. However, what is long is hardship, and what is short is joy. The fragrance in the memory, the warmth in the years, can not cover the long desolation of the cold of life. Life is a long way, and the night is cold. We can’t just hold ourselves tightly to keep warm. The greatest happiness in life is to share with others. The deepest beauty in life is being accompanied by someone. Reach out and hold each other’s gifts; Raise your eyes and remember each other’s smile. I have always believed that even if there is only half a season when flowers bloom and lovers help each other, they will still feel warm for three years. Like (prose editor: Ink drops into wounds) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Now

In January of 2014, my wife and I, and of course the old people of both sides, were worried about one thing and looking forward to it. This worried expectation was continued from the only hope several years ago. My wife and I are at the same age. She is five days older than me and has passed the year of establishment, 35 years old. He had been married for seven years, but he had not become a parent. Who did this matter lie on and who could not worry? Before that, it was not because we didn’t want it, but because we hadn’t been pregnant. After the Spring Festival in 2011, with the transfer of my work, this matter was put on the important agenda of my family. After that, the traditional Chinese medicine and Western medicine have been seen one after another. Of course, the traditional Chinese medicine and Western medicine are not less put into the belly, and the daughter-in-law has also eaten the so-called prescriptions such as cock blood, jujube bark, red garlic braid and so; in the past two years, we had caught up with the maternity care policy of the Army. We went to the General Hospital of the military region in Beijing, and we couldn’t remember how many times we had run. Only the back and forth tickets were piled up a little thick. However, the pain was not less, the money was not less, but the wife’s belly still did not move. It is inevitable that our parents worry about ourselves. It was also in January, 2014, lunar December 18 before the Spring Festival, that grandma died of illness. After sending the old man out, he met the cousin who came to the funeral at the gate of the second uncle. She asked about our situation face to face: Is my wife pregnant, Liang? Not yet, my cousin. I responded truthfully, and there was no lack of frustration in my tone. This is what I need in my life! I was shocked when she said this. I knew that this cousin always spoke fiercely. Her prickly words might be heartless, but it really hurt me. Although I felt resentful in my heart, I couldn’t break out. Firstly, she was a relative of the funeral and an elder, so she couldn’t ignore the way of treating guests and respecting the elderly; Secondly, she just sent it to the old man, since then, they started to make troubles in the street. What’s more, they were originally adults. It was also in January of 2014, after the white affair of Grandma, our big family rushed to handle the marriage of our eldest brother two days later. I just sent it to the old man and then held a happy event, which seemed unreasonable at first glance. Things have their own reasons. The wedding date of the elder brother and sister-in-law had already been fixed. According to the custom of the hometown, once the date of the new couple’s gift was confirmed, it was not appropriate to change it, otherwise it was not good. Grandma also died of sudden asthma when she went back to her hometown in Shandong from Tanggu to attend her eldest brother’s wedding. Not long after the Spring Festival in 2012, in Tanggu where my eldest brother worked all the year round, a court sentenced him to divorce his eldest sister-in-law because of the breakdown of his relationship. With the help of an attorney, the eldest brother won the custody of his son Yu Hao without much trouble. The verdict required the woman to pay Yu Hao 300 yuan per month for the living expenses, which were 300 yuan per month, yuhao’s mother has not fulfilled any point so far. Yu Hao, who had been in grade one in Tanggu with his eldest brother, had to transfer to his hometown to be taken care of by his grandparents. From then on, besides expecting their second son to become a father as soon as possible, I am looking forward to their big and small children finding a wife to become a family as soon as possible. Nearly two years after my eldest brother divorced, on the third day after sending it to grandma, my parents’ last wish was finally fulfilled. As for the previous wish, they could only watch after the Lantern Festival in 2014 in the distant expectation. In the general hospital of Beijing Military Region, their daughter-in-law accepted the second test-tube baby embryo transfer operation after three artificial insemination. According to the doctor’s advice, my wife and I went back to the hospital two weeks later to check the results. This time it was successful, and finally it was successful! Maybe it was because of the old saying that everything went wrong. After experiencing many difficulties, my wife and I finally stopped worrying and hesitating, and finally saw the birth care policy of the Army’s free medical treatment, it gives us the long-desired hope. I am grateful to the troops and the country from the bottom of my heart. Time came to the 09:12 on the evening of November 2th, 2014 with my parents’ exhortations and my wife’s care. For others, this moment may be irrelevant and not worth mentioning; But for me and my wife, it is crucial and unforgettable, because it is the moment when our lives can continue! At this moment, our son was born safely, in the fervent expectation of my wife and me, in the forgetful cheers of relatives and friends. Just at this moment, the depression, anxiety, loss, hardship, and other haze-like emotions hidden in my wife and me for a long time seemed to have been expected for a long time, the strong breeze blows away and clears away! I think, my old people should also be in this state of mind at this moment. Finally, they can no longer worry about this, for their son and daughter. During the period of serving the confinement at home, I was busy and full. In the rare leisure time, my pink feet and fleshy mouth naturally appeared in front of me. I couldn’t help sighing: Where Has Time Gone? Isn’t time in front of the child crying and laughing, and just for the ardent expectation of parents? In March of 2015, I have been a father for more than four months. Just as my family and I expected, the little guy was healthy and cute, because he was born in Beijing. My wife and I named him Jingcheng. During the first Spring Festival when I became my father, although I couldn’t stay with my child, what did it matter? What else can I feel unsatisfied if I can become a father as I wish in my forties? From years ago to now, I have been back to the Army for almost two months. 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