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Some people say that I am different from before; Others say that I have changed too much. For these friends and colleagues, I just want to say that I know more instead of changing. If you have to say that it has changed, it should be mature and less young and frivolous before. A long time ago, someone said such a thing to me. You are different from the time when you just came to the company. When you just came here, you can see how thoughtful and passionate you are. Now it’s different. I seldom talk anymore. I feel that you are not so happy. What is happiness? Do you laugh all day long and say something puzzling to make people laugh, or do you want to cater to specific groups in specific scenarios? Don’t talk, just unhappy? So chatter can also make people feel bored. In fact, when we grow up day by day, we will find that there are many words in our life, and the effect achieved by speaking and speaking is the same. You will also find some words that should be said and some words shouldn’t be said. If you say more, you will not only feel very bad, but also make more people bored. Someone once told me whether it was because of getting married and a little pressure, so I put my energy into my life and family. What I said gave me a feeling that I wanted to smoke him. What is the purpose of a man’s work? In the final analysis, isn’t it just to support the family? What kind of dreams, wishes and grandeur of men, in the end, they still have to return to the family. Sometimes this problem needs deep consideration. No matter what you do, how many skills you learn, in the end, you still want to earn money to support your family. A man who lets his wife and children sleep outside, but chatters about life plans and ideals, should give him a slap. After everyone gets married, his energy is naturally put on the family. I often feel that all the pressure comes from life, and the pressure of work is too great, so I can choose to resign. Life is determined not to work. If you say resignation to life, it is a kind of escape. Facing the pressure of life, we must face difficulties and face them positively. We can distribute our experiences to life and work. The performance of work focus is not so passionate. Sometimes work needs certain methods and skills. Many working methods and skills are similar. We can learn from them and sublimate them. But life is different, because everyone’s personality and living habits are different, so every family’s lifestyle will be different, which requires us to spend some time running in and operating. The happiness of every family is different, but the misfortune of every family is the same. Others asked me why you became unhappy and silent. My answer is that I gradually understand how to live and face people and things in life instead of changing. Zhang Pengchao praised on 16th, December, 2014 (prose editor: Ink drops become wounds) the snow in spring

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