Laity

After all, it was a layman, but in the end it was still Vulgar. Although I am had such a fresh will at the beginning and wanted to find a new way, even if he was questioned by his friends with wait-and-see attitude, he was also heading towards his own direction, I tried hard to show my sincerity and patience, but unexpectedly, it was inevitable to be vulgar in the end. The weakness of Jingnan’s nature makes it indispensable for her to grow up, which has also made our strong heart. For the children’s ups and downs in the process of growing up, I have a natural mentality of meeting water and soil. Jing Nan, who likes kicking the quilt at night, was ill. When she arrived at the hospital after work, her wife was hanging a bottle with Jing Nan. Jing Nan said hello to me briefly, and turned to the cartoon being played. After a simple communication with his wife, he picked up the test paper that Jing Nan had just finished at home, and found three mistakes. One thing I stick to is that I never ask my child to take full marks or first place, but only ask them to learn and understand. For the detected errors, children will be asked to check and modify them first. If they can’t check them, it means that the relevant knowledge is not well mastered, so they need to make up a missed lesson specially, if it is checked out and corrected correctly, it means that it is just careless to master the relevant knowledge, and usually they will seize the opportunity to communicate with it. The same is true this time. I took the test paper and said to her: Jing Nan, there are three mistakes in this test paper! Let’s check together and find them, OK? Maybe she had been ill for a long time, maybe she had a pain in hanging a bottle. Jing Nan was a little tired and said to me, “Dad, please point it out for me. I don’t want to check it. A little annoyed, my child had already started to touch the bottom line of my education, and when Jing Nan was talking, although she was tired, she kept staring at the TV without even looking at me, my authority is a little bit criticized. Press the press to hold the anger, pointing at the big question of the test paper: there is a wrong question in this large part, let’s look for it together! Jing Nan still stared at the TV: Dad, which question did you point out. Find! I raised my voice, and Jing Nan glanced at me with her eyes. She was still a little wayward playing coquetry: No! Dad, you can find it for me. Finally, he couldn’t hold down his anger, pulled him to a corner where nobody was around, and severely criticized her. The tears of Jing Nan came out of her eyes instantly, and the expression of sympathy and pain was written on her face immediately. I knocked off her hand which was carefully pulled at the corner of my clothes, and asked her to stand at the corner of the wall and reflect on herself. Seeing that I was furious, Jing Nan had to stand there and sob, but didn’t dare to make a sound. Seeing that I had criticized Jingnan, my wife pushed me to eat outside with my stomach still empty, and then waved to Jingnan. At this moment, Jingnan was like a grieving child, and immediately threw herself into his wife’s arms. The crying voice gradually jumped out of her voice. Listening to the child’s crying, I gradually calmed down outside! What do I want to cultivate Jingnan? Or what did Jing Nan grow? Is it rectification or guidance? Is it authoritative or communication guide? Does education need to distinguish occasions and time periods? Should Education in illness first ask for children’s wishes? If children are not happy, what is the effect of this kind of education? Can’t I see the morbid condition of Jing Nan in education? I fell into deep remorse. I brought a box of children’s favorite food when I came back to buy rice. Seeing me approaching, Jing Nan snorted at me and turned her head to the wife sitting next to me. I squatted down and shouted softly: Jing Nan! The child ignored me, and I said again: parents shouted, what should I do? Jingnan murmured softly: Don’t hesitate! I leaned close to Jing Nan’s ear and said softly but sincerely: Sorry! I was so anxious that I didn’t ask for your advice or notice that you were sick, which made you unhappy in doing business, didn’t I! Is! Jing Nan turned her head and looked at me: OK, I forgive you! However, Dad, I am also wrong. This is the child’s face, which can’t hide any emotional changes. It is the responsibility of the students to finish today’s work, but there are still three wrong questions in your test paper. What should I do? Jing Nan said with the food I bought in his mouth, a little mixed: Dad, I’m really a little tired now. Why don’t I hang up the bottle and go back to do it again, OK? I nodded a little embarrassed. Yes, I am a layman. Although I don’t want to be vulgar, it is really hard to avoid it. Jingnan, in education, not only I educate you, but also you educate me. Maybe with your help, the responsibility of being a father will be gradually improved, vulgar things like this can still be less, just less! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring

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