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People say that the lotus flowers in summer stand gracefully in the pond, leaving its beauty alone. It brings comfort to visitors! People all envy! I think, I also have distinctive features, why not bloom my unique beauty? Lotus flowers are out of the silt without being dyed, while I am in the noisy streets, even dealing with various people. I will never be infected by their evil manners and customs. On the contrary, I am infecting people with a lotus posture, and making my fragrance beautiful in front of people. I want to show my beauty and let my unique breath spread out among the crowd, with fragrance everywhere! Everyone likes to be an official and addicted to horses, but I like to build my own world with my own abilities. This is my uniqueness. Moreover, I am a strong man with integrity and pride. He doesn’t make special or pull with others, but he always wants to release his talent and Bloom his beauty in the world. Those who know me don’t need to explain; Those who don’t know me think I am arrogant. This is not that I am showing off myself, but that I want to create some wealth and new flowers to present in front of the world. As we all know, how wonderful it would be if everyone had the ability to innovate and contribute to the country! It is no better than always taking the old road. But people’s eyes are always not used to my unique scenery, and they think I am very unsightly, which makes me not appreciated by others for many years, and even not recognized by superiors! I can only compromise and seek perfection, and live in the world reluctantly. When going out for a walk in summer, I often see the graceful and fragrant lotus flowers in the pond, which are surprisingly beautiful, so I am very envious! I want to be as independent as Lotus, proud of my beauty! I often think alone and want to be a useful person for people to appreciate like Lotus. If one day I stand there proudly, how glorious I would be! At that time, I will also feel delighted! For many years, I can’t release myself. I can only live in the moment of others and be a diligent worker. When can you enjoy your own beauty and talent alone. Seeing the dazzling of others, I really want to fly into the sky, rushing out of my bound nest and showing my wings. Although I have worked hard for many years, I have not changed my pure nature at all, nor been infected by a trace of dust in the world. There is a red heart that loves one’s career, imagining that one day, one day, one will rush out of the cage and release one’s passion. I want to show my unique beauty and deliver my light and heat to the people and the public. Although it is not the right time, that heart has been hidden in my heart, waiting for the opportunity, waiting for the critical moment. I want to show my unique beauty. Every time when people talk about me, that is my different symbol; Every time when people envy me, that is my unique performance; Every time when people praise me, that is the process of my leap. I have my own characteristics, my ability, my distinctive character and extraordinary talent. I want to show my beauty and release my talent. People say that I am a non-ordinary person. Indeed, I am different from others. What others can pass is that I am stuck. It’s not that I don’t work hard. On the contrary, I am a special person. Others can beg for their superiors, but I can’t. I want to show the world with my own ability, and I want to fight for my future with my own strength. You don’t need to look at others’ faces, you don’t need others’ sponsorship, you just need a space, you just need me to fly freely. I can show my elegant demeanour! I want to show my unique beauty! Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Winter storage

Now is the modern life, which is the era of fast food, but I still like those old traditional life customs, such as winter storage. The past years were still fresh in my memory. The winter at that time was very full. I remembered that when the Chinese cabbage just came down in late autumn, the parents began to be busy. At that time, the autumn vegetables were also provided by tickets, and each household had a fixed number. Every day, they were like fighting, queuing, preparing sacks, big baskets and straw ropes —- generally, there would be many children queuing, some naughty boys will add a plug and join a team when they are impatient, so they often cause some restlessness and a war or something. I remember one year when I was queuing up. It was very cold and the wind was blowing. I looked forward to the direction of my home, looking forward to my mother’s figure. The queue was long, and what happened behind me? A neighbor boy came up to me and said to me quietly: do me a favor, I will insert a file in front of you, OK. Seeing that he was sweating all over his head and the red light on his face, he must have gone somewhere to make wild work and forgot the instructions of the adults. I didn’t say anything, but the latter half-big boy refused, shouting loudly: XXX, come out, pick up the cheap and go to the back. This was not allowed, but it turned out that the two were in a group, and no one bought it. After buying the autumn vegetables, every family showed their abilities. At that time, on the streets, branches, clotheslines and windowsill, flowers and melon seeds, radish strips, cabbage sticks were all dried — in the courtyard, each family has at least one big jar, two or even three big jars with many people. Each family’s chimney is braving White green smoke, pickled sauerkraut, fried turnip shreds, and dried fish and dried kelp-it’s so busy. The little girl would help the parents to do what they could, and the little boy would make trouble everywhere, eating other people’s dried fish, turnip strips and so on, which attracted the scolding and scolding of adults —- in the 70s, I got married, but it still follows the consistent tradition of robbing cabbage, buying radish, pickled snow Red and pickled sauerkraut —- the most interesting thing is to cut flowers and melon seeds. Just pick out the long radish, wash it (don’t be too clean, salt will easily melt off when there is water to pickle), slanting a knife, then horizontal a knife, so that the middle will not break, like a long snake with scales, it is pickled and dried in the sun. In winter, it is soaked in water, mixed with soy sauce, onion, ginger and garlic, or eaten raw or steamed, just like meat. Think about that age when my stomach was short of meat —- when my daughter grew up, I often cooked these things that modern people disdain to eat. One year, my daughter saw me hurriedly buying cabbages and cutting turnips, pickled cabbage, said: Oh, what are you busy? Buy now and eat now. Of course I won’t listen. In winter, I soaked dried sunflower seeds in water, chopped them up, put them in a large bowl, put onion, ginger, garlic, pepper, vinegar, soy sauce, lard oil, and steam them in a pot, pour some sesame oil —- Hey, my daughter ate a lot of oil, and finally came a sentence: Mom, you ate well when you were young! Than we much better. This little bastard, when we were young, we didn’t have so many seasonings, all for making a living. We just put some soy sauce and a little lard oil. How could we have these messy good things! I have been doing this custom until now. In my opinion, today’s ingenuity is essentially different from that of the past. The present storage of winter is a habit and a love for life, it is a kind of memory of the past years, a Inheritance of tradition —- think about it, the snow outside is heavy, the north wind is roaring, the home is warm like spring, on the balcony, there are green cabbages with white hearts, fresh green radish, pickled potherb mustard full of jars, flower melon seeds in the paper shell box, like strips of flying dragons just returned, lay there quietly. Open the lid of the altar pressed on the small jar, and the fresh green potherb mustard inside is as fresh as the one just picked from the ground —- red sweet potato, Brown Taro, white Yam —- how rich! After dinner, sitting on the sofa, a cup of green tea, kowtowing melon seeds, and pressing TV remote control one by one-happy! Even if there is any natural disaster, I am not afraid of it. My family is rich. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Education

My friend called for a day, but the conversation about education with him was still in my mind, thinking over and over again. I originally wanted my friend to write an preface for the booklet that I recorded the growth of my child. My friend was a serious person and did not rush to write, on the fourth day after reading it, I changed the book of songs-Ye Feng Bo Zhou and wrote a word to me. It can be seen that my friend is very thoughtful, especially the last sentence in the word writes a word in my child’s name and me, and the pen is appropriate to set off the scene. The words are not what I want, let alone my original intention. I am a little dissatisfied. Originally, I wanted to rationally evaluate the success or failure of my education, especially the failures, from the perspective of extramarital, with the help of the power of friends educators and psychological counselors, in order to inspire myself to improve the way of education for children. My friend was serious. Maybe he saw my hidden worry. On the day when he sent me this word, he called me very late. It was exactly this call, it triggered my four arguments about children’s education. Education should be sincerely trusted. We are always talking about this and that is not allowed. It seems that there is always a sense of existence: Maybe it is not what children should do at this stage, or their existing abilities are not qualified, maybe the child has not been fully capable of protecting himself from all kinds of worries and distrust in the process of accomplishment. In fact, the child can get it sensitively and cannot feel the support and trust of his parents, how can you expect your children to understand your education? Education should feel success. We have been constantly summing up the lessons of our own failures to guard children against making mistakes they have made. But we did not do well before. Is it right to sum up? If you can’t do it well, how can you ask your child to do it well? If you fail, why do you require your child to succeed? Children’s education should be sunny, upward, positive, and receive education in the pleasure of understanding success. Otherwise, children will always be immersed in the lessons of failure, how can you expect your children to receive your education? Education should cultivate environment. We are always making self-changes or correcting children, but can education really achieve results by changing individuals? We are always complaining about children, parents, schools, and people and things that can be complained about. But are all the signing of the children’s cultivation target contract working together and responsible? Education should pay more attention to the cultivation of the overall environment rather than individual revision, otherwise the barrel effect will appear repeatedly, making parents tired of coping with it. How can they expect their children to accept your education? Education should be enlightened and guided. We always impose our will on the growth of children, always want to let children grow according to the life trajectory we set, and always impose intervention on the growth of children, but ignoring children is emotional. We should let the children realize themselves boldly. Even if they go wrong, even if they hit the south wall, it is not a good thing. The perception of their gains will certainly be much deeper than boring language preaching, how can you expect your children to understand your education if you blindly replace the arrangement and instill preaching? The flowers were not blossomed with heart, but they were unintended to insert Willows into the shade. What they couldn’t ask for, but the occasional conversation gained sobering thoughts, which made them very happy! Like (prose editor: Ke Er) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…