Cherish

As the old saying goes, daughter easy to get, confidant hard to find. A person may have a love affair for many times in his life, but the real unforgettable thing may only be once, that is, to have a lifelong love affair. Some people say: first love is the most beautiful and unforgettable. This is indeed the case. First love is the age when people first start to be ignorant. The first time they fall in love with a person, the first time they suffer from insomnia for a person, the first time they move for a person, but the first time they first love is always fruitless, the first love is the most beautiful, purest, unforgettable and hurtful. There are many firsts in life, each of which is unforgettable. First love is also the first love of a person. But at that time, we were all young, young, frivolous and ignorant. We only knew that we fell in love with someone crazily and just wanted to be with him or her. But I don’t know how much you have to pay for your love. Many people’s first love started from the student age. The most important task of our student age was learning. At that time, we were still young, they still don’t have the ability to support their families. If they choose to fall in love at that time, many people will neglect their studies and have no intention of learning. I think you will not be happy even if you are together without hesitation and without the blessings from relatives and friends. In ancient times, it was after getting married, but now it is different. Parents always hope that their children will consider getting married after they have the ability to earn money and success. If you are a boy, you neglect your studies too early because of love, and choose to be with the girl you like, what will happen even if you get married smoothly, do you have the ability to support your wife and children? You didn’t, because you were too young to learn any knowledge or skills. What could you do in society? Will you be promising? You don’t have the ability to make your family happy. If they are not happy, I don’t think you will be happy either. A few years later, when you were still a child, I thought you had already held a child in your arms. At that time, the burden on your shoulder will be heavier, which may push you out of breath. Look at others, those who successfully complete their studies and have certain skills and knowledge, after their marriage, maybe you will regret why you got married so early. Education background may not represent everything, but no matter from what aspect, if you get married at the age of 18 and someone gets married at the age of 28, the result and nature will be different. The distance of ten years may determine your life. In the past ten years, others are trying hard to learn knowledge and skills so as to survive and develop better in the future. But what about you? What are you doing? A young man who has no knowledge and ability worries about life all day long. Maybe you can’t even find a decent job and live a poor and hard life. Where is your wife? Will I be angry with you every day and quarrel with you? I think it’s useless for you to support your own family, so I want to get married. Maybe you will think she is unreasonable. You voluntarily stayed with me at the beginning, but now I can’t make you happy, you blame me? Do you think I want to do this? But love is like this. When passion goes back, what it leaves is just plain and endless troubles. Maybe you didn’t think too much when you fell in love, but love is a very realistic thing. When it can’t be used as food or clothes, maybe your love has changed. When your love and marriage face all kinds of troubles and pressures in reality, will you choose to retreat and divorce? Maybe by then, your love has really come to an end. If you are a girl, in this era, girls also need to take responsibility. Even if the pressure is not as heavy as that of boys, I don’t think it’s much better. Since you have decided to be with him, then you must have the determination to share all the pressure of life and hard work with him. You don’t even have the ability to be a good student and a good daughter, so do you have the ability to be a good wife and a good mother? Can you take care of the whole family? When you have a child in the future, can you give him a good education and living environment? How can you educate your children? A good mother can teach a good child. If you are a learned and cultivated mother, then the children you teach will not be worse? On the contrary, I won’t say more. But it does not rule out that both of them are first love, but they still come to the end together. Most people’s first love is based on breaking up as the final ending. We are not mature and steady enough in our first love. We always think that as long as we are together, what can we do even if we are together? When you find that you can’t give each other happiness, being together will only make each other painful, when you find that you are too young and ignorant to take too many risks, will you still love each other? When you find that your love is just a mistake and an impulse, when you find that your love is too hurried, and finally you find that you are not suitable for each other, will you be happy together? First love is unforgettable and unforgettable, but first love is often not our ultimate happiness and destination, it is just the most unforgettable memory, not the most unforgettable love. A person may have a love affair more than once in his life, each of which is unforgettable. There is only one real unforgettable love, that is, a lifelong love. Of course, every love is a fate given to us by God, which is worth cherishing, especially the most unforgettable first love. However, it may not be beneficial to have more love Talks. Some people say that having more love talks can increase our love experience, and some even think that the more love talks, the better, not only can we increase our love experience, maybe you can even become a lover. What is this absurd idea? In his opinion, is it a very glorious thing to have more love? Or does it mean that the more love you have, the greater your charm will be? I think only those playboy who regard falling in love as playing games will think so. Such a person doesn’t understand love at all, and it is difficult to get true love, because he doesn’t deserve true love either. If you read the divinity of love and take love as a garbage, what qualifications do you have to get the favor of the god of love? On the contrary, I think the more you talk about love, the more tired people will feel. When you pay more sincerely, when two people break up for various reasons, the deeper the damage is. As time passes, many people begin to doubt: is there true love in this world? If so, how could it be so fragile? Isn’t Love indestructible? How can it be so easy to be fragmented once it meets the reality? How can two lovers say goodbye so easily? Love has too many unknowns. What is love? The oath of eternal love is everlasting. When we break up, it becomes the most painful hurt. People who have been hurt by love dare not love a person easily, nor believe in love easily. Because he has lost confidence in love and hope for the future. The eternal love of the ancients has all become a horse for interests up to now. Nowadays people can do anything for interests, including selling their love, what a foolish and ignorant thought that having money and power equals having everything? No matter how hard the world becomes to accept, I believe there will always be true love. What is love? Love is the heart of a person. If a person has no heart, it is better to live than to die. Although a person will not suffer without heart, what is the point of living like a walking corpse? Why do people want to live in this world? It is not for money, nor for power, but for love, for the people you love, and what you get is their contribution to you. Only by giving love now can you enjoy love. It is because true love is getting rarer and rarer that when love comes to you, you should cherish it and protect it. Don’t be afraid of being hurt by love, and don’t dare to love. When true love comes to you, if you dare not accept it because of fear, you will regret for life once you miss it. Don’t believe in love any more because you have been hurt by love. Because you don’t believe in it, it won’t believe in you either. Because you are a coward of love, it won’t fall in love with you. So I ask you not to be the steamer of love, because such a person does not deserve true love, nor should he be the coward of love, because such a person always passes by true love, let alone be a coward of love, because such a person cannot keep true love. Be the brave and fearless of love. Don’t trample on love, don’t be afraid of love, don’t doubt that Love believes in love. Love bravely and fearlessly. True love always likes such people. Once you meet the right person, you must firmly grasp him or her and don’t let him or her run away. If he (she) doesn’t love you, then you should chase him (her) and let him (her) fall in love with you. Don’t doubt your ability. If you don’t try, you will never know whether you can do it or not. Even if he (she) didn’t fall in love with you in the end, what does it matter? At least you have loved, you have tried hard, you can have no regrets. He (she) does not love you, and you should not blame him (her), let alone yourself. It is only because you have no fate. If you fall in love, but break up for various reasons, don’t be too sad and sad, and don’t force him (her), if he (her) if you really don’t love you, you can’t stay. Maybe the fate between you has really come to an end. There is nothing in the world, everything is perfect, love is the same, it is yours, after all, it is yours, no one can take it away, it is not yours, no matter what method you try, it does not belong to you either. Love is like this. Sweetness is mixed with bitterness, bitterness is mixed with happiness, sweetness and bitterness. This is the true love. When it comes, you can’t drive it away. When it leaves, for you to keep. Since this is the case, it is better to manage it well, cherish it, protect it and prevent it from slipping away when it belongs to you. Even if it really leaves one day, you can accept and face it calmly. In this money Society, true love is becoming more and more rare and valuable. It is because of its rarity and preciousness that we need to care and cherish it more carefully. It is really hard for a person to live in this life. It is rare to have a person who you love him (her) and he (she) loves you. Once you meet him, you should grasp it well! Since we love each other, don’t hurt each other, don’t say goodbye easily, and give up. Because once someone misses it, it is a lifelong regret. No matter how many love you have met in your life, every time no matter what the result is, it is worth cherishing, because every love is hard-won. Not all the efforts have no return. I believe there will always be someone waiting for you, waiting for a lifelong love affair with you. Like (prose editor: drops of ink become wounds) the snow in spring

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