Another

(1) at first, all kinds of small food were tempted, and then I played the game of throwing a pen cap and picking it up by hands, playing the game that his hands were hidden in the bed and caught by me as a little mouse. When I opened my arms to hug him into my arms, he hid in the corner of Kang. I closed my eyes and grabbed him when he came over carefully and squatted down to look at me. He screamed excitedly and bent his back with laughter. Two-year-old Kaiyi got acquainted with me after three or two times. Then he showed me all kinds of skills, such as pitching, driving a motorcycle, riding a toy bull, and dancing hip-twisting dance. Children can perceive love and love most accurately. He will stick to whoever raises him, and he will think whoever loves him is beautiful. It was cold last night, so I slept outside the floor-standing curtain with purple jasmine and Morning Glory. I felt happy when I pulled the curtain this morning. The four purple jasmine flowers which were in full bloom last night were still open unexpectedly. It seemed that the morning glory flowers were still open on this node as usual. Now, there are five half-waist vines in a row. They also showed me their ability, just like the cute little Kaiyi. After raising flowers, it was like raising a daughter. She was happy while thinking about it. Flower also dependents. My mercy and gentleness are nourished by the growth of branches and leaves, the unrestrained blooming, and the incessant fragrance. (Ii) in the large porcelain flowerpot with pure white Foundation, three or five red magnolia flowers on the wall, wavy edges and glowing light, it turned out that there were more than a dozen blooming phalaenopsis flowers, this year I planted morning glory with it. I just opened two, and somehow the leaves and vines withered together. I took off the dead leaves and cut the vines and went out to tie the string on the flowerpot. White porcelain flowerpots are full of morning glory, which is my dream that I have raised for several months. The realization of a good dream is often the kind wish of human wishful thinking. Wish and reality are always separated by mountains and water. Many times, the mountain also climbs and wanders, but cannot reach the other shore of wish. Not think blow. To bear and accept all kinds of bad things in the world is the volume refined by time. After encountering setbacks, we still believe in breeding hope, which is the sunshine mentality brought up by flower cultivation. I loosened the soil in the flowerpot with a small shovel, and mixed it with special fertilizer for flowers. Crops and flowers all depend on fertilizer. Only when the soil is fattened can the soil raise crops with deep roots and strong seedlings. It was my father’s lesson when he was a teenager. I remember that at that time, others were still busy planting a crop of millet after cutting wheat in June, but my father left the land idle until September to sow wheat. We were anxious. He said that the soil was the same as human beings, and the wheat grew a lot of strength. Now we had to let it take a breath, and then we tried our best to make it strong. Preparing early to accumulate strength is also the confidence to accumulate life to go to a broad place. I used my father’s experience of raising crops to raise flowers and Sons, which was quite fruitful. (3) the flowerpot for raising peony has been idle for a long time. The vigorous peony root dug from my hometown in spring, not only did I not raise flowers, but finally the branches withered into a handful of dry firewood. Why do you still need to work hard on hopeless things? Simply let the basin soil dry thoroughly. With extra rice washing water, it will be poured into the basin and filled with some fertilizer that has not been used for a long time. Take out the rotten root of the flower-Cultivating soil together. Heart will action. I opened the soil, but was stunned for a while. In my mind, the flower roots which had been beyond redemption unexpectedly gave birth to several little white fibrous roots. At the top of the old roots, there were white bulges, and many of them were clearly new-born bacillus. It turns out that the root of peony has been trying hard to grow, but I gave up its lack of trust and patience, which is a taboo to raise flowers and children. The same is true for cultivating feelings. You have to take your time, moisten things silently, and then you can get through the water. The flower root hidden under the soil is like the emotion hidden in the heart. You are not a clink eye, how can you see through it at a glance? Through the education of flowers, I have strengthened my faith in believing, enduring, waiting, accompanying and watching the baby flowers and all kinds of things in the world. (Iv) a blooming red palm flower stem, somehow cracked, and the edge of the flower was also damaged. I have already lost hope for that flower. Flowering stems but don’t give up, straight flower unexpectedly bend over bend over, 1.1 point healing wound. Although it is not as tall as other flowers, it still has a red flower. Plants, People and every life actually have the ability of self-healing. Therefore, do not worry about nothing. Sometimes, it is also merciful not to help or help others. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Reading

The labor union of the unit held a reading Conference. The chairman asked me to talk about the feeling of reading. I was driving Ducks to the shelves, because I didn’t read more books than everyone else. But the chairman was very overbearing. He insisted on asking me to say that I dare not say anything, so I would be reluctant to talk about my understanding and feelings about reading and recommend some books to you by the way. The concept of reading is very big no matter from extension or connotation. I Want to talk about my understanding of reading from three aspects: Why, Want and How, which is referred to as 3W for short. I. Why reading (Why) there is an old saying in my hometown that three generations do not study, which is like a litter of pigs. The key word of this sentence obviously refers to quality. Books are fragrant and elegant, the difference between those who study and those who don’t study lies in quality, so the first key word I give is quality. As for the benefits and purposes of reading, everyone has different emphases. Some are to seek a job, some are to improve their self-cultivation, some are to dispel doubts, and some are to seek an interest and hobby, some both. Zhou Enlai said: studying for the rise of China is a great ambition. Gorky said: Books are the ladder of human progress. That is a power to promote social progress. Lang Yongchun said: reading makes your heart strong. Lin Bushan said: reading makes you feel awe in your heart. (Just kidding, I can’t compare with everyone. Although it was just a joke, most people who didn’t study didn’t have a sense of reverence, so they didn’t have to be afraid of it, and often did some desperate things, even the activities of stealing chicken and dog.) Ouyang Xia Dan said: reading makes your heart full of sunshine. Montesquieu said that reading is equal to changing the lonely light in life into a moment of great enjoyment. This feeling is happy. Just like taking reading as flower cultivation, calligraphy, painting, fishing and traveling, the picture is just a happy life without any utility, just as a kind of interest and hobby, I think, this kind of reading is the real reading. So the second keyword I gave is interest. Some people say that life begins with a muddle of literacy, which is known only after reading, If you can’t read, you may not even know where to start. Others said: The more knowledge you have, the more reactionary it is. It is a kind of worry about opening people’s wisdom from a political standpoint, in order to achieve the ulterior purpose of fool the people. So we insist on reading. I remember one time when I had a heart-to-heart talk with teacher Xu, teacher Xu said, “I read only when I am bored. I remember this sentence. Most people who talk don’t read. They are very busy, busy with work and social intercourse, if you are busy with relationships, you cannot calm down and study. Many business owners got books in a large bookcase just to decorate the facade, because they couldn’t calm down to read some books and improve their quality, so they got the title of a local tyrant. You can’t calm down to study, which shows that reading is conditional, which involves the mood and environment of reading. Tao Yuanming wrote a poem in reading Thirteen Classics of mountains and seas. Meng Xia had long plants and trees, and he was surrounded by trees to help him. All birds are glad to have support, and I also love my cottage. Both ploughing and planting, I also read my books. Therefore, I suggest that you find a better environment, in line with your interests and hobbies, and also like Tao Yuanming, to read my books after work. Second, What books to read (What) modern network information is very developed, and any book can be found on the Internet, but personally I think narrowly that the internet is only information for me; As for TV, I think watching TV is a passive acceptance, while reading is an active thinking. Therefore, I still like the smell in paper books and the faint ink fragrance floating out, which is very intoxicating. So what books do you read? This is just like what Shakespeare said in the Prince’s Avengers: in the eyes of one thousand people, there are one thousand Hamlet. There are too many books, and everyone has his own reading preference. When I visited the bookstore occasionally, if I didn’t prepare for the selection of books in advance, I would always stay in the room when I saw books full of books. Because there are so many books that you can’t start. As for the classification of books in bookstores, there are teaching aids, books of various majors, reference books, books of natural science and social humanities. I read a lot, focusing on social sciences and religion, history, philosophy and literature in Social Sciences. In literature, I used to like reading novels and poems, and some famous works at all times and in all countries have been dabbled in. Now I have no patience to read these books. A few years ago, I bought a book named recalling the past years written by Proust. I haven’t finished reading it so far. This may have something to do with age, mentality, and even the transfer of interest, but I have read “ghost blows the lamp” and “grave robbing notes” with great interest. I have read A Dream of Red Mansions more than ten times, and I think it is worth reading for a lifetime. In the aspect of literature, books focusing on literature review, such as A Dream of Red Mansions, I have collected comments from Hu Shi, Yu Pingbo, Zhou Ruchang, Wang Meng, Liu Xinwu and even Yan Hong. In terms of religion, I have read some ancient books and records of Buddhism and The Complete Book of the New and Old Testament of Christianity, and have also learned some origins of Taoism in China. As for philosophy, I have read the history of Western philosophy in my early years, Nietzsche’s “charatula Stella said so”, Marx Weber’s Complete Book, and Spengler, Jung, the books of Freud, Kant and others are hard to read; For Chinese philosophy, I suggest you read Feng Youlan’s “A Brief History of Chinese Philosophy” and some thoughts of Lao Zhuang. Ji Xianlin and Zhang Dainian jointly recommended a book named reading classics with famous artists. This book is also good, such as the interpretation of Zhuangzi, if combined with Zhuangzi’s “South China Sutra” to read, it will have more flavor. Mr. Chuang Tzu is very good at telling stories, and he is an interesting person. There are also interesting articles in Wei and Jin dynasties and essays in late Ming Dynasty. The character of Wei and Jin Dynasty, Chen Yinque’s book “lecture record on the history of Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties” left when he was lecturing in Tsinghua University, should explain clearly what covered Wei and Jin dynasties. The sketches of late Ming dynasty basically inherited the thoughts of Lao Zhuang and Wei and Jin dynasties. The scholars of late Ming Dynasty were very interesting. For example, Zhang Dai, who had been drunk for ten years, went to the Huxin Pavilion to see the snow. How beautiful it was. In addition, Yuan Hongdao, the third yuan of the public security bureau, described in the article “The story of fighting chicken in the Mountain” that children saw two chickens fighting, and when they saw the big chickens bullying the chickens, they felt angry and stood up, help chickens fight big chickens, Its shape is vivid and vivid, which reflects a taste of life. I once bought a set of four volumes of “Hundred Years of National scholars” on the Internet, which basically talked about some people in the 34 s of the Republic of China. Compared with the book “professor of United Nations Association”, I went to see Jin Yuelin, I also think it is quite interesting. Mr. Jin Yuelin was not only persistent in love, but also an interesting person. He once raised a big rooster, which often stretched its neck to the table to have dinner with him and compete for food. Mr. Zhou acted willingly and directly followed the figures of Wei and Jin dynasties. So the third key word I gave is interest. May everyone be an interesting and emotional person. In Mao Zedong’s words, be a person who breaks away from vulgar taste. In short, there are a lot of books. How to choose depends on your own interests and reading preferences. Third, How to read (How) Zhu Xi said that the method of reading lies in gradual progress, reading carefully and thinking carefully. It depends on what kind of books you read. Some books can be read roughly, while some books need intensive reading. I remember a teacher in charge of my senior high school once said that there are two ways to study: specialization and proficiency. If you are specialized in a certain subject, just like a doctor, you can stand on the top of the mountain and see all the small mountains at a glance; another kind is to read a lot of books, and when you read enough, you can also achieve mastery. I can’t be specialized, but I can read as much as possible. As for how to study, everyone has his own way. Personally, I think that reading should absorb the essence of it and use it for myself, that is to say, we should have some insights. If you read too many books but can’t turn them into your own thoughts and thoughts, if it can’t be transformed into one’s own actions, it will become the book bag that people often say. To paraphrase what Confucius said in “university”, we should do it in virtue of the Ming Dynasty, in favor of the people and in perfection. Of course, I have my own understanding of the morality proposed by Confucius. I think that morality has the characteristic of immeasurability. Everyone has his own moral standard, so there is no moral bottom line, therefore, there is no so-called breakthrough problem. If we insist on the moral bottom line, it is a matter regulated by law, such as stealing, killing, setting fire and so on. So I think in modern society, at the present stage, under the condition of market economy, we should emphasize the spirit of contract, democracy and the rule of law. What I mean is to take this opportunity to explain that reading should form one’s own understanding and viewpoint, and be consistent in words and deeds. In Confucius’s words, it is called Shendu. What is cautious independence? My understanding is that both someone and nobody are present, and you are the same. So the fourth key word I gave was Shendu. Reading not only requires reading books with positive energy, but also some books with negative tones. Only in this way can we grasp problems comprehensively, just like the essays of Lu Xun and Li Ao, or the ugly Chinese book written by Mr. Bai Yang. I have bought “the trap of Chinese modernization” written by Mr. Wu Qinglian and “the trap of Chinese history and culture” written by duanmuci incense, and I think they are all good books. I like literature, so I recommend two more books to you. One is from Kafka to Kundera written by Professor Wu Xiaodong of Peking University. One is from literati to scholars written by Professor Chen Pingyuan of Peking University. These two books teach people how to appreciate literary works. Reading actually needs communication, training and debate. Socrates, a famous ancient Greek philosopher, once stood on the street to find someone to debate. He communicated with each other in the process of debate and tempered each other in the process of communication. Of course, if we stand on the street now and pull others to debate, they will definitely call you crazy. Therefore, the Reading exchange activities organized by the chairman prevented us from becoming crazy. This reminds me of the interaction between American students and teachers to discuss all kinds of possibilities of problems; In contrast, our country’s duck-feeding education has only standard answers, which is impossible. The result is obedience to authority and lack of creativity. It makes people feel helpless and sad. A friend of Socrates asked for a visa in the temple of Delphi. He said, “God, is there anyone smarter than Socrates? The answer he got was No. Socrates was very surprised when he knew it, because he felt that what he knew was really very little, so he visited all the politicians, scholars, who were famous for their wisdom in Athens, poets and craftsmen, unfortunately, these people are satisfied with their professional knowledge and self-righteous. So what is the real wisdom? Does Socrates mean that we should face the infinite world like children? Because Mencius said: Adults and Gentlemen do not lose their pure heart. Pascalle said: wisdom brings us back to childhood. The Bible says: If you don’t turn back to be a child, you must not go to heaven. So the fifth key word I gave is Tong Zhen. (Welcome panned. Thank you!) Praise on January 21st, 2015 (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) snow elimination in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Son

During the Spring Festival this year, the son who hadn’t received the coming-of-age ceremony suddenly bought a silver ring for his wife with his lucky money. When I was having dinner that night, when my son handed a small red box with exquisite packaging to my daughter-in-law and said that he wished my mother a happy Mother’s Day in advance, I was very surprised and asked: how many months are there for Mother’s Day? Did you send this gift earlier! But my son answered me unhurriedly: I am rich now. When Mother’s Day comes, I am worried that my lucky money may be spent up, so I bought this gift in advance, which is not expensive, only 50 yuan. I said again: Oh, well, that’s good, worthy of praise. At that time, I saw the expression of my wife when she took the small red ring box from her son’s hand. The wife’s face was filled with a happy and bright smile. That night, although CCTV’s 2015 Spring Festival gala was being replayed on TV, and on the evening of New Year’s Eve, because the three of us went to her mother’s home for New Year’s Eve, everyone didn’t spare time to watch the live broadcast of the Spring Festival Gala because they were fond of playing mahjong, so they still left some regrets in their hearts. But the daughter-in-law’s mind was all focused on this silver ring that night, and the wonderful spring festival gala could no longer attract her attention at that moment. My wife sat on the sofa comfortably. She couldn’t wait to finish the meal in the bowl, so she opened the ring box and took out the glittering silver ring carefully, I held it in my hand with joy and appreciated it carefully, and tried it on my fingers again and again. I was so happy that the joy was beyond words. Her expression of admiring the silver ring attentively also attracted my attention at once. When I turned my attention to her, I suddenly realized that, it seems that I haven’t seen the sunny smile on my wife’s face for a long time. Therefore, I am thinking about a question: What about people’s mind? Sometimes it’s really hard to guess and grasp. If you receive a little favor, you will be so delighted. In case you receive an unexpected luxury gift bag, What kind of expression would it be? Maybe you will be mentally disturbed because of your delight. However, in order not to destroy the joy and sweet mood of my wife, but also to make her happy during the Spring Festival, I lost no chance to flatter her. I took the silver ring from my wife’s hand and put it in the palm of my left hand. After looking at it carefully on purpose, I said: This silver ring is not only fine in texture but also exquisite in workmanship, besides, the style is novel and the pattern is smooth, it is really a good gift for others! Hearing what I said, my daughter-in-law was spirited. She grabbed the silver ring from my hand and said proudly: My son has a good vision. This style has been popular in recent years, this style is the one I like. My wife didn’t know how happy she was when she said these words? However, the real thought in my heart at that time was: Although the silver ring my son bought with his lucky money was not expensive and the style was good, wasn’t it just a silver ring? Who wears a silver ring now? It’s all popular to Wear Platinum. I think how do you wear this silver ring out? But now I think about it, my son gave his mother a Mother’s Day gift. Although it was a silver ring, after all, it was his son’s heart? How can I think like this? It is said that the courtesy is light and the affection is heavy. It is rare for my son to have this kind of intention. For this filial piety, there is no need to care about whether it is gold or silver. Why can’t he wear it out? Now I think about it, although this trivial matter has passed for more than one month, I have never forgotten it in my heart. On the contrary, it has a place in my heart. More than half a month later, Mother’s Day is approaching. I hope that on Mother’s Day, my daughter-in-law can remember this silver ring sent by her son. However, I have already thought it over. On Mother’s Day, I must remind my wife to wear this silver ring given by my son. Because I want to do this, not only to surprise my son, but also to let him know how much his mother values the gifts he gives, and that his mother always cares about his children in her heart, and it also made my son proud of it, because after all, it was the first gift he gave to his mother for so many years, which was worthy of leaving a deep impression in his memory. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…