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Walking into the deep heart, because heart is the soul and essence of human beings, which can make you succeed or fail. It will teach you how to be a real person. The ancients said that at the beginning of human life, the nature was good, and every child was born with a blank sheet of paper. Children kept learning and feeling in his environment, thus forming their own unique characters and characteristics, when my child was in infancy, he had a unique preference for colors. I put colorful balloons on his bedside, and then I kept pointing at the green balloons and told him that Green was the color of life, red shines on people like sunshine, giving people warmth. Blue is like an ocean. Through these colorful colors, he can get in touch with the world and understand the world. Later, when he was a little older, he was very interested in the cities that reported the weather forecast every day and could recite a large number of cities according to the weather forecast order, I seized this feature and hung a map of China on the white wall. I pointed out the cities he read every day on the map to show him. Tell him where Beijing is, and it is the capital of China. Teach him to sing “I love Tiananmen Square in Beijing”, his observation, memory and understanding of the motherland, it will be sublimated in the song again and again. Map is the representation of the objective world narrowed down, and it is the result of using visualization method to represent the spatial distribution range and location of things. How big the world is, the map tells you that your baby has been used to reading maps since childhood and even can understand maps, It is very beneficial for him to know the world and broaden his horizon. When he was four years old, he grew up very fast in this period. If he stopped a little and looked at something with serious eyes, he would surely find some novel things, and then he kept on asking: What is this? How? Why? Mother. Things in this world were still mostly strange to him. In order to understand, he would take pains to investigate. I often feel too much for his spirit of chasing after him. When I was busy for dinner, my father accompanied my child on behalf of me. At that time, his father told the child interesting information from the outside world, which could not only satisfy the curiosity of the child, but also enhance the emotion between father and son. In order to let my child receive music education from childhood, I enrolled him in an electronic piano class. Music is a kind of beautiful thing, which is most suitable for children’s physical and mental development. Children can find fun in learning music, develop intelligence, cultivate sentiment, and learn to discover and feel beauty. When playing musical instruments, children need to use hands, brains and various sensory organs, which develops children’s observation, memory, comprehension and creativity. Through persistent practice, children’s good non-intellectual quality can also be cultivated, confidence and courage of not afraid of difficulties can be established from childhood, tenacious perseverance can be cultivated, and good learning habits can be formed. At that time, he was so ridiculous that he could barely get on the electronic organ when he stood up. He was very interested in learning from boring fingering and persisted for three months. Later, because no one picked him up, I didn’t stick to it. Later after graduating from primary school, I asked him to learn guitar again. He went to school by car. Although his fingers became swollen, he never complained and tired. Under his insistence, he could gradually play music, when he was tired and mentally painful in school, he would play a song. Music could cure all his wounds. Whenever the school engages in literary and artistic activities, he will carry on his beloved guitar, improvise a song for his classmates and share his happiness with them. Because of music, he felt that every day of his life was brand new. How could life be brand new only by learning in class. If you want to step into the child’s heart, parents should first be thoughtful people in life, and even they have to learn again. When he learned electronic piano, I first learned to learn simple notation, and then taught the child, learn with children, so that you can enter the childlike world unconsciously. Nowadays, some parents think that education is a matter of the school. They hand over their children to the school, and make money by themselves, go to social parties and play mahjong, to enjoy all kinds of adult entertainment consumption. I am not such a parent. I think since I gave birth to him, I must take the responsibility of being a mother, Give the best to the child. I remember that in the view of children in Montessori education law, there is such a view that children are the father of adults. Educator Mr. Tao Xingzhi once wrote a thought-provoking poem: Everyone says that children are small, but nobody knows that people should be careful; If you look down upon children, they are even smaller than children. The sun and moon I spent with my child made me deeply feel the innocence, simplicity, truth and nature of the child, moved me and recalled me; As time went, seeing my child grow up healthily and steadily in life, he has made remarkable achievements in all aspects. I am proud of him and cheer for him. I hope that when my child grows up, he can become a person who is considerate and full of cooperative spirit, and a person who is good at seizing opportunities and realizing ideals. More importantly, let him have extensive knowledge, and let every stage of the child’s life naturally acquire the growth experience and lessons that should be in this stage. For a while, he didn’t have a good meal. I invited my neighbor’s children to eat with him. The neighbor’s children liked the dishes that I cooked a little spicy. I found that the child ate with his friends, which was much more fragrant. He enjoyed the joy of sharing delicious food with his friends. I also asked him to share his toys with his companions. For a while, the child of his father’s colleague was not able to pick up in time, so he asked her to stay at my home after school, I asked my child to tell stories and play games with her. In this way, they will not lose interest in stories or books. The two children turn pages together or draw with their fingers, which is convenient for them to understand the content of the story. Gradually, children can tell stories they are familiar. Read books in fun, discover the truth, goodness and beauty independently, pursue the harmony of the universe, carry forward the essence of virtue contained in one’s own learning nature, and give full play to the function of life, it mainly relies not on interpersonal competition and comparison, but on the incentive emotional factors implied by cultural, creative and communicative activities to deeply and strongly arouse people’s enthusiasm, it encourages people to get rid of the low-level competition that haggle over every ounce, Make it have broad and grand tolerance, lofty ambition, noble feelings and elegant behavior. In addition to studying in the college, he now participates in the second China green coarse grain King Cup host contest of the college. The twelve players who entered the final competed for five awards respectively, and the Twelve players were divided into six groups to show their talents, test their partner’s tacit understanding and host the simulated scene. He cooperated well with his classmates during the performance. Although he didn’t win the prize, I think he has gained growth during the competition. I look forward to seeing him more mature. The so-called true love is to regard children as real masters, respect their personalities, meet their needs and guide their development without seeking the benefits of selfish desires. It is pure and rational love. People will be grateful only when they get something. At the beginning, when God gave her husband a sweetheart, he was so grateful. When the child enters primary school or middle school, he always shows a dissatisfaction with the child. When the child makes a mistake accidentally, or the test result is not satisfactory, he would sink his face. The child was already under pressure. Seeing his father like this, without beating and scolding the child, the child himself would shed tears. Later, I persuaded my husband to have a healthy child, which was good. We should be grateful and learn to worship. When children can walk and talk, we should appreciate and worship him; When children can read and sing, we should appreciate and worship him; when a child makes some progress or success, he should look at him with admiration, and raise his thumb and say gratefully: really good! My childhood as you! Isn’t this happy for all? It should be learned that foreign parents should ask their children whether they are happy at school and whether there are interesting and novel things when they enter the school, and then turn to their study lessons slowly. Isn’t that good? Don’t let children feel that school is boring. Parents are unkind and don’t understand children’s busy people. Our family is an ordinary family, and life is not rich, every important thing in the family is always discussed together, from buying a new house to adding refrigerators and color TV sets, from celebrating the festival to showing filial piety to the elderly, every expense should be explained in front of the children, approval of the children consent. After enjoying the right of democratic financial management, children deeply realize that every item in the family is hard-won and permeated with their parents’ sweat, so they admire their parents even more, I always treat my parents with courtesy and feel happy. We try every means to accompany our children and make them feel the warmth of their parents. Often accompany children to play, watch TV, play football, play Go, raise small animals, practice pen characters, play in middle school and play in school. They also went to the streets with their children to purchase goods and visit relatives and friends, which added infinite fun to their life. Naturally, they could concentrate on their study. The ancients cloud: gou bu jiao, fu zhi guo; jiao bu yan, shi zhi duo. As the saying goes, there is no bad crops, only farmers who can’t grow crops; When crops grow badly, farmers never complain about crops. Therefore, when children develop unhealthy, parents are required to take the initiative to take responsibility, find reasons from themselves and actively solve problems for their children. This is the positive attitude and effective method to solve problems.. People are not grass and plants, which can be ruthless. Therefore, when criticizing, you must be sensible and emotional, so that children can accept criticism and education sincerely and accept your lifelong gift with gratitude. We should carry out transposition thinking and pay attention to various critical Arts under the mentality that I am more sad than you. By telling a story, children can understand the truth; By reasoning, children can understand the harm; By telling a joke, children can laugh through tears. Entering the mysterious and strange forest in the child’s heart, I think love alone is far from enough. To interpret it, we must first walk into the child’s spiritual world, understand the child’s thoughts and thoughts, understand the child’s smiles and the friendship expressed with one hand. Children are a book, from childhood to youth, from youth to youth, parents turn back page by page, but it is very difficult to truly understand it. In a sense, our parents should keep pace with the times and grow up with their children. The advantages they show in front of computers and the Internet make adults far behind. When children play, they squat down and even play with them; When children progress, they share the joy of success with them; When children are unhappy, listen to their troubles sincerely. If parents want to overcome the gap with their children, they must put down their airs and make friends with them to understand and see their inner world. If children can regard you as a bosom friend, then you are a competent parent, and you will become a good teacher and friend of your child, and you will have a green card to enter the child’s heart. If parents can grow up with their children from the very beginning, look at their children with their children’s eyes, and keep a childlike innocence all the time, then as the children grow up, you will find that, while children gradually understand the world, you also gradually understand the book of children and walk into the spiritual world of children. Our children’s heart is a book, which needs to be read carefully to understand. 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