The less

I really feel that I am very fragile. Everyone must know my words, so I am afraid of being hurt. Therefore, I often tell myself that when I can cherish it, I really need to cherish it. If I can’t cherish it, I will let it go. Although I will feel sad after letting go, I will be better now, because I know that the less willing I am to lose, the more I will lose. My friend said that he loved his girlfriend, but he really wanted to give up. Because he loved very tired, he loved his girlfriend, but his girlfriend only loved himself. In fact, they have been together for more than 2 years. Every time they want to give up, he also insists. I always think that we should stick to it. However, when he asked me some time ago, I said, “think about it yourself. Why? Because he is already nearly 30 years old, and his family is close to my family. I know their family is anxious. However, her wife, who is relatively young, never worried about getting married. The most important thing is that I really feel tired when I see my friends love me. A long time ago, I always felt that we loved someone so much. Now I still think so. Only once, I asked the group of people, I said, if you love someone very much, but she doesn’t love you at all, will you be with her. People in the group said, “No, never. That’s not the life. Love must belong to both sides. So later I always said that we must stick to love and career. But when we stick to it until we can’t stick to it any more and there is no way to stick to it, then let go boldly. Once a girl on a guy’s very good, on University 2 personal poor, man shy, so woman out of work. Once a woman worked outside, the man went to find him, while the woman bought coffee and asked him to sit in KFC nearby. Later, they graduated. The man said that the money should be managed by himself, and women should listen to him in the future. The woman was very unhappy. Without me at the beginning, there would be no you now. With hard wings, you would fly away. What is the result of the above story? It is the woman who really let the man fly. The past efforts have passed, and the present is the most important thing. The less willing to lose, the more you will lose. Because if men are not allowed to be independent, women may be tired for a lifetime, and may quarrel for a lifetime. In the world, many things are really unclear, and what we can do is to live in the present. Strive for a meaningful life every second. Every second, we live more valuable than ourselves and the people around us. My friend was very tired, and he really loved very lowly. He bought a lot of things for his girlfriend. His girlfriend also hated him for buying bad things everyday, but he seldom bought them for his parents, maybe we shouldn’t be afraid of losing. We are afraid that we can only lose more. Because he always wanted not to let his girlfriend leave, and always lied to his parents. In the end, the world might be gone. It has always been like this, so he can’t find someone who really loves him. Speaking of this, I thought of a sentence in books that the less willing to spend money, the poorer people will be. On the surface, we may think that this doesn’t make sense. People all say that we should save money. But when we think about it seriously, it really makes sense. Because if you are always reluctant to spend money, to be honest, those who are willing to spend money don’t even want to play with you. Because you play with you every day, you are not willing to spend money all the time, so there is really no way to do it. Please invite us once, you can’t invite us many times. For example, for those who love spending money, their chances must be relatively good, their connections are relatively wide, and they love learning. As long as there is an opportunity, they will get up, because they will invest, and those who are afraid of losing always think that they will lose. As a result, the original money is not less, but in the long run, it is really always less. Because everyone is making progress, growing and growing internally, while we are standing still. Maybe you still don’t understand the above. I think it’s a bit similar to what my dad said before. He said that he must take luggage for those powerful people, instead of being a military adviser for those who couldn’t. Thinking of this, I came up with a story that has been circulating in WeChat some time ago: He said that there was always a boss, but every time he interviewed employees, he had the last question, the salary is 3000, but there is a house in a clean community, the rent is 1500, the other is ordinary, the rent is only 300. Let everyone choose, if you choose the 300 one, there is nothing to say, and he killed it at the first sight. Maybe a lot of people will think that if you choose 1500, you will go. What if you meet a master who will spend money to enjoy it. Of course, the people in the story must be much smarter than us. The people in the story are like this. He said that if he 1500, he would definitely not want it if he said he enjoyed it. What is needed is the answer. The purpose of choosing 1500 is to choose the atmosphere in it, the atmosphere, and let yourself grow up. He said that was how he got up. Thinking about many people around us, it really makes sense to think about this story. Because you always have to pay a price for your growth. You can’t want to lose nothing. You always want to get it. That is really impossible. Because, there is a distance in my heart, and all kinds of environments and resources must be matched. If at this time, something must be lost and you cannot grow up, then you must lose boldly. Group has 2 girls, are doing business, and are doing especially good. Anyway, I am younger than me, but my business is much better than mine. Before, 2 PCs are do Taobao. One of them was a crown in several shops he had built. Later he encountered a bottleneck and couldn’t increase his profits. He had been thinking about how to grow up. He thought about it for half a month, later, he chose to go out again to find a job. But this time I only found a big company, based on his shop, and the shop owner asked someone to operate it. Back in that firm starting from 0, 3 months after, that month monthly sales to 100 multi-million, Home business also very good. Because he was equal to remote control the customer service at home to work, he was not at home, but the family was still very good, and he was getting better and better. One of them was the same. She also encountered a bottleneck when she achieved the crown, and there was no way to increase the profit. Moreover, when it came to the off season, the profit was only enough to support the company, what’s his situation later. He opened up the staff, leaving only 3 people. With himself, he thought about improving the execution and reducing the cost. Later, you don’t have to think about it. Maybe you can guess the result. Because the company collapsed. Because he drove the staff, thinking about reducing the cost, and then he spared some money to buy a car. So most of the time, many things are really unclear. Those who are not willing to lose are really lost in the end. And those who are willing to give up, in the end, many of them are doing well. Once there was a man who did a big business, and later he also went to the countryside to grow vegetables. She said that she couldn’t afford such a big business. But her business is getting better and better. Whether it’s career or love, we really have to dare to give up most of the time, but this giving up is not just a casual one, but only when we can’t stick to it, and when we can still stick to it, we must stick to it. As for a sentence on career network, I think it is classic. He said that he would rather be the poor in the rich circle than the rich in the poor circle. Most of the time, we really have to work hard to move forward. Do one thing to make yourself worse, then don’t do it. My QQ:838504315, welcome to add. Likes (Prose editor: Ke Er) the snow in spring

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