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There are more friends around me who are little aunt and Little Aunt. A friend asks, Hey, aren’t you a pre-school student? What do you think about this child? I didn’t know what to say at that time, because once bad habits were formed, it was really difficult to correct them. I don’t read much and have no practice. So many educators contend with a hundred schools of thought and each has its own advantages and disadvantages. I still can’t tell which method is reasonable. After reading The Secret of childhood for the second time, I read something. Below are my own opinions on some opinions in the book, which are published and shared with friends. At the same time, I also want to do my part to change the prejudice of kindergarten teachers caused by some child abuse incidents in the society. Everyone knows the qualities of those teachers, most of them are unemployed women without jobs or vocational training. There is want to excellent next generation, from our 90 out after the turn. Montessori did not recommend wrapping the baby with swaddling clothes. She said that in the early stage of the baby, he was tightly wrapped in the swaddling clothes. In his mother’s womb, his little body which had been bending was straightened and could not move, it seems to be plastered. In my opinion, the child huddling up in his mother’s womb is not because he himself is willing to do so, but because the space inside the womb is too small to stretch his limbs. If he has enough space to stretch, he himself didn’t want to curl up like that. Just like we adults, keeping a movement for a long time will make us feel uncomfortable, so we always adjust and change our posture constantly, and babies also need it, so, I think swaddling clothes are still needed, but don’t wrap children too tightly. There should be some stretching space for children to move their bodies and stretch their limbs. She said that the baby should be exposed as common in painting. Since the child has been living in the mother’s body all the time, it is obvious that he needs to keep warm, but this temperature mainly comes from his surrounding environment, not his clothes. Yes, this environment was mainly the warm womb of his mother before he was born. This warm environment was provided by his mother, which could be given by adults, however, the temperature of nature can not be controlled by manpower. Although air conditioning and heating can adjust the indoor temperature, most of us cannot provide such a warm environment like mother’s womb for hehe and children, besides, children don’t need such a superior environment, otherwise they are really like flowers in the greenhouse, which can’t stand the wind and rain. I think what we need to provide for children is loose clothes suitable for sports. If the environment allows children to take off their clothes, we should make their skin touch the air, and children need air bath. Montessori advised not to move the baby too much, but to hold the baby around. Some parents like to dress up their children beautifully with lace and ribbon, which will make the baby uneasy. I think children can wear beautiful clothes, but this kind of beauty cannot affect its comfort. In the process of giving children clothes, the movement should be as gentle as possible to make the baby feel comfortable. It is unnecessary to move the baby as little as possible because they are afraid of the baby’s unease, which will make them maintain an experience for a long time, that is to lie quietly. Moving the baby, our hands, arms and other parts will touch the baby, making their bodies feel the change of movement, which is a kind of sensory stimulation for children, but remember, you must be gentle! Montessori said that in the early stage of the child’s birth, a quiet and hidden environment should be provided for him to avoid the light and noise disturbing them. Some parents dare not speak loudly after their children fall asleep and act tiptoe. I think this is unnecessary. You can do all kinds of activities as usual. Parents deliberately create a quiet and suitable sleeping environment for their children, which will lead to the habit of having difficulty sleeping due to their excessive requirements on the sleeping environment when children grow up. Just like myself, I am very sensitive to small sounds before going to bed, and I can never fall asleep in noisy environment. Our living environment is a social environment, Especially with the development of society, there are always some work going on day and night. We can’t stop others, so we need to adapt to the noisy environment. On this point, I strongly agree with teacher Yin Jianli’s point of view. She was like this in the process of cultivating her daughter. She did not provide her daughter with an absolutely quiet environment, but to train my daughter to sleep normally in a normal environment from childhood. She gave an example that when her daughter was preparing for the college entrance examination, there was a place near her home where the construction was carried out day and night. When other children couldn’t review because of the noise of the construction, however, her daughter had no idea of those noises, which didn’t affect her study at all. We all know that Mao Zedong once went to the vegetable market to study specially, which was to cultivate his concentration and willpower in noisy environment. Therefore, it is good to provide a normal environment for children, and there is no need to emphasize quietness. Montessori suggested putting the child on a slightly inclined plane so that he could see the colorful things in the room instead of staring at the White monotonous ceiling day after day. Tilt? I don’t know if this will make the child uncomfortable, and the child can move. If there is no one guarding her, I think he will definitely slide down and hide his arms and legs. So, the best way should be to hang some colorful and diverse things over the baby after he was born, and change them frequently, so as to enrich the environment he saw, instead of the monotonous ceiling. Montessori suggested abolishing baby beds, Give the child a low bed, try to be the kind of small bed against the floor, so that she can lie there or get up at any time, and go to sleep happily when she is sleepy, when you wake up, you will get up and play by yourself without disturbing anyone. Obviously, babies can walk at this time. This suggestion is very good, but I don’t know what they are doing. I think the environment at home should be safe by adopting this method. For example, scissors and all kinds of Plug Power supplies should be beyond the reach of children, otherwise, the carer should master the children’s routine and wake up before he wakes up. And some warm things should be laid around this low crib to prevent the baby from getting cold and sick when rolling to the ground. Montessori thinks that the conflict between adults and children is mainly caused by adults. In fact, Montessori is not the only one. It should be said that all experts and scholars who engage in early education think so. The reason for the conflict is that adults don’t understand children and their psychology. This reminds me of various examples like wolf children. The reason why children have wolf habits when living with wolves is that they are influenced by wolves. When the child lives with an adult, he will be influenced by the adult. The initial baby is a piece of pure white paper, and they will learn whatever the adult gives them. Human nature is good, and children have conflicts with you. It must be that you don’t have a good education in which aspect. Children who have a good education from childhood should be sensible. Montessori practiced silence in her children’s home, which was to use silence to test the sensitivity of children’s hearing. She called the child’s name not far away, heard the child who called her name come to her, and did not make any sound during the process of walking, this kind of patient waiting practice is a kind of training for children. She rewarded the child candy, but the child refused, as if saying not to tarnish our wonderful experience. I was surprised that these children refused candies. Without saying this, I can imagine that it would be very difficult to practice this kind of practice for the children in kindergartens around us, there must be children who cannot calm down making trouble. Children are born to love to move. We can’t let them be as uniform as they receive military training. This is the nature of killing children. However, I think it is necessary to conduct such quiet training for children, in this way, their self-control can be exercised. I wonder if we can also adopt this method to exercise children in different ways, so that they can move when they should move and calm down when they should calm down. In addition, Montessori proposed that writing precedes reading, which conflicts with what we always think is reading before writing. Her example is: she uses cardboard to make letters, children can draw along the font with their fingers and perceive their shapes. The first child who learned to write happily shouted that I had learned to write, and I had learned to write my own name! Then they fell in love with writing. Right? When children are surprised by learning to write their own names, maybe we can guide them to learn to write. Of course, this kind of writing is not written with a pen, but drawn with fingers, because of the development of their small muscles, they are not allowed to write. Seeing this, I want to thank you for reading these things I wrote. I hope it will be helpful to your future life. Thank you for learning with me. I wish the mothers and babies who have married and have children grow up healthily. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

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No matter the thrilling rumors of drug smoking, or all kinds of performances and different images of self-harm for love in rainy nights, it seems that they cannot touch my dusty soul. Only she can return to my heart, let me quiet? Does it make me feel at ease? Only alcohol and very similar feelings of the opposite sex can make me excited and bitter feelings grow into trees in summer night? I am looking for long-lost feelings and inspiration with words like Ji Zhu. For example, Su Shi’s “three Huaitang records”, Chibi’s two poems, and Liu Zongyuan’s two records of Yongzhou, all of which only meet the eyes, being adjacent to the ear party does not go into the heart and is not retained and absorbed by the heart; Even if the other two ways above are the same effect. So in the summer of June 26th, flames came one after another and the warm wind blew people. The whistle of children queuing up for school came from a distance. My son Boyuan had already gone home. Behind these children, is there my favorite daughter and old friend with red ears and blush? That is a very mediocre life? The depressed day was not the hottest stage, but there had been rumors that some places would have holidays. Is it not allowed to storm in such weather? What is the feeling of cold room? Or do you need to wake up when you are drunk? I don’t expect these things to come. The peace of my heart depends on self-cultivation and rest after calming down. The pots of flowers and plants beside me, whether they are Wen Zhu or hanging baskets, are lonely and lovely. Look at me and listen to me, is it possible to whisper the refined and euphemistic divine comedy? I am can’t hear and see. I only have one feeling, just returning to the process of feeling. Those who can’t find comfort are a little helpless of Mr. Lu Xun. The helplessness and hesitation of life. That’s all. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…