Efforts

Looking back for ten years, with a flick of a finger, the years have gone through ten years in a hurry. In this period of time, struggle and struggle are the main melody of life, ten years have turned an ignorant teenager who just came out of campus into a smooth and exquisite social talent. Along the way, who is taking care of you, watching you silently with understanding eyes, who is touching and inspiring you, or who is always bothering and confusing you. Calm down and look back on the past. Those who pass by you, those who support each other and walk along with you, or those who cheat and greet each other with smiles, I have learned to face everything in the past ten years. In the past ten years, I have always been looking for my foothold, lifestyle and value in this intriguing world. Therefore, I have never stopped for a moment, I always remember my mother’s instruction that if you don’t advance, you will retreat. I don’t want to be eliminated by this society. I have been trying hard to adapt to this society, to all the good things and dirty things in this society, everything seems very normal to me but not so normal. In the process of struggle, I became a slave of life, a slave of work and a slave of society consciously or unconsciously. Maybe I succeeded and became a happy person who seemed to live, the leader of work and the winner of society, but am I really happy? Looking back on ten years, what did I get? Dragging my drunk body every day, I tried hard to open my eyes to find my way home. Facing my sleeping wife and children, am I happy? Did I really succeed? On a leisure evening, I finally stopped my tired steps and sat in the corner of the dining room, softly looking at the beige sofa in the living room under the light, with tired and stiff waist, the white lining, the orderly dining table, the hanging basket full of green… for the first time, I felt so beautiful, even the snack box sent by my mother and casually placed on the tea table was also an excellent embellishment at this time, the son’s pet turtle’s voice was no longer so harsh. They were so warm and emotional. Of course, this is my first time to sit here at night, looking at this simple living room with great mood under such light from this angle. Mood is the most important thing. At this time, we should benefit from the leisure after work and the relaxation after pressure. I suddenly feel that people are like rubber bands. You can’t always stretch her, then she will lose elasticity. However, we are not the hard labors or slaves of our own life. We should give ourselves the time and mood of life and the time and mood of watching the scenery. Life needs to leave white space, and life needs to breathe. There is an advertisement saying that is full of charm. Life is just like a journey. You don’t care about the destination, the scenery along the way and the mood of watching the scenery. During this long and long journey, you will see many beautiful scenery and also many unsatisfactory scenery. You will meet people you don’t want to forget in your life, you will also meet people you never want to see in your life! This trip is also looking for yourself! Give yourself a chance and a chance to breathe. In this way, I may be able to know myself better, find myself and enrich myself. People can never be satisfied with the status quo. Walking today, I will remember yesterday from time to time and look forward to tomorrow constantly. It seems that I can’t stop walking and savor today’s life carefully. Forget to enjoy the scenery along the way, forget to sort out the mood during the journey, just speed up the pace to the front. But the front is like the horizon, which can never be reached. All the beautiful things along the way are lost in this Chase. I am tired and far away, feeling that my heart is always wandering between the past and the future, but what I have now is not what I want. Calm down and think about what I have learned, gained, contributed and gained in the past ten years. In the journey of life, the road you have traveled will become the scenery behind you. You can’t turn back or stay, so it is better to enjoy the feeling of every moment and enjoy every scenery. Cherish what you own now, no longer be a slave of life, work and society, feel life attentively and enjoy the scenery along the way to your heart. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Beautiful

I am a person who seldom slept, so I didn’t have the habit of sleeping by bus. So every time I went to the provincial capital to do business, I liked to bring a magazine to pass the time on the road. The scenery along the way was already familiar with and no longer fresh. Looking through books, there are some understandings in the articles occasionally. As time passes, habits will be formed. This time after finishing the matter, I went to the coach station, bought the ticket, and then took to the waiting room to wait for the return bus. Just sitting down for a while, there was a thin and white woman walking in the crowd. Her figure was thin and short, and her smile was elegant and gentle. But when she came close to the crowd, she found that her whole right half was extremely inharmonious, it looks like the sequela of paralysis when I was young. The right hand is deformed and reversed, and the right foot is lame. When walking, the body is tilted to the right, the figure is like a teenage girl who has not grown up. She walked to the front of every passenger waiting for the bus with a smile, selling a stack of books in her left hand. And when she came to me, she asked: what kind of books do you sell? She said: it is some magazines of excerpt category, such as Yilin, readers and abstracts. I said: These books are very good, and the content is very good. How much is one book? She said the price was cheaper than that sold in newspapers and magazines kiosks. I said: It’s good, not expensive, give me two, you can have a look on the way. She took it and passed it to me, saying thank you. I said no thanks, the price of the book is so cheap. She smiled and said: These books were left after the wholesale of publishers or other departments. Because the government community took care of I am disabled people, they especially transferred these books to me at a very low price, so that I can earn my own living with my own labor. I am very grateful to those people in the government and neighborhood committee. Then she continued to limp her feet, holding a stack of books in her left hand, and holding a book in her right hand gently, shuttling back and forth among the passengers waiting for the bus. Looking at her thin figure and her tranquil smile, her physical disability did not fade her smile, on the contrary, her self-reliant strength and gratitude set off her smile more beautiful. In fact, there are a few healthy people around us who want to rely on some social benefits or exploit some loopholes in policies, and want to get some convenience in various jobs or other opportunities, so as to achieve the effect of getting something for nothing. If you feel a little unhappy, you will feel resentment, and then you will be cynical and your words and deeds are different. So I paid a tribute to her from my heart, and her gradually moving smile was the most beautiful smile in my eyes. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Politeness

During the summer vacation when my son was seven years old, I took him to other places to participate in the Piano Competition. There was an expert comment, and the expert who commented was Professor Cai who was famous in the Academy of Arts, what he said made it worthwhile for us to take part in the competition this long journey. Professor Cai said: piano skills can be taught and learned, while musicality cannot be taught or learned. However, if a piece of music has no musicality, it means no soul. The skill of playing piano is external, while musicality is internal. The skill of many piano masters in the world may not reach the peak, but the musicality they show when they play, but it deeply touched everyone. Mr. Neil, the first principal of Xia Shan School, a century-old famous School, said: politeness cannot be learned, but etiquette can be learned. However, politeness is internal, while etiquette is external superficial form, which is perceptible, superficial and meaningless behavior (Xia Shan School, p. 152). I don’t know when my son started to call me my father’s name directly. For all my classmates and colleagues of the same age, he called me by his name directly. Fortunately, for my teacher, he called a teacher, but he would never call him aunt, uncle, uncle and Mumm. I told his father several times that he should not call adults by their names, but he still did his own thing. Because his father and I followed the principle that we could do things as long as we didn’t hurt ourselves, others or the environment, we also had patience and believed that he would understand when he was older. However, when others saw my son calling his name so directly, there was no appellation, and few people were shocked, especially those elders, all said to me with dignified expressions and earnest words: to discipline discipline your son, how can so person-to-person, so rude! Until one time, my son’s classmate Tong came to our house to play. Tong’s father was a math teacher in a primary school. He heard my son calling the adult’s name directly and said to me: in fact, he wants to be the same as you. He needs to be equal to you psychologically. I almost held Tong’s dad’s hand and felt grateful to understand long live. It is no wonder that our country has always had the old saying that we should be called honorable and not be called Famous. The fault of not calling elders may soon catch up with the sin we committed. When my son went to school and met the teacher he knew, he would take the initiative to say: Good morning, teacher. But for those teachers he didn’t know, he never said hello or not. Once on the way back to the class after finishing morning exercises, the vice principal passed through the team of their class, and his son’s sense of justice broke out again. He pushed the vice principal away angrily and shouted loudly: Don’t jump the queue! As a result, everyone looked sideways: how can this child be like this, to the vice principal! Too, no, gift, appearance, too!!! Although his son apologized to the headmaster later, he still didn’t understand where he was wrong. I asked him: Why did you push her? He said confidently: The teacher said that he would queue up in order, and no one could jump in the queue! I had to say to him: You think it is the vice principal who is wrong, but you should also think of others. Maybe she had something urgent at that time, so she had to pass through your team. Besides, you can’t push her, even yell at her, can’t you talk well? Sometimes I think, is it just because our dignity is challenged that we want our children to be polite to us? Mr. Neil said: politeness is the view of adults. Adults think that children are impolite. Actually, it is not that children are impolite, but that you feel insulted and your dignity is hurt. You just want children to bend their knees humbly, not to make them polite. Mr. Neil counterchecked those hypocritical etiquette that only children should obey: What’s the difference between treating children like this and treating servants under the feudal system? (Xia Shan School, page 153) Therefore, in his Xia Shan school, we do not require children to be polite at all. I don’t even want a thank you or a request. But the guests said again and again: the students’ behaviors are really pleasing! (Xia Shan School, page 155) this is because in their school, both teachers and students obey the common etiquette and rules, and when students see teachers doing the same, their politeness —– true politeness —- naturally formed. Mr. Neil believes that politeness does not need to be taught, because politeness is different from superficial etiquette. Politeness is spontaneous, and politeness means that we can put ourselves in others’ shoes. If we truly respect a person, it is often displayed involuntarily (Xia Shan School, page 154). Once before my son’s class started, I accidentally said a word: your teacher still needs to prepare materials for the class meeting. Maybe he hasn’t eaten yet. My son immediately called his teacher and asked: teacher, have you eaten? Do you want me to send you food? My son is rarely like other children, seeing aunt and uncle, he will call aunt and uncle sweet, but if an old man or an aunt holding a child comes on the bus, his son must stand up and give up his seat. Once we sat in the back seat of the bus. There were many passengers. An old man came up at one stop, but no one offered him a seat. The son stood up immediately and said loudly: Grandpa, come here to sit! Seeing so many people couldn’t walk, the old man shook his head and said thank you, finally, a young man standing beside the old man stood up and made a seat for the old man (there is an article saying that you can’t wake up a person pretending to sleep, wrong, children’s voice can wake up a person pretending to sleep!). In the concert, my son will never speak loudly and eat; After the performance, no matter whether the performance is wonderful or not, my son will certainly give the warmest applause; seeing the work-study college student pulling a garbage truck full of garbage after cleaning, he would give a push before the meeting; He would not laugh at a ragged person, he wouldn’t learn a lame man to walk; He would never be like some people. Although he was always polite with a mouthful of invitation, Thanks and sorry, he yelled at the garbage woman when he saw the sanitation worker sweeping the floor on the road! Many children who seem impolite actually don’t understand etiquette and hide the seeds of kindness in their free hearts. This seed of kindness needs the keen eyes of adults to care and cherish. This seed needs to be nourished and expanded slowly, so that goodness can be gradually internalized into a natural and unpretentious behavior in children’s hearts, rather than a superficial and hypocritical behavior just for pleasing adults. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Meteor

The sky gradually became dark, and the day of life ended again. Gently open the window and stare at the night sky without the moon, with stars shining above your head. Suddenly, a meteor flashed by in the field of vision and disappeared in the endless universe in a flash. No one can know its name, no one can know its annual rings, and few people can see it leaving the last light for this night at this time. From then on, in this night, it will never appear again, and even the last light will gradually disappear in people’s memory as time goes. I lowered my head silently and thought quietly: through the ages, how many lives didn’t vanish in the long river of this secluded history just like this meteor? How many people have been famous in the history of the Qing Dynasty? Don’t countless lives work hard to create this beautiful world just like this meteor, and then disappear forever? When the spring breeze blows, the grass is sprouting, declaring the birth of life one by one; At the beginning of summer, the tender and weak grass shows its tenacious vitality to the world with the help of strong sunshine; Autumn rain blows, destroying the flourishing grass, announce the time limit of life; The north wind blows, and pieces of snow erase the trace of life. Looking up fiercely: the vast universe is boundless; There are countless stars all over the sky. Suddenly, another meteor flashed away in my vision, and another planet disappeared in the night sky. Maybe when this meteor vanished, countless new stars were born at the same time. In this way, life is constantly disappearing and being born. This uninterrupted death and creation created the vast universe. If there is no death, how can the value of life be reflected; If there is no death, how can life be cherished? Staring at the stars all over the sky, touching the ups and downs of the body chest, isn’t this beating heart rhythm with the flashing stars? Cherish life, cherish the 1 minute 1 second in life, like a meteor, don’t forget to leave beautiful light for the world at the last moment of life. Spring elimination snow Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Through

I always wanted to write an article to encourage you to take the college entrance examination, but because of your mood, I had to give up every time. The college entrance examination will be held tomorrow. You told me that it would be the last time for you to write a composition. I think it I am time to write something. There is no limit to the sea of learning. When learning deep, I also deeply feel the difference of energy among people. The roommates in the university study late at night every day, wake up at 6 o’clock in the morning, sing high, and start his life for another day. I put my head into the quilt in the dim light and insisted on sleeping for a longer time. In plain English, or lazy, no high school that dusk habits. However, the time I spent with you is still hard to forget. Because, in our hearts, there is always something that is higher than the book mountain. For example, on that rainy day, when I first learned the biography of Huaiyin Hou and read the details of his humiliation on his crotch, my heart was agitated. It occurred to me that there happened to be a crotch bridge in the marketplace. So I secretly rode a car after school and touched the bridge. It was said to be a bridge, but in fact there was only a shabby archway left. The roadside merchants had already closed the door, and the back alley was also deep. At that time, the light was as dim as beans, and only the three characters on the memorial arch and the bridge were particularly clear. In that situation, it seemed that only a few steps could turn out to be arrogant, leaving only the clank and pride. Yes, when a person has a higher mountain to climb in his heart, he will not care about the mire under his feet. Then, one day after the college entrance examination last year, I wandered in the streets and lanes of my hometown with my friends. We ate all the stalls along the road, walked around the town again and again, and finally came to the bridge of the canal, holding the handrail to watch the waves of the river. Just laughed all the way, turning the unhappiness of the old days into the canal water quietly. The roughness of the world and the noise of years are far away from us. But sometimes we can’t say anything, and we are silent, thinking about a downpour, covering the tears around our eyes. Old friends taught me that time was scattered, and it was too late to explain them one by one. Now, time shook his head and said, it is old only one day. The old one still exists in our mind, and the new things crowded our life again. After that, I forgot. The bridge is gone. But how can I forget? Everyone remembers that today that year, we cut off a period of youth and ran forward desperately in order to cross the book mountain and sea. The stubborn look will feel beautiful whenever I think of it. After thinking it over, the bridge was under your feet. I am willing to accompany you all the time, walk across that bridge, go up to the floor, spread out my worries, and enjoy the whole autumn together. What’s the matter with the humiliation of crotch? Tomorrow altar neidi, when teaching Inter-Services of stunned! Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…